2. You can be secretly happy when others compliment you, but you can't take it seriously, because nine times out of ten it is a lie; You can be a little unhappy when others criticize you, but don't be angry, because nine times out of ten it is true.
3. Without economic independence, there is a lack of self-esteem; Without ideological independence, there is a lack of autonomy; Without personality independence, there is a lack of self-confidence.
The communication between people is more about accepting each other than changing each other. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war. Fate is not a matter of opportunity, but a matter of choice. This is not something we have to wait for, but something we have to achieve. The man who walks straight is smart because he finds a shortcut; People who bend the straight road are open-minded because they can see more scenery.
5. Without inner peace, there is no external peace. Between the ups and downs of life, there will always be some feelings that need to be quietly remembered; There will always be some pain that needs to be experienced by a person; There will always be a way to walk alone; There will always be things to face calmly.
6, the real busy is not busy, but busy; Real fatigue is not physical fatigue, but mental fatigue. People live a lifetime, and fatigue is inevitable. When you feel busy and tired, one is because of the loss of value, and the other is because of too much desire. Life has a direction, and with a reason to struggle, the heart is stable; Less care, more tolerance, knowing satisfaction, the heart will be idle. Let nature take its course, let nature take its course, let nature take its course, and life will be more perfect.
7. Safety is worse than insecurity; It is better to be broad-minded than broad-minded. Cultivate the body of nature by the way of nature; Cultivate the god of joy with joy. Fear is the most basic principle of conscience. The so-called happiness is not more wealth, but less desire. Being a man, character comes first, but can be second; Doing things, understanding first, diligence second. Life should learn not to complain, not to wait and not to follow blindly.
8. Between people, it may be your writing that makes people feel comfortable at first, but it must be your character that convinces people later. To be a man, you must be a reassuring person. No matter how many years I have known you, I can sincerely say that it is good to know you. The greatest attraction between people is not your appearance, your wealth or your talent; It is the trust, sureness, sincerity and kindness that you convey to each other. Life is not all about competition and interests, but more about mutual achievement and warmth!
9. The road of life is rugged and flat, and there are always many gullies to cross; The taste of life is bitter, spicy and sweet, and there is always a lot of salty taste to taste. There is always a turning point in the journey, and there is no need to avoid it in the face of pain; Don't run away from life, face it calmly. Without vision, it is easy to take detours; If you lose your mind, you will easily come to a dead end. In fact, detours are almost a dead end. Perfecting others means perfecting yourself, being less angry and being more successful. For the long road of life, it is more important to see clearly than to walk fast, because only by walking right can we go far.
10, people only know who is true to you and who cares about you the most. Accompany me, unless you have money, I won't follow; Cherish, I only care whether you are beautiful or not. Time leaves behind not wealth, not beauty, but sincerity. Time may not bring love, but it will certainly meet people's hearts! Don't brag about how many friends you have, and don't say how many people you know. Just look at how many people know you when you are in trouble. Friends, as long as the quality, not quantity, potatoes pull a car, not as good as a night pearl. And cherish!
Suitable for the mood of hair space. Tell me about the mood phrases hidden in seconds.
1, in autumn, hugging suddenly becomes the most comfortable thing. Lean on your side, soft hair rubs your delicate and smooth neck, and then tighten your arms when the rustling wind gently bypasses us. You are very thin. I hold your waist, but it seems I can hide you in my arms.
I will spend my time on things that I will be happy, even if others think it is a waste. That made me feel comfortable and thought,' This life is worth living.
3, so, meeting seems to be a magical arrangement, it is the beginning of everything.
I seldom miss home, but sometimes when I am alone in bed, the wind from the fan and the music in the headphones make me miss myself at that time, the sound of the washing machine every day, and the time when my mother wakes me up every morning.
The so-called love is having someone who can easily control your emotions, making you cry one second and laughing the next.
6. There are still many selves in our hearts that we haven't discovered yet. Any masterpiece, looking at a frame is boring, and it is filled with many details that are easily forgotten.
