It is the measure of a person's words and deeds, the tolerance of communication, the gentleness of behavior and the kindness of the heart.

It is an unintentional act, a casual expression, which can't be hidden or faked. It is the depth of the soul and the nobility of life.

Real education, see the real chapter for details.

1

When handing scissors, pencils and other objects to others, face yourself with a sharp end in your hand.

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Think of others more.

2

The advanced elevator will hold down the door key until everyone gets on.

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Wait a minute if you can.

three

When entering the canteen, supermarket or shopping mall, open the door or open the curtain to see if there is anyone behind you. If someone holds his hand, he won't hit the person behind him.

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Take a look at it and give it a hand.

four

You should ask for permission to borrow things, and don't rummage around without permission, even if the relationship is familiar.

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Be measured and don't cross the line.

five

Go to other people's homes, don't just sit in their beds.

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Even if the host follows the guests, it doesn't mean anything.

six

When seeing the guests off, try to wait until the guests are out of sight before closing the door.

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Send you away until you can't see it.

seven

When talking to a child, he will squat down and be level with his eyes.

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Head-up with you, without arrogance or rashness.

eight

In public transportation such as subway and bus, don't lean on the handrail as a whole, but squeeze the space next to it with your body or objects.

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Don't influence others for yourself.

nine

Look at the photos in other people's mobile phones, and don't slide around without authorization.

Sending photos with others to the public platform requires the prior consent of the other party.

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Respect other people's privacy and don't pry.

10

Take off your headphones when talking to others.

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You say it, I'm listening.

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Don't belittle other people's favorite books, movies, music and idols. Feel free, even if there is no feeling.

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Different tastes respect each other.

12

Some precautions in rainy days

Drive slowly, especially when you find water on the road, slow down to avoid water splashing on passers-by;

Don't throw garbage on the road, which will easily lead to poor drainage;

Don't put wet umbrellas on bus seats or chairs for people to rest.

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Understand each other and promote public morality.

13

Knock on the door before entering, even if it's in the child's room.

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may I come in?

14

If someone wants to enter a password, please turn your head away consciously, no matter what the password is.

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"see no evil".

15

Ask others to help bring food and drinks, ask the price clearly and return the money to each other in time.

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Consciously.

16

Do I understand you after explaining or explaining to others? Have I made myself clear?

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Change the tune, it's very comfortable.

17

Watch videos in public and try not to play outside.

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It is my gentleness not to disturb.

18

Please pack up and take away the rubbish made in public places such as concerts, concerts and sports competitions.

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Easy, no trouble.

19

I forgot to reply to the message for a long time, so I'd better explain the reason when I reply again.

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Necessary explanation.

20

It is impolite to keep knocking on a door that you don't want to open for you.

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You don't have to be embarrassed. Quit when you know it.

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When I was a child, I went to a classmate's birthday party, and my family was very rich. Other students brought all kinds of gifts, and my origami stars looked pitiful. I feel embarrassed now.

Later, I went to her house again and saw the bottle of stars on her desk at a glance. At that time, I was really touched and felt taken seriously.

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Pay attention to other people's thoughts, even if they are trivial.

22

Mother said a word to me:

If someone accidentally does something embarrassing in public, such as falling down on the stage, don't stare at him; Not if you meet a disabled person.

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Don't look directly at the embarrassment or pain of others.

23

Sending visiting customers to the elevator room and waiting for the elevator, a cleaning aunt pushed a box full of garbage from the stairwell, and suddenly the whole corridor was filled with a sour smell.

Afraid of leaving a bad impression on customers, I rushed forward and asked, "Auntie, isn't there a freight elevator over there?"

Aunt said awkwardly, "The freight elevator in this building is broken today. The tenth floor is so high that I can't run up and down on the first floor. "

When the customer saw it, he smiled and stepped forward to press the elevator button for his aunt. He said gently, "Aunt, please get off first. Don't delay your work. I am in no hurry. "

What is more touching than remembering you is that I understand your difficulties.

24

Someone once asked, "Why do you want to know a person through his attitude towards strangers?"

Gao Zan replied: "Because strangers have nothing to do with your interests, the attitude towards stakeholders depends on IQ and EQ, and the attitude towards unrelated people depends on quality and cultivation."

I'm impressed.

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Be friendly to strangers and treat people who have nothing to do with interests equally.

25

I can't remember where I read such a story:

A little girl came home at night, and there were some strong men who had drunk at the elevator entrance. When they were nervous, one of them seemed to see through her mind and smiled and said to her:

"Little girl, you go first and let's sit down, lest you be afraid."

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In me the tiger sniffs the rose.

26

Lend your car to a friend. There was no oil in the tank when I borrowed it. When he returned the car, the fuel tank was full and the car had been washed.

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In the face of mutual affection, give and take.

27

When I was in college, money was tight. Once I visited the supermarket with my roommate and saw a biscuit I liked very much, but it was a little expensive. I touched it and put it down.

As a result, after returning to the dormitory, my roommate said while unpacking snacks:

"I bought a lot of snacks. Let's eat together. "

As soon as I saw it, she divided the cookies I saw.

