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I am 2 1, and my mother remarried and had her own children. What should I do?
I see your problem, son. I think you should firmly support your mother. Your mother's remarriage and having children can increase family stability. At the same time, your mother and stepfather form a new family, and it is fair for stepfather to have children. They have the right to have the crystallization of love.

Tell me a real example. In the 1980s, the reform and opening-up policy had reached thousands of households, when the night market had just become popular. After the divorce, my wife took her 6-year-old daughter to marry the man she liked, and both of them worked in the company. In order to subsidize the family, we discussed using the evening time to do some small business in the night market.

The night market is downstairs. Men do some preparatory work, get boiling water and help move tables, chairs and benches. The woman is mainly responsible for greeting guests at night. This life lasted for more than half a year. One night, there were many guests, and the wife asked her husband to send another bottle of boiled water an hour later. Time flies in a busy night market. My wife's husband is watching TV, or he may be attracted by the plot on TV. He asked his wife's daughter to send her mother a thermos bottle. At that time, there was a wave of guests, not many, and Juan's wife thought it better to go by herself. On the stairs home, she saw her daughter sitting on the stairs crying. The thermos bottle that fell on the stairs scalded her daughter's calf, and there were big bubbles on her leg. His wife's heart was bleeding and she went home with her daughter on her back. Her husband was still watching TV, and her wife couldn't stand it. Even if she liked it, she decided to divorce her husband for her daughter. She believes that her daughter's scald this time is entirely caused by her husband's indifference. If it was his daughter, she wouldn't let the child deliver water alone at such a young age.

And you are 2 1 year old this year, not the age of the little girl in the example just now, and there is basically no problem getting along with your stepfather. Besides, in a few years, you will set foot on the society, leave your mother, fall in love, have your own family and life. So who will accompany your mother? For your mother, if she remarries and has children of her own, the remarried family will be much more stable. You don't have to worry about her happiness for the rest of her life, and no one cares or knows about her illness. When a mother has a child of her own, it is your blood relatives, that is, your own relatives. In the past, you loved and cared about your mother alone, but later the three of you also loved and cared about her. It's good for you and your mother. You should bless her!