Justin and Zhang Xinyi became popular after the variety show "Men Do Housework" and were praised as fairy tale couples by netizens.

They get along with tolerance and understanding everywhere. Even after they get married and have children, they have to give each other a sense of ceremony, which many people envy.

So, how is the economic power of their family distributed?

In Men's Housework, Zhang Xinyi said that she and Yuan Hong didn't care about each other's money. Justin's money was under the care of his mother, and her own money was saved.

In fact, it subverted my imagination. I always thought Justin's money should be given to Zhang Xinyi. Unexpectedly, Zhang Xinyi is so open-minded in terms of money.

In many families, the woman will consider the man's economy. After all, having mastered each other's money has mastered the initiative at home.

Du Like Ruoxi and Kevin Yan, Kevin Yan gave all his money to Du Ruoxi for safekeeping. On the other hand, if women have no control over men's economy, they will become very insecure.

For example, Ruofeng and Niania Qi, Niania Qi did not understand Ruofeng's financial situation, but what she showed in her marriage was distrust and anxiety.

However, if you think about it carefully, does a woman's sense of security in marriage really come from mastering a man's economy?

Zhang Xinyi ignored Justin's money and willingly let Justin's mother keep it. She showed more happiness in her marriage.

What's the point? It is Zhang Xinyi's ability to make money, from which her backing and charm come.

When a woman is rich, she doesn't care how much money a man can give her. After all, I can satisfy myself with what you give me, and I can please myself with what you don't give me. This is the biggest initiative in marriage.

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When a woman has the ability to make money, she won't haggle over every ounce economically. My friend Xiaohua married a rich man, with a good family background, and he is good at making money himself.

Xiaohua is an ordinary family with a monthly income of several thousand yuan. Many people envy Xiaohua for marrying a rich husband, but Xiaohua often quarrels over money.

The biggest point of the quarrel is that Xiaohua is very concerned about whether the other party spends money on himself. In fact, that man is not a stingy person. He will give Xiaohua thousands of shoes on her birthday and a camera that Xiaohua has admired for a long time on Valentine's Day.

But when playing outside, the man occasionally doesn't pay for Xiaohua, and Xiaohua will think that this man doesn't love her. Over time, two people quarrel more and more times.

The man thinks he can bear most of the family expenses, but he married his wife instead of his adopted daughter, and she should have her own financial ability.

Xiaohua thinks that since you are my husband and you are richer than me, you should bear all the expenses for me. I don't know how many women like Xiaohua take it for granted that men spend money for themselves.

If you don't have the financial ability, you will only be looked down upon by the other party and become discouraged.

In fact, Cobana Eva's husband's contradiction, if Xiaohua has the ability to make money and can meet all her needs, she will not care so much about whether that man spends money for herself.

She cares so much, just hoping that the other party will pay for her own needs.

However, marriage is never dependent. Everyone should be responsible for everything. It makes sense that the other party is willing to give it to you. What you ask will only make you cheap in marriage.

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In the first half of her life, Luo Zijun worked as a housewife for six years, which ended in Chen's infidelity.

In those six years, Luo Zijun was really conscientious, taking care of his family and her husband. But look at her expenses. She wants to wear luxury goods, carry big bags and small bags and travel abroad. Her life is very nourishing, but it is based on Chen's economy.

She knew that Chen valued a sofa very early, so she placed an order and said to Chen, "Although it was with your money, I gave it to you."

Think about it, will I really be happy if you give me something with my money?

At the time of divorce, in-laws have to fight for custody of their children. In the face of Luo Zijun's resistance, they confidently said that Chen Jiali bought nothing.

At this time, Luo Zijun realized that he could not protect his children without the ability to make money. Failure to make money means that marriage is worthless.

Over time, it will also be looked down upon by the other half.

Luo Zijun spent Chen's money because she thought Chen would be willing to support herself, but she didn't expect that human nature is cruel. After supporting you for a long time, your charm disappeared.

For many men, they can bear part of the expenses at home, but they hope that women can share the economic pressure with themselves.

Some people may say that it is not easy for a woman to be a full-time wife at home. Is it worthless to take care of everything at home?

Of course it is valuable, but can your value be recognized?

Do you still have confidence and dignity when you raise your hand to buy an oil, salt, sauce and vinegar?

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A woman's ability to make money is her hardest backer. For example, Tang Jing in "My First Half Life" stepped onto the position of an executive with her own ability, and also bought herself a luxury house and luxury car.

She is always confident and fearless. Even if He Han leaves him, her world will only collapse briefly and will recover soon.

Because she won't leave a man like Luo Zijun, and she can't even afford tomorrow's food. Tang Jing once said, "Without much love, you need a lot of money."

For women, love is of course good, but love is changing rapidly and illusory. Only money can resist risks for you, pull you out of the mire and give you the strength to survive.

So is Zhang Xinyi who can marry her husband AA. She is capable enough not to be afraid that a man's money is not in her hand.

A lot of things, only if you own them, you won't always ask for them.

Husband and wife can also have the same status.

Why do women try to make money?

Some netizens' answers are:

"Try to make money, not because you love money more! But in this life, I don't want to feel inferior to anyone because of money, nor do I want to embarrass anyone because of money. I only hope that my parents are old and I can share the burden. I won't be shy when my children need it. "

I deeply believe that a woman's ability to make money is the confidence to face life bravely, and it is also the premise for her to be evenly matched with each other in marriage.