Being sick is not terrible. What scares me is that I don't know why I got this disease. Once the cause is unclear, it can't be carved from the roots, and the source of the disease will be repeated. People who often know the reasons will make changes quickly. People who don't understand the disease are always opinionated, which is different. Even the same disease will have different results. On May 8, Hong called, and as soon as he got through, he said in a hurry and brought tears, Teacher, save your life. My father just found stomach cancer. What should I do? Is there any way? I responded to him quickly. Don't worry, Hong. Take your time. When did you check it? He said that early gastric cancer was just diagnosed today. I asked again, what is your family's suggestion? At this point, he was anxious again. Ah, it's the result of discussion at home that makes me anxious.
I don't know how to persuade them. Both mom and dad want to go to Shanghai for surgery. They always think that doctors in Shanghai are the most authoritative. I then asked, what do you have in mind? His voice suddenly sank down and said, teacher, I don't keep my word at home. Do you have any good ideas? I asked your father why he got this disease. What are his usual habits? He didn't hesitate for a second, saying that he loved drinking, being angry and nagging. Then I will ask him, can you share his health concept with him? Let's talk about the relationship between habits and diseases. Alas, he said helplessly, my father has been depressed all his life, and I can't listen to me. Sure enough, the next day they went to Shanghai, found the best doctor to have an operation and started chemotherapy according to the arrangement of the hospital. The red team returned to a healthy direction, and he still knew it through study, thinking that it would be divided into three parts and raised in seven parts.
Now that I have chemotherapy, can I give my father some nutrition and warm up at the same time? Two days later, I got another call from him. He said helplessly, teacher, dad is too stubborn, and I really can't help it. I put the weighed nutrition on my father's mouth, and it pushed it away directly and said angrily, how can you be worse than a doctor? I'm so ill, what's the use of drinking? Looking at this situation, I can only suggest that he give his father some conditioning from his life and make some changes from his diet to make his nutrition more abundant. So, my daughter began to learn to cook nutritious meals with me, make vegetable juice or stir-fry with all kinds of vegetables, and cook porridge with all kinds of whole grains. Unexpectedly, she was scolded by her father. You put so many vegetables together, don't you know that the dishes are the same? Know nothing but fuck around, and then push the bowl away.
The reaction after chemotherapy came. His father began to vomit and nausea, and his mood fluctuated abnormally. We communicate every two days, always hoping to find a breakthrough in the chat and squeeze our heads. In the end, we didn't think of a good way. One day, we will talk again, so remember the teacher's class, let him learn and let him reflect on himself. As a result, he was scolded by his father, saying that he was bored to death and turned it off quickly. This time, Hong was completely desperate, so he watched his father die in pain, and then there was no chance to help his father. In the second stage of chemotherapy, my father's body suddenly dropped rapidly and white blood cells could not come up. I raised the white needle again and again, but it didn't meet the standard of chemotherapy. Not only that, the patient's state began to become unpalatable, eating less and less, sleeping less and less, and his mood became extremely irritable.
Later, I got all kinds of pimples and had difficulty swallowing. I can hardly eat, and I can only rely on infusion bottles to maintain my life. When he went to the hospital to give him a critically ill notice, his father called him to the bed and said in his ear with difficulty, why don't you give me that thing to try? At that moment, looking at his father's weakness, his eyes opened slightly, and his stubbornness was finally put down, and red tears suddenly poured out like a spring. Afraid of being seen by his father, he quickly turned around, suppressed his emotions, wiped his tears, walked out of the ward and dialed my phone. Teacher, teacher, dad finally agreed. Can I give it to dad now? Hearing this, my happiness is mixed with helplessness. Maybe so, just to make you regret it. Now, you should be prepared in your heart.
After all, the body has reached this point. It was only five days after this call, and he said that his father had left. After this incident, I was deeply depressed. Obviously, I'm still in the early stages. Obviously, I was still alive before the treatment. Why can I leave in just five months? He was only 65 years old, and he was troubled by helpless emotions, which made me feel deeply sorry and incompetent. Unexpectedly, in the same month, another thing happened, which made me deeply gratified and strengthened my decision. I remember that I was still on holiday in Japan that day. One day my niece pulled our family into a group, and I was stared at by the news. Aunt, dad is ill, and the result is not good. Lung cancer, please pray for my father. I'll call him right away to ask about the situation.