7. One day you will meet a rainbow-like person, and from then on everything else is just a hasty cloud.
8, the world of mortals, walking alone, green radish brushing the skirt, Qingyun wet infinite, mountains and rivers can be forgotten in pairs, the sun and the moon can be fine. At that time, there was only one person's floating world, and one person's small water flowed forever.
9. I believe that people who can't give you enough attention on special days can't give it to you in daily life. People who don't express their love to you in extreme cases basically have no love. In fact, the evidence of love that we have tried our best to find is everywhere and can't be hidden from others.
10, focus on every little thing that should be done well, keep yourself busy and have no time to fantasize about the future. All I have is a small part of the clear sky seen through the classroom window. This Little Square with blue sky and white clouds makes me feel beautiful.
1 1. If you are happy, why should I block your sunshine? I prefer to send you to the sun. Don't forget that the sun has gone. I have been saving my umbrella for you.
12, I have 1800 thoughts every minute, and suddenly I want to shake my head, eat a box of pineapples, meet you, catch jellyfish together, cry for a while, have fun, fly to Pluto, drink a cup of dark soda, and grab your hand and push you into the wind and rain on a typhoon day as your punishment for leaving me. Let you get wet outside, and I get wet inside.
13, we didn't realize that what we did was what we wanted to do, not what the other party wanted.
A word worth pondering and remembering.
A word worth pondering and remembering.
1, time is actually a process, after all, no one can get rid of the erosion of time, leaving behind the old traces of spots. Those, the joy when lucky, the injury when frustrated, all float in the years, touching our nerves, making people remember the past and feel the customs of the years. This process, whether crying or laughing, runs through our hearts and tells us that growth is like this. From now on, we will still be smiling in the years.
In this world, there are far more people who are less fortunate than you than those who are luckier than you. The road should be taken step by step. Although the step to the finish line is exciting, most of the steps are ordinary or even boring, but without these steps, or if you can't stand these ordinary and boring steps, you can't get the final excitement.
Falling in love with someone is not terrible, just out of control. Breaking up is not terrible, but I am afraid I still can't let go; Loneliness is not terrible, but it will always be lonely; Being sick is not terrible, but I am afraid that I can't afford to get sick; Unemployment is not terrible, I am afraid that I will never find a job; No money is not terrible. I'm afraid I'll have to wait for someone to help me. Losing is not terrible, what is terrible is a crushing defeat; It's not terrible to be wrong. What's terrible is to be afraid of making mistakes again.
People are tired because they think too much. Physical fatigue doesn't make people afraid, but mental fatigue makes people afraid. Fatigue can affect the mood, distort the soul and threaten physical and mental health. In fact, everyone has moments when they are dragged down by others and by themselves. However, some people will debug as soon as possible, while others are stuck in it and cannot enjoy it. In this social form full of competitive pressure, there are many problems and troubles in survival, and it is not true that living is not tiring at all.
5, a thing, if you want it too much, you will see it very big, even big enough to become the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My suggestion is that whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and really see its real position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. If you get it, you won't get carried away, and if you don't get it, you won't suffer.
6. People in different periods have different mental conditions. Once upon a time, our things were poor, but our mental state was very good. Now, our material survival has increased, but our spiritual survival is lacking. Don't be persistent in everything, let yourself bear a heavy ideological burden and think things too carefully, which will make our life very tired.
7. In order to seek happiness, we will make promises. But when I was doing it seriously, I found that a little promise was a false lie. But think about it carefully, it is these false and well-intentioned lies that make us full of expectation and confidence in our happiness. In fact, there is nothing in the promise. If it disappears, there is nothing. Everything has its own destination.
8. How hard it is to love you and forget you. How bitter it is to love you, how bitter it is to hate you. The wind is blowing my thin clothes, and I am walking alone on the road of thinking of you, warm and desolate. Looking up the phone book, I found your phone number, but I didn't have the courage to dial it. I'm really scared. You'll just call out your name as before and hang up mercilessly. Love is like this, it makes people think, and then it takes a lifetime to forget.
