However, not all old people will have a happy old age, and some old people will have an unhappy old age for objective or subjective reasons. So learn to be prepared for danger in times of peace, avoid these factors in advance, bypass these painful factors, and let yourself grow old happily. ...
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Although money is not everything at any time, it is crucial at a critical moment because it can cope with all kinds of unpredictable risks in the future.
If an old man is old and has no savings, when he needs money, he finds that only money can solve many problems for the rest of his life, but it is too late.
If you want to live a happy and stable old age, then saving money is the foundation of providing for the elderly, and having money can make your old age more confident. Sometimes, when I have money, I don't feel the importance of money, and I don't feel the pain of having no money in my life. However, once you have no money, you will find that your life is stretched everywhere, and even in a certain state, you will become No Country for Old Men, and you will have no dignity in your later years. Whether it is rural or urban, it is difficult to get old, and it is even more difficult to have no money.
Old people without money should be miserable and wronged in their later years. If raising children is to prevent old age, but when children are also running for their own lives, and as an old man, they reach out to their daughters for pocket money or living expenses, the feeling of looking at their children's faces or being cautious is against their will and will affect the harmony of the whole family. At the same time, as an old man, knowing that his position and influence in the family are inseparable from his own value, that is, the so-called money component, sometimes relying on his children to support the elderly will be tied behind him and have no sense of freedom.
Therefore, don't underestimate money at any time, and accumulate old capital. Only in this way can we truly meet difficulties calmly, have surplus food in our pockets, and live a happy and dignified life in our later years.
Young couples are always with their partners. No matter how fierce the quarrel is, even if there is a struggle in life, there is no overnight hatred between husband and wife. Even if it is the cold war or mutual injury, there will be someone to accompany you to dinner, and there will be someone to accompany you to meet the sunrise and sunset every day. Therefore, the wife is the only one to rely on, knowing the cold and knowing the heat, knowing each other and dating each other.
If you don't know how to cherish, let alone care, when your wife is alive, you will find a lonely and miserable life, cooking and washing alone, no partner to talk to, no triviality of salt, vinegar and tea, and no one who really cares. I will think of my wife's kindness, which will greatly reduce my happiness in my later years and increase my loneliness and sadness. If it is too lonely to find another person to live with, it is also a very complicated matter, because the old couple have no bridges and ties-children. Therefore, at that time, it will only increase your troubles and pains, but you will regret not cherishing your partner who has been with you for most of your life. Then it will show how unfortunate No Country for Old Men is, and it will be even more unrealistic to find someone to live with.
No matter how you spend your life, the moment to really see your life curtain call is not others, but your other half, because the person who can really accompany you to the last moment of life without regret is not others, only his wife, who cares about your warmth and coldness, knows your joys and sorrows, and cares about your health, is the greatest happiness in life and the source of happiness in old age.
Although Mr. Xu Yuanchong is 96 years old, his good mental outlook of smiling and calm is inseparable from his good mentality. Some people may say that he is too successful, so his material conditions, medical conditions and spiritual life conditions have all been achieved, which has created his good mentality. In fact, he had an operation in his sixties. At that time, the doctor told him to live for ten years at most, but he is now 96 years old. Because he didn't just think about his illness or imagine his ten years, he was sad, but looking for his own life fun. He believes that the most important thing in a person's life is to create fun and find fun, and he is even more eager to learn Chinese, English and French translation.
As an old man, don't frown because you are old, don't expect too much, don't think too much, it will only increase your troubles and burdens. Instead, leave yourself a free psychological space, so that you can accept some things more easily, accept the reality that you are getting older gradually, and keep a positive and optimistic attitude. People in this life, whether they feel inferior, fail or lose, should not be too hard on themselves and blame themselves, but praise themselves with a positive attitude, thus having a positive impact on their later years. When you are disappointed, you should learn to be calm, control your emotions and temper, and keep yourself in a state of anxiety and tension. Try to actively participate in life, keep a happy attitude, cultivate your broad mind, establish good interpersonal relationships with others, and thus release bad attitudes, which is conducive to your physical and mental health and ease in your later years.
When people are old and in a good mood, life will be happy. On the contrary, when they are in a bad mood, there will be too many negative emotions. Therefore, the mentality of the elderly is completely controlled by themselves. The happiness and mentality of the old man outweigh everything.
Some elderly people do not cherish their health, but drink or smoke. When you are in good health, you always talk big and feel that you are in excellent health. However, only when you lose your health can you find yourself satisfied with food and poetry. Without health, you will be busy all your life.
The happiness of life lies not in fame and fortune, but in health, and the strength of the body lies not in the movement of money.
Some elderly people don't plan their health and exercise in advance, let alone plan their bodies reasonably in advance. When my body suddenly appeared many symptoms, even lost some self-care ability and was completely paralyzed, I found that a healthy body was the backbone of the old people's later life. An old man who has lost the ability to take care of himself will face many challenges of dignity and freedom in life, psychology and spirit. He must always accept that he has no right to move freely. After a long time, mental torture and physical torture will kill a person's willpower, so how happy is it? As long as you don't suffer more, as long as your children are filial enough, you are lucky in misfortune. On the contrary, I will feel that my future life is too torturous and painful.
Therefore, a healthy body is the foundation of happiness for the elderly. You should learn to keep good habits and don't hurt your body easily.
The happiness of the old man lies in himself. At any time, it is better to rely on yourself to eat by the sky. When you are old, it is better to rely on your own children. Only when you have enough savings, a caring wife, a positive attitude and a healthy body can you be able to prevent risks in your later years. Cherish early, cherish early and prepare early, because happiness is for those who are prepared, and happiness in old age lies in early preparation and accumulation.
Therefore, before you are old, you should know how to cherish your body, save some money for yourself, treat your partner sincerely, face the real life optimistically, and accumulate strength for your happy old age.
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