How to Cultivate Children Before entering primary school, many parents worry that their parenting style is not comprehensive enough, and children's intellectual development is very important, but it is more important to cultivate children's ability. Let me see with you how children should be trained before entering primary school.

How to cultivate children's 1 habits before entering primary school?

Parents should consciously adjust their children's biological clocks from two or three weeks before school starts. Many primary school teachers have said that first-grade children will habitually doze off in the afternoon class. Therefore, the child's biological clock must be adjusted as soon as possible. Go to bed before 9 o'clock in the evening, get up around 7 o'clock in the morning, and slowly cancel the noon nap. You can listen to music at noon, let the children relax, learn to close their eyes, and gradually transition until the nap is cancelled.

Self-care habit

Going to primary school means starting to be independent and needs to cultivate children's self-care ability. Some simple housework, such as making the bed, folding the quilt, putting the dishes and chopsticks, should be done by the children themselves as far as possible. At the same time, teach children to know their own pencil boxes, use pencils, erasers and rulers, and put them in designated positions after use; Practice tidying up the schoolbag: enlarge the book below, put the small book on it, and put other sundries in the pocket (small rag, water cup fixed); After the study, tidy up the desktop in time and keep it tidy. Let children learn to manage their own affairs step by step, and let children study and live in an orderly way after entering primary school.

The habit of listening

Some pupils can't remember their homework at first because their language comprehension ability can't keep up. Poor language understanding will also seriously affect the effect of children's learning. To cultivate children's language understanding ability, we must first cultivate children's listening habits. Guide children to sit or stand naturally when listening to stories or others, keep their eyes on the speaker and listen to others quietly. Talk to children more often, and the language should be as standardized and accurate as possible. When assigning tasks to children, one instruction gradually transitions to tasks with multiple instructions to help children improve their language understanding.

The habit of learning

Parents should pay attention to the correct sitting posture of their children when reading and writing. The child is in a long physical stage, and if he is not careful, his spine is easily deformed. When reading and writing, the child should sit up straight, with his eyes about one foot away from the book, his pen tip one inch away from his fingers, and punch his chest from the table. Never read while lying down. Don't read in dark or strong light. Watch TV for no more than an hour every day. After studying for a period of time, go outdoors or overlook to protect your eyesight.

Time management habits

Doing things slowly and doing homework for a long time are common problems of many freshmen. Before guiding children to do something, such as drawing and listening to stories, they should be fully prepared (drinking water, going to the toilet, etc.). ), and once they start, they are not allowed to walk back and forth under various excuses; Assign tasks to children. If the child finishes the task ahead of time, let the child arrange the rest time freely. Let children experience the fun of managing time, establish a time concept, and learn to arrange their own study and rest time.

Interpersonal communication habits

Most children have no good interpersonal skills when they enter school. If parents can cultivate their children's relevant personality qualities, their adaptability to school life will be greatly enhanced. These qualities include:

Self-confidence-children feel good about themselves, are usually more willing to try new things and can communicate with others boldly.

Independence-children can do whatever they can.

Perseverance-do things well from beginning to end.

Cooperation-observing public order, being able to get along with others and learning to share with others.

Young and convergent common sense

Children will go through three periods after entering school, and their performance will be different in each period. What deserves parents' attention is:

The first period is the excitement period. Children are very excited before entering school, too excited to sleep, full of pride, and have the desire to be a good student.

The second period is boredom. About a month after school started, the novelty gradually disappeared. In addition, I feel constrained by discipline in school life and nervous in life. Learning knowledge is not as easy as I thought. Some children feel burdened and don't want to go to school.

The third period is the adaptation period. After two months of school, if the school and family can cooperate well, children can quickly adapt to and love school life. Therefore, it is very important for parents to help their children live a good life.

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From kindergarten to primary school, it is undoubtedly the first big leap in life for children. At this special stage, parents don't have to worry too much, let their children adapt to the new environment, meet the challenges of growth and meet the beautiful primary school life with the good habits accumulated daily.

How to train children before entering primary school II. Living habits

1, schedule. The primary school stipulates that you must arrive at school before 8 o'clock. The headmaster said that many pupils were nervous and embarrassed when they were late. Usually, children are late because their parents overslept. Parents are advised to adjust the time. Children in Grade One are ashamed and will be ashamed of being late. They dare not enter the school gate.

2. Organize the project. In June, children can organize their own schoolbags. Children can organize everything they need in primary schools. Please choose the simplest and not fancy pencil box. Don't buy a pencil with an eraser. It is dangerous for children to point their pens at themselves when using them. Recommended: Zhonghua brand pencil.

3. Personal hygiene.

4. Independent lunch. Because there is only one teacher in primary school to watch lunch, unlike the life teacher and class teacher in kindergarten who rush to feed, what primary school teachers do most in September is to teach children to peel shrimp, and a bunch of children begin to lose sight of shrimp. It is suggested that these foods that need manual operation can be practiced at home. Including eating chicken wings, ribs and so on. Now parents even cut apples into small pieces, and children's teeth can't be exercised, so it is a problem to change teeth. Children are advised to eat apples by themselves.

Don't take other people's things casually. How could this happen to a child? Please don't put the word "thief" on children. Ask the child first: "Why?" Everything happens for a reason. If the child likes to take it, tell the child that his parents can afford it, and tell the child to take something else, please return it. Please remember to say sorry.

Second, study habits

1, the habit of doing things quietly.

2. Listening habits. Many parents take part in half-day activities in primary schools, only paying attention to how many times the teacher invites my children in a class? How many times does my child raise his hand? How many times did you answer this question? While ignoring a word more important than "speaking", that is "listening". I have to praise the profoundness of China's writing here. Literally, the word "listening" means that "listening" precedes "speaking". In other words, "listening" is actually more important than "speaking", especially in children's early education. Parents are advised to pay more attention to whether your child understands what the teacher says in class. Especially in Chinese and English classes, because primary school mathematics is relatively simple, the math requirement of senior one is addition and subtraction within 20, and most children can learn mathematics in class as long as they listen.

3. The habit of thinking hard. The gap between top students and ordinary students may be the gap of "thinking".

Children like to ask why? Please ask parents to support their children to solve this problem. Instead of: you are so annoying, I don't know. Change "You are so annoying" to "Maybe we can ask the computer for help, maybe we can do an experiment."

4. The habit of careful observation.

5. The habit of studying within the specified time.