9. Happiness is your own feeling, and you need to experience it carefully. The distance of happiness, sometimes near, sometimes far away, is in front of us, but it is still in the horizon in a blink of an eye. A life without anxiety is like a cup of boiled water, which is tasteless, but we don't know that it is its purity that makes our life happy. Only those who know how to survive can taste sweetness and happiness in peacetime.
10, happiness is so ethereal, unstable and real. I began to feel and understand happiness gradually, looking at people around me, with a happy smile and a calm mood. Look at yourself again, not like this, there are happy moments and quiet moments. People live for a few years, facing many tests, there will be many gains and misses, as well as many successes and failures.
1 1, once the story, once the care, once the loneliness, once the resentment, once can not let go, but quietly disappeared in this tearful night. Tears streaming down my face, I woke up from my dream, I was hurt, I was hurt, and you left. This is fate, this is sharing. Believe in you, believe in fate, believe in me, believe in fate, believe that everything has passed, believe that tomorrow will face everything well, believe that I will always smile …
12, man, eternity is the subject of contradiction, often living in the confusion of hesitation and yearning, caught in a secular one-way street, can't go far and can't go back. Man is really an elusive nation, and the only one who knows his eternity best is himself.
13, look at life with a simple eye, and you will lose a lot of inexplicable troubles; Measure your life with a happy footprint, and your footsteps will be light and free; Face the people who help you with gratitude, and you will find that there are really many selflessness and beauty in the world; Face the people who hurt you with a tolerant heart, and you will feel that they are actually not easy. In life, there are always many obstacles to overcome. Years, there are always many regrets to make up for. In life, there are always many puzzles to understand.
14, life can't be smooth sailing, happiness is a day, boredom is still a day, so why not let yourself have a happy day?
15, you think you can't lose, so you can't lose. You shed tears, and another person made you laugh. Your heart is broken, and then you find that people who don't love you are not worth your grief at all. Looking back today, is it not a comedy?
16, there is nothing wrong with a person, but you can also care about the person you like and make the public think that you are a good friend; However, people in love, caring about another person, can lead to jealousy. From the perspective of love, they are not loyal enough to love, but they miss a lot of friendship and don't care about another person. Once separated, you will lose your wife and soldiers. So now a person is not saying that he doesn't look forward to love, but to prove his infatuation with him in the future.
17, lovers don't look for each other because they can change themselves in a short time to attract you before they know each other absolutely, and once you know each other absolutely, separation is just around the corner. Therefore, love should last long. You and I both know each other very well, and it's natural to walk together without even clarifying. Don't compromise if you think the other person is beautiful. Being nice is not the whole of love. You must plan for the future of love.
18, if you meet a girl you love deeply and you think she likes you, most people just start dating. The consequence of this is the so-called "missing relatives". You should care about her as a friend, stay together after graduation, and then try to do your best for her. Go to her after you have achieved something in your career. If she is still waiting for you at this time, you are right.
19, people are tired, that is, every time they go back and forth between resolute maintenance and concession, the chess is unstable and worth remembering. There are always things worth remembering in life, and there are also things that we must yield to. Concession and resolute maintenance are a kind of behavior and performance of everyone in the face of people's life problems. It is an ethos to dare to make concessions, and it is not a courage to have the determination to resolutely safeguard it. Who can say what is right and wrong? It would be great if we could know the choice, resolutely safeguard what we should resolutely safeguard and make concessions.
20. If I can cry, I don't want to endure it; If I can be selfish, I don't want to give in; If I can be weak, I don't want to be strong; If I can let go, I don't want to continue to be persistent; If I can fall in love with someone again, I just want to love you again. This time, I won't let go so easily. But unfortunately, there is no if in life, the past will never come back, and what comes back is no longer perfect.
