2, you will know after the pain: find a warm boy: he tolerates your shortcomings and loves everything about you. No matter how angry I am, I don't want to say you scold you. When you are afraid, he will hold you. He is mature, steady and rational, and will make progress for you because he wants to have a future with you. If you find it, stay together, because it's really tiring to try to cater to someone who is not good to you carefully.
When a person loves you, your willfulness and your shortcomings are all lovely. When a person doesn't love you, it's wrong for you to talk, not to talk, or even to breathe. This is human nature, just get used to it. So don't change yourself just to accommodate anyone. Love is brave enough to love, walk is striding, don't look back. Good morning ~
4. This statement may be from the bottom of your heart: the reason why you feel uncomfortable is probably because you invested a lot of time and energy, but in the end you didn't get what you wanted. The way you lost in an instant made you feel worthless.
The world is like a stage, and everyone plays a different role. Whether you are a leading role or a supporting role, you don't have to envy others or feel inferior. Maybe you can't be the best actor, but you can be the best yourself. Good morning ~
6. A person's biggest illness is that he likes to think of others' feelings about his signing as sometimes happy and sometimes uncomfortable, but you never know that in his eyes, you are a naive person who lives in the past forever. Good morning ~
7. Being with her, if the energy she gives you is that you can get up happily every day, sleep peacefully every day, be motivated to do everything and look forward to the future, then you don't love the wrong person. The most appropriate feelings will never torture each other in the name of love, but accompany each other and become each other's sunshine.
8. To be a man, you must have thoughts and a sense of social responsibility. Believing in yourself is more important than relying on others. Different people must do things differently, and the boss usually sees it. As long as you try your best, you won't be buried unless you doubt your ability.
9. The disciple asked the master: Can you tell me something strange about some people? Master A: They are eager to grow up and then lament their lost childhood. They exchanged health for money, and soon they wanted to use money to restore health. They are anxious about the future, but ignore the happiness of the present. Therefore, they live neither in the present nor in the future. They live as if they would never die; Before they died, it was as if they had never lived. Good morning ~
10, if a man says he loves you and gives his hope to other girls, then his conditions are no better. If a woman is still having an affair with another man when she is in contact, it is useless to look good again. The most important thing in love is the only one.
Good morning: life needs face-to-face truth and down-to-earth purity.
Good morning: life needs face-to-face truth and down-to-earth purity.
The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind never stops. Then slowly appreciate or savor the wind and rain as a landscape. Since we have to face the so-called reality and fairness, let our hearts be as peaceful as possible, because when everything can't be changed, we can only let time be the judge except to be calm and wait and see. I wait, watch the time, watch the years, watch the results, and watch the success or failure. No matter how the world changes, the most authentic things will not change.
The heart is a field, so plant it happily. People live not by their bodies, but by their hearts. Sometimes, a change of mood will make you happier. The heart is a field. You sow your own seeds and plant good causes, so you get good results. If you plant evil causes, you will get bad consequences. If you have a tolerant heart, a kind heart and a vibrant heart, you will sow the seeds of happiness and you will reap a happy heart.
Although life is not perfect, I still smile. There are many ways to go in life, some we can choose and some we must accept. We should be able to recognize our own losses and shortcomings, face and bear bravely, move on, appreciate our own life and enjoy the process of life. This is our correct attitude towards life.
Experience is an indispensable wealth in life! The only thing you can have forever in this world is the process, and time is always gone forever. There is a dream in this world called flying, but there is a struggle called growth. Youth is a luxury, but growth is always accompanied by a little sadness and confusion.
Always believe: when everyone rushes in, come out quickly. Everyone stops playing and rushes in.
Life is not perfect. If you find a problem, start over. If there is no chance to start again, let it sink into the ocean of time forever. Never cover up one mistake with another. Life is suffering in the branches, being dried and becoming strong. Never have other people's dreams in life.
Life will not be too complete, we should straighten our minds and face ups and downs. In real life, some people have beauty but can't get happiness, have money but lose affection, and realize their dreams but lose health. Therefore, there are gains and losses in life, and we cannot be perfect. Full moon and lack of moon are the most beautiful pictures in life.
I found that the things I once owned were lost unconsciously with the passage of time. It was painless at first, but it turned into great pain at a certain moment. In my own eyes, what I have is always worthless, but what I haven't got is so precious that I don't know if I should cherish it when I get it. This is the best for you. If I can't get it, I don't have to. It's yours, but not yet. Why worry?
It takes courage to advance, patience to retreat, wisdom to bow, and ability to let go. All foundations are fixed, and all accessories are changing. The freeze-frame of people's hearts will be eternal, and people will talk about everything from time to time. People will come and go, many words will revolve around themselves, and many people and things will gather together to form their own lives.
Life needs a face-to-face truth and a down-to-earth purity. Learn to constantly deny that the world is right and we are wrong, and slowly get rid of the paranoia and frivolous youth; Life is a curve that fluctuates up and down, sometimes low and sometimes high. Be happy when you are depressed, because you will soon go to a high place, but it is actually dangerous when you are high, because you can't see the coming trough.
Give up the cost and seek profit, which is inexhaustible. Give others good, and you will get good yourself; Give up the bad and you will get the good. Giving up is not necessarily to get, giving up will definitely get, but it may be another form. When we give up our worries, sorrows and delusions, we will naturally gain a new realm of life. Giving up and getting is nothing more than a reincarnation. I'm relieved to see it.
Some things, when we were young, were incomprehensible. When we understand, we are no longer young. A person's life can't be satisfactory, but he needs a heart worthy of me. Life is rich and fresh because of these stop-and-go passers-by When they stand up again, please smile goodbye. There are many things in the world that you can't change, but you should try to change everything that can be changed and try to adapt to everything that can't be changed.
Life is an experience, which needs to be experienced with heart. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is; In my lifetime, I will be a sincere person, never give up my love and persistence in life, and live an infinite life in limited time and space.
The road of life has been experienced, only to know that there are short and long; Appreciating others is a state, being kind to others is a kind of mind; Helping others is a virtue, and learning from others is a kind of wisdom; Uniting others is a kind of tolerance, and learning from others is a kind of sublimation; Visiting friends is a kind of true feelings, and returning friends is a courtesy.
Life is not expressway. In this corner, even if you don't meet anyone, you can at least meet a brand-new yourself. Everyone's life experience is different. If nothing good happens to you, it means you haven't worked hard enough.
Classic early peace of mind map: only by learning to give up can we grasp it better.
1, we try to have more beautiful things, but we only have two hands, so we must learn to choose and give up. We should be clear about what we don't need, and we shouldn't be too eager to catch everything. In the end, we may not catch anything. Only by learning to give up can we grasp it better. Good morning ~
2. Knowing how to enjoy life will make life more interesting. If you are willing to give up, you will get it. We are willing to smile and get friendship; Willing to tolerate, you get the atmosphere; Willing to be honest and get friends; Give up face and get reality; Give up your reputation and get a happy life; If you are willing to give, you will get a good name; If you are willing to let go, you get freedom. Good morning ~
3. Put down a seed and reap a big tree; Let go of a worry and get a surprise; Let go of a prejudice and gain a kind of happiness; Let go of a kind of persistence and gain a kind of freedom. Life lies in practice, and practice lies in understanding. Time is hard to spare, time is not enough, and happiness is not