My niece said that my brother had been coughing, so she went to the hospital for examination. When she found shadows in her lungs, the doctor suggested going to a big hospital for examination. After three times, she was diagnosed with lung cancer. Unexpectedly, what is even more frightening is that in just 20 days, there was only a shadow as big as a fingernail at the beginning of the examination, and now it is all over the lung, and finally it is diagnosed as small cell lung cancer. The doctor said this kind of cancer has the fastest metastasis. I asked what the hospital's treatment plan was. My niece said that the treatment is divided into four stages, the first stage is chemotherapy, the second stage is radiotherapy, the third stage is bath therapy and the fourth stage is gene therapy. Then I ask, what is medical treatment and what is gene therapy? My niece said that medical treatment is non-small cell cancer, which will transfer to the head in the future. In order to prevent it in advance, then, after chemotherapy, the lesion needs to be in the brain in advance. Radiotherapy and gene therapy are if these three methods cannot be controlled,
It costs 50,000 yuan a month to maintain immunity and prolong life through gene therapy. Put down the phone, I collapsed in the hotel bed, and the sudden news made my family and I panic and hurried back to my brother. Anyway, I will try my best to help my brother this time. So the first time I saw her, I made a quality inspection form with my brother to find out why. I always thought that the more symptoms, the higher the risk of serious illness. After carefully filling it out for my brother, I was surprised to find that he only had 17 symptoms. Then I will ask my brother, which of these symptoms is the most uncomfortable? She said cough. I asked him how long it had been, and he said that two months ago, he coughed on time at three o'clock every night. It was only ten minutes at first, and then it became longer and longer, sometimes two hours.
Every time he coughs, he wants to check it at dawn tomorrow, and he will be fine during the day, so he is too lazy to go. So he repeated, back and forth for more than two months, more and more serious. Finally, he decided to have an examination. Then I'll ask him, do you know why you got this disease? How did your body react before? Or did something happen to you? Hearing this, my brother lowered his voice and looked up at the kitchen. Oh, I guess it's angry. By the way, I feel timid when I mention it. He said that because the granddaughter and daughter-in-law have different views, they are both very angry. He was so angry that he dropped all the plates. Later, he found that he often coughed. At that moment, his brother was still angry. Unexpectedly, I used a story to make my brother suddenly realize that he not only understood the cause, but also actively cooperated with me to do back conditioning.
I asked him, brother, do you remember his old house in our house? He said of course he remembered. I then asked, do you know why this house collapsed? He said it was raining. I asked again, then why didn't other houses collapse when it rained? What about our house? She said, because of our old house. I asked again, there are not many old houses, why don't other people's houses collapse? Didn't our family always leak rain before? The rain is too heavy. Then I asked him if the big house collapsed because of the rain, or because the house was too old to be repaired, so it was lost in the rain? He said, both. At this time, I changed the subject. People don't get so sick for a long time because of business. It is impossible to get it in ten or twenty years. Then I said, cost, first, I am afraid of cold, second, I am afraid of smoking, third, I am afraid of staying up late, and fourth, I am afraid of taking medicine.
The fifth is dust, the sixth is that you don't exercise, and the seventh is that you are angry and you often use pesticides. The words sound just fell. Strictly speaking, I seem to have all these. My brother has been on the roadside for more than 40 years. He has done several businesses and opened restaurants and hotels. He put a ground scale on the side of the road. He sleeps all year round without taking off his clothes. He and his sister-in-law take turns on duty. He can't eat, talk and drink. Besides, he smokes at least two or three packs of cigarettes every day. I asked him again, do you smoke and get up in the morning to vomit? I said, look, there is a smoking machine in the kitchen. Do you get some waste oil occasionally? He said yes. Where's our trail? Will the engine burn out? He said yes, and you will find that the chances of smoking will not get louder and louder. He said yes. Then I ask, if you smoke and spit the next morning, does it mean that your lungs have the ability to excrete garbage? If you can't spit it out, does it mean your lung function is good? He said, definitely not good. Then I asked him, how many years have you not spit? At least 20 years. The next communication with him made her suddenly realize that my brother liked to catch fish when he was young. He goes whenever he is free, day and night. He never stops in summer and winter, and sometimes he is very tired. He sleeps in bed after catching fish at night. This experience lasted nearly 50 years. When he realized that he had the disease, it was caused by years of bad habits step by step. I firmly told him that as long as I knew how the disease came, I would know how to send it back. Like a piece of land connected together. You throw stones in it. After a long time, isn't crops planted in this land? What should I do? Should we clean up the rubbish? He said yes, you are very professional now, how can it make sense?
At that moment, my brother fully recognized what I said. When he finds the reason, he will have confidence in himself. In fact, as long as patients understand how the disease comes, they will certainly cooperate with the living habits behind them. I also joked with her that it was a good thing that I was angry and brought out your lung disease, just like the house collapsed in the rain. I don't know how serious the disease will be if it is not found in time. You should thank others. At that moment, I could feel the whole atmosphere at home suddenly relaxed. I know, the doctor's operation is clever and the treatment is advanced. No one can save him if he has a bad attitude. I know that his health is due to fear of cold, lack of qi and blood, and decreased immunity. What I can do is, no matter what the doctor's treatment is, I will try my best to help him raise his temperature and improve his immunity. My brother was treated by western medicine, because he helped him find the cause, and he also took Chinese medicine.