2 1, people are bored because they have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. And we remember things that should be forgotten from time to time and forget things that should be remembered. Why do some people say that wearing a head is cute and ridiculous? Because he has forgotten many people's ridicule and indifference to him, forgotten the human gratitude and grudges, forgotten the worldly fame and fortune, and forgotten everything in this world. He lives in his own world, enjoys himself to the fullest and laughs foolishly.
22, so many people would rather make themselves unhappy than do it. If you can remember what you should remember, forget what you should forget. It would be nice to forget the past and treat every day as a new beginning. However, it is easier said than done.
23. Try to live a good life. When you are old, you will enjoy it for the second time. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" Love with all your heart, you may get hurt, but it is the only way to live a complete life.
24. People suffer because they ask for too much. A person's life is alive, and everything can't go well. Don't always feel unlucky. In fact, there are more people suffering in the world than we are. Knowing that Tao Dao is a little ideal and eternal, there is no way to achieve it successfully. Some questions will never be answered. Some stories are eternal and have no final ending. Some people are just strangers who know clearly, but they will still be searching, waiting and dreaming.
25, in fact, the pain is not brought to you by another person, but your own lack of literacy, no certain commitment and experience. You insist on taking childish things seriously and thinking simple things too complicated, so you will be very painful. Learn to let go, let go of a little ideological baggage, face everything calmly, and let everything be resigned, so that you can relax yourself.
26. People are unhappy because they care a lot. It's not that we have too little, but that we care too much. Don't see others living happily, you will feel lost and depressed. In fact, what you see is just another person's appearance. Maybe he is not as happy as you. People's desires are endless. Everyone is looking for a high quality of life. Everyone expects to get what they want. Everyone is busy all day, struggling, getting it, being happy for a while, not getting it, and suffering for a lifetime.
27. Nothing in the world is perfect. Imperfection is actually a kind of beauty. Only by constantly striving for and enduring losses and hardships can we find happiness.
28. People are not satisfied because they have a lot of vanity. As the saying goes, the contented are always happy, but how many people can reach this level? People don't have too few things, but want too many things. There are many miracles and charms in the world. We can't be indifferent, we can't have high hopes, we can't dream.
29. In the face of the charm of many people, how many people can master themselves well and how many people will not make mistakes because of it? But then again, satisfied, how can there be an upward trend? Time is progressing and survival is coming. We need to keep trying to find it. If you are only satisfied with the status quo and blindly immersed in your own satisfaction, what are your long-term ideals and pursuits?
30. I smiled because I had it; Because of the loss, I became more lonely. At midnight, the twinkling stars can't see through my inner loneliness, and the moonlight can't reflect my inner loss. When I think of life without you, I really feel that I am the loneliest person in the world.
3 1, most people, many times, people can only rely on themselves. I don't have any background, I haven't seen any noble people, and I haven't been to any good schools. None of this matters. The key is which way you are determined to go, what kind of person you want to be, and how you are going to intervene in your laziness. Go ahead, believe in your dreams and stick to them. Only in this way can you have a chance to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.
Classic sentences worthy of your deep thought.
1, facing
In the face of roses, there is no need for romance; In the face of beauty, you can not look; In the face of friends, rough tea and light rice; Facing the family, sweating like rain; Face your wife and accompany you day and night.
2, when others
Listen when others talk, smile when others frown, believe when others doubt, study when others rest, and persist when others give up, so you succeed when others fail!
3. Eight maxims of Zen Buddhism
Do not dispute, vitality does not hurt; Not afraid, bright, flashing; If you are not angry, you will be at peace with all gods; Rest assured, my heart is cold; Not seeking merit, neither humble nor supercilious; If you don't insist, you can be round and square; Not greedy, rich in health; Be careful, why are you afraid of the king!
4, a person's life
Choose the right teacher and be wise all your life; Choose the right partner and live a happy life; Choose the right environment and have a happy life; Choose the right friends and live a sweet life; Choose the right industry and achieve a lifetime.
5, the head is right.