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I will take care of you silently and protect your self-esteem.

28

At dinner, a male friend said that his girlfriend likes to buy lipstick, and there was quite a complaint between words, saying that those colors were all the same to him.

Another male friend smiled and said, "It must be different in their eyes. Each pair has its own beauty, just like your sneakers, and each pair is different in your eyes. "

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Don't judge rudely, but put yourself in each other's shoes.

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On second thought, my upbringing seems to be external. To outsiders, I am polite, modest and gentle, and I meet the standard of "educated" with great probability.

But I really seem to lose my temper with my parents, and it's not an understatement.

They bear my "most uneducated" side, because they are the closest people to me.

I'm really ashamed to think about it.

There is an education called:

Don't be angry with people close to you just because someone loves you.

Perhaps you have found that most of these details about education have a "other person".

This other person is not only a person, but also represents the world outside of "me".

We should all know that the world doesn't just revolve around me.

Therefore, perhaps the so-called education, the most basic point is:

I have someone else in my heart.

May you and I learn to put others in our hearts and be treated gently by the world. It should be a rare blessing to reach old age. This kind of happiness is a natural and comfortable aging process and form, which is also called the life of the benevolent.

Longevity, being expected to be healthy and respected; A hundred years old, as expected.

People who have been tortured by fame and fortune all their lives are busy thinking about how to live longer. So, I started tossing myself again!

Television broadcast, newspaper network, streets and lanes, hearsay, all the experts came out!

Experts say, scholars say, doctors say, and Zen masters say. ...

Talk about moving, talking about quietness, talking about vegetarianism, drinking water, clapping your hands, soaking your feet, meditating, boxing, swimming, climbing mountains, giving up drinking and smoking. ...

Sounds like the more you live, the less you will live?

May I ask, these missionaries, do they live long? Who has done the life expectancy statistics of these people, famous health experts, nutritionists, yoga instructors and athletes? ...

I'm afraid their own practices and theories may not be unified.

Longevity, good weather, good land, good water, good people, such luxury, can you be independent?

The elements of longevity, heredity, personality and mentality, are so complicated, can they be optimized?

Material enjoyment is endless; Spiritual enjoyment, varied; The stability of the soul is ethereal and helpless.

How quick and shocking nature's revenge is; Living and working in peace and contentment, it seems that I have arrived and suddenly left!

The old saying of resignation is out of date. So now, where is the secret of longevity?

Why don't you ask the old farmer in the mountain village? They don't know how to keep in good health, they just want to make a living; Do not know fitness, only love labor; Don't know how to relax, just get used to sleeping; Do not know nutrition and fitness, flexible waist and legs; I don't know how to travel, but outside the door is nature. ...

Why don't you ask the centenarian? They probably can't even tell half a regimen. Speaking out may not meet the "standard"! On the contrary, some people love to drink, often smoke, eat fat, never have a physical examination, seldom take a bath ... and most of them are people who have gone through hardships and never stopped working hard and have no worries about food and clothing all their lives.

Which way to live longer?

Just like happiness is a kind of self-feeling, it is difficult to have a unified objective standard, and it may also be a self-feeling that varies from person to person.

Other people's living methods can only be appreciated, not copied. Imitation with the wind, learning to walk in Handan, is counterproductive.

The same health indicators are misleading!

Degeneration of senile signs should be regarded as normal, why should it be regarded as pathological changes? Taking blood pressure and weight every day is a burden, and it is uncomfortable to eat and sleep for it, which is simply a disaster.

Anti-aging? How to resist aging? How can there be a panacea for immortality?

Truth, goodness and beauty, the first is truth, and there is truth before there is goodness and beauty. Plain face is the beauty of self-confidence; Diligence is the beauty of self-esteem

The development of modern medical science and technology has endowed human beings with external forces to prevent and treat diseases, relieve pain, treat diseases and fear life.

Overtreatment can only lead to a life that is neither dignified nor meaningful.

As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed. Filial piety is really a severe test for the younger generation.

Life is short. Half a hundred short, a hundred short. The coming and going of life is nothing more than the reciprocating of luck and regret, and nothing more than the transformation of beauty and trouble.

Please think about it: did our ancestors, including emperors and dignitaries, watch TV? Do you use a mobile phone? Have you ever played WeChat? How lucky we are today! Let's have fun!

There are many beautiful things in the world, who can fully enjoy them? There are many beautiful things in the future, who can enjoy them forever? ...

The blessing of old age is no longer possession and greed; This kind of blessing is not subjective design and planning.

The happiness of old age lies in taking things as they are, eating, drinking and having fun in time.

Everything, just right, is indispensable, and it is wrong to pass it.

The premise of longevity is to take care of yourself, but not to disturb others or others. Otherwise, it is what Confucius said: longevity is humiliating. "Humiliation" means loss of dignity.

If we can still help others (including children) when we are old, it is no longer our responsibility, but the "old" fun we need. For example, Han Yan's family is happy.

Grow old gracefully, that is the realm of culture; Growing old with dignity is the support of materialization. The connotation of the two is too particular. I think it's better to grow old calmly.