If children don't know what gratitude is and can't restrain themselves, they will easily become baiwenhang. Parents should never neglect their children when they are in charge of them. Arbitrary indulgence will also make your children more rebellious. Not only will the children of baiwenhang not be welcomed by others, but they may also hit a wall everywhere. Next, let's see what happened to the baiwenhang.
What about Sun Liyang's "baiwenhang"? I believe everyone is familiar with Sun Li. She is a famous actress in our country. Sun Li, who once won the love of countless people for filming and became a first-line star, has been doing public welfare instead of squandering, and has won the respect of many insiders. However, when Sun Li sponsored others to go to school, a wonderful thing happened.
A college student called Xiang. Because his family is poor, he can't afford to go to college, but he studies well. Sun Li wanted to help him finish his studies when he was filming. It can be said that Sun sponsored him for four years.
At first, Xiang was very grateful to Sun Li. Thanks to her help, she was successfully admitted to the university. But after a long time, Xiang's heart changed. He thinks that Sun Li's support for himself is correct. After going to college, Xiang seems to be a different person. Not only does he dislike studying, but he also spends a lot of money.
When Sun Li learned about it, she was very disappointed with her and stopped funding Christina. Christina was very angry and threatened to destroy Sun Li. In desperation, Sun made the whole story public, because she dropped out of college before she graduated, and she had to find an ordinary job in her hometown to make a living.
In fact, life is like this. It's not like you think good intentions will be rewarded. It's normal for Christina. They just want to enjoy the benefits brought by others, but they don't know how to repay them. Such a child is the most typical feature of baiwenhang.
How do parents educate their children to avoid raising "baiwenhang"? 1, don't spoil the children.
Most parents think it is not easy to raise a child, so they must be kind to them and not let them suffer. So it is understandable that parents love their children very much, but your overindulgence is likely to harm your children.
Children who live in such an environment for a long time will become self-centered and selfish. They have no idea what gratitude is. They only care about themselves. They just want to be happy and don't care about other people's feelings.
2. Make children gentle
In daily life, parents should teach their children to learn to control their emotions. No matter what happens, they should remain understanding and gentle. Only when children are calm enough can they better understand the difficulties in other people's lives and know how to look at problems from each other's perspective. Such children like to be grateful to others for discovering the beauty in life.
Parents should set an example.
If parents want to cultivate a grateful child, they should first set a good example, because children have strong imitation ability when they are young. Usually see parents have feelings for others, then children will imitate learning.