In life, we should make a good start: work hard and don't show off; Seeking truth from facts, not arguing for heat; Strive for success without losing motivation; Keep a clear head and don't stumble.
6. Five skills of self-protection
Work hard and play moderately; Don't play tricks on your friends; Handle affairs, not impatient, not angry; Pay attention to life and live within your means; Happiness lies in contentment and happiness lies in life!
7. People cherish each other
People cherish each other's things, respect each other's morality, satisfy each other's feelings, embrace each other's gifts, believe in honesty and accompany each other with love.
8. Most
Health is the best gift, contentment is the greatest wealth, kindness is the best virtue, care is the most sincere greeting, care is the most selfless miss, and blessing is the best word!
9. Roads and trees
Lover is the road, friend is the tree; There is only one road in life, and there are many trees on one road; Don't forget the road when you have money, but rely on trees when you lack money; Don't get lost when you are happy, water the trees when you are resting.
10, a piece of paper, for a lifetime.
Being an official is a piece of paper, and being a man is a lifetime; Money is a piece of paper, and health is a lifetime; Honor is a piece of paper, and love is a lifetime!
1 1 is by no means a lie.
I have less things on my body and suffer less; Less words and less disasters; Less food in the abdomen and less illness; Think less and worry less; There are few thoughts and lines in my mind.
12, if you want to be happy.
If you want to be happy all your life, do something; If you want to be happy for a while, be an official; If you want to be happy, dream; If you want a happy family, cook; If you want to make a circle of people happy, be the host!
13, how to taste life
Life is really tired, see how you taste it; Find more happiness every day and ignore troubles; In just a few decades, why not face it with ease; Friends often contact, no matter the phone bill is cheap; Send a message in your spare time to make yourself happy and appetizing.
14, make a wish to Buddha
I wish all my friends health, happiness and happiness forever to the Buddha! Buddha said: no, only four days. I said: spring, summer, autumn and winter. Fren: Two days. I smiled: a dark day. Buddha essence: One day! I smiled: every day of my life! Buddha said: Well, all your friends will be healthy and happy forever!
15, people in this life
In this life, people have been unhappy. Smiling is better than frowning. Don't be too cold in winter, too hot in summer, don't pretend to be poor if you have money, don't show off if you have no money, take care of yourself in leisure, be happy every day, and taste all the ups and downs before you live in vain!
16, paid
Life is so blessed that it is enough to think about it. Thinking about ignorance and pain is a kind of happiness. Think of hunger and cold, suffering, full of warmth is bliss. Think about fatigue and bitterness, and leisure is bliss. Think about loneliness and pain. Many friends are happy. Fulu is the heart, and the heart is rich!
17, bittersweet
It is the necessity of life to suffer more and enjoy less, it is the calmness of life to be able to suffer and enjoy, and it is the detachment of the wise to turn suffering into pleasure.
18, life one two three four
One center: health as the center. Two basic points: confusion and truth. Three forgetfulness: forgetting age, fame and fortune, and sadness. Four things: a wife, a bed of roses, a little money and a few good friends.
19, happiness in youth and happiness in old age
The happiest thing in youth is to die for you, and the happiest thing in old age is to sit under the eaves and smile and recall those impulses and experiences that want to die.
20, don't care
People are happy not because they get more, but because they care less.
2 1, in life
Life should face the mind of the sea, with scientific methods as the leading factor, the emperor's royal diet as the nourishment, fresh air as the washing, bright sunshine as the bathing, and lazy cats as the sleeping.
22, peace is good.
More money and less money is a good thing. Ugly people are handsome, just pleasing to the eye; There are fewer people and more old people, and they are in good health; If the family is poor and rich, it is good to be kind; Who is right and who is wrong, just understand; A person's life, peace is good.
23. bosom friend
Tea is bitter first and then sweet, with endless aftertaste; The wine is soft and full of stamina, which makes people feel cool; Spring water is clear and tasteless, but it takes a lifetime to taste sweet. A bosom friend, such as tea, wine and spring, can benefit people for life.