Moreover, the diet plan was increased, the temperature was raised, the mentality was changed, and he was helped to adjust comprehensively in immune synthesis. In order to fully understand his living habits, I accompanied him personally, and my brother had eight days to teach him how to eat and drink twice. To my relief, even if she no longer likes it, he will insist on drinking it. Every day, I will talk about some happy topics. From childhood anecdotes to his affairs, she will be very happy every day, because I know the emergence of diseases, and my mentality and emotions account for 90%. One day, I called him and asked him how much nutrition was left. He's on the other end of the phone. Let my sister-in-law take a look at him. My sister-in-law said I didn't see it and I didn't know where it was. At this moment, I heard an angry voice from the other end of the phone. Didn't you see that cupboard? The first time I saw my brother so angry because he was sick, then I quickly told him, why are you talking to others?
Do you know how your sister-in-law helped you buy a bed, wash it, accompany it and raise money for you these days? Then I told him what you think. A little girl married you and gave birth to three children, so beautiful. How can you talk to her like that and fight with you? Sorry to apologize to my sister-in-law right away. We are all used to it. I said that won't do. You must apologize to her. Why can you do this to her with your own life? Bullying others, my brother said, I know, I know, then I will tell him that if you are full of gratitude and have love in your heart, after all, your body will recover faster and more beneficial. On the contrary, if a patient always thinks that people around him should be considerate, your mood will actually be worse, but it will be very unfavorable to his physical recovery. So when I came to see my brother again, I specially asked my brother to hold my sister-in-law's hand and sincerely thanked her for her companionship and care for so many years.
Sister-in-law was also moved, and finally a miracle happened. My brother's patients in the same ward all lost their hair in the second stage. In the third stage, someone appeared and the white blood cells couldn't go up, so he had to stop and wait for someone to spit. Someone in the next hospital bed spent 4 million yuan, also used gene therapy, and finally left. However, my brother began to lose his hair in the tenth stage, and successfully insisted on radiotherapy and chemotherapy in the fifth stage, including bath therapy in the later stage. One day, seven months later, my niece's phone came, and I bowed my head and heard her calling aunt. Then she sobbed in an unusually trembling voice and said that dad's inspection report had come out and all the indicators had completely returned to normal. At the moment, I was in tears on the other end of the phone, and my heart that had been hanging for months was finally put down. Occasionally, I worry. Although the indicators have recovered, what should I do if my living habits relapse as before?
Fortunately, two and a half years later, my brother has completely returned to normal life. He can eat and sleep, and he has gained 20 Jin. Now I live an idyllic life with my sister-in-law in my hometown and become a health expert. I usually run, listen to songs and tidy up my own small vegetable garden. My brother's state also completely relieved me. My brother's illness changed our whole family. My brother studied moxibustion, my third brother studied acupuncture, and my sister refused to supplement nutrition before. Now I send it to him and he accepts it all. It's true that there is always a silver lining behind the dark clouds. A man fell ill and saved the whole family. Two reverse experiences made me deeply understand that if I can't help the patient find the cause, I can't let him know from beginning to end, and this will not change. If you can't find the direction of recovery, what will happen if your brother comes into contact with these four treatments? What will happen if he doesn't cooperate with Chinese medicine?
What will happen if you don't insist on three-part rule and seven-part care? Your friend's father let me know that if a person is ill and doesn't realize how his illness came from, he can only wait passively in the end, even if the operation is successful, he will not cooperate with the three-part treatment and seven-part care. With the experience of my friend's father, I said to all my clients, if I can't make it clear at once, will you give me three, five or even more chances? If I don't find the cause now, I will definitely die until I find it. Because I don't want the patient to miss the chance of recovery because I didn't make it clear, the patient who doesn't know the cause will be stubborn, and finally he will take his life to experience this life-and-death parting to understand the results and regrets brought by a person's stubbornness if he is sick, so I always ask myself to make it clear when communicating with you now, so that the other party can know and understand.
I sincerely hope that everyone around you can hear this lesson. Don't be too stubborn and willful in the face of diseases, understand the laws of diseases and cherish life, because stubborn people pin their hopes on the outside world and give up on themselves once they are disappointed, while those who find the cause will pin their hopes on themselves and urge them to change themselves, which will be safer and more hopeful. After listening to today's lesson, please think back. Is there a situation around you where patients are stubborn, unwilling to change, unable to find the cause, unable to solve the disease or even worsen? If so, please leave a message below. I believe that your sharing will definitely alert more people.