24. As long as you are around, it only takes 1 second.
It takes 5 minutes to wait for a subway, 3 hours to watch a movie, 65,438+0 months for a full moon, 65,438+0 years for spring to come, and a lifetime to miss someone. However, a word of praise or concern only takes 1 second!
25, will live
Take more rest and don't be too tired. It seems too expensive to eat and sleep by the hour. Never go against the environment to get together with friends. If you are sober and drunk, you can earn money and spend money, and life is beautiful.
26, or
Whether light or elegant, flowers are always in full bloom; Whether it is a full moon or not, the moon is always in the sky; Whether happy or painful, life is always passing away; Or hope or disappointment, hope is always in sight; See or not, my friend will always be in my heart.
27. I don't know
Weeding is at noon, and corrupt officials are also working hard; Twenty-five thousand silver, close the door and count the money; Fear of supervision during the day and surprise inspection at night; Knocking at the door in the middle of the night, sweating profusely; Who is the new guy? I don't know!
28. Harmony is good.
Socks decided to leave the pants they loved for many years and turn to shoes. Pants crying: What's good about shoes? Socks answer: you play around all day, as practical as shoes, shoes (harmony) is good.
29. Forget the exhaustion of the world
Nourish your stomach with simple meals, wash your lungs with fresh air, bask in the bright sunshine, find a group of friends to get drunk, sleep like a cat, and forget the fatigue of crossing the world.
30. Love words are wonderful
The hardest thing to break in the world is affection, the hardest thing to find is love, the hardest thing to return is human feelings, the hardest thing is friendship, the hardest thing to separate is affection, the hardest thing to find is true feelings, the hardest thing to find is ruthlessness, and the most lovely thing is your smiling expression!
3 1, four elements of health preservation
Kindness is the nutrient of mental health, tolerance is the regulator of mental health, optimism is the panacea of mental health, and indifference is the immune agent of mental health.
32, understand?
People who know how to drink find feelings; People who know how to be content find happiness; Those who know how to let go find freedom; Those who know how to cherish find happiness; People who know how to care will find friends.
33. Take the train
Life is like taking a train. Love stops and goes, friends leave and stay, some get off the bus halfway, some get on the bus halfway, and many people pass you by on your life train. Only intimate friends and people who love you will accompany you to the end.
34. In my heart
If 1000 people pass by me, I can also hear your footsteps. Because there are 999 people standing on the ground, only you are standing on my heart.
Step 35 replenish qi
Read more books to cultivate talents, be cautious in words and deeds to cultivate vitality, attach importance to family friendship to cultivate popularity, be able to swallow one's pride, be gentle in doing things, cultivate kindness, stress responsibility to cultivate virtue, be humble in fame and fortune to cultivate righteousness, not vulgar to cultivate backbone, and dare to cultivate heroism and tolerance.
36. Put you first
Castle peak is precious, clear water is precious, bright moon is precious, people are precious, friends are precious, sincerity is precious, love is precious, I cherish you!
37. The eagle spread its wings
In one's life, if you look for it, you may be in the middle; If you seek the middle, you may fall behind; And if you want it, it must be dirty. Therefore, at the beginning of life, we must aim high. If you want to spread your wings like an eagle, don't let sparrows settle down.
38. Life
Crying is not life, laughing is not life, crying and laughing is life; Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy; Life is only for two things, half for life and half for happiness; Eat and drink, don't take things to heart.
39, life must work hard.
Think carefully about life, don't talk short with your tongue, talk long with your tongue; If you want to succeed, you must work harder, look for your goals and don't hesitate; Everything should be done seriously, and only in this way can we become stronger; Life needs hard work, don't treat bean curd as improper food.
40. Top Ten Healthy Lifestyles
(1) Eat less meat (2) bask in the sun (3) walk in the rain (4) sing often (5) have a rest after dinner (6) stand up (7) sit quietly (8) be happy (9) walk in the car (10) and do good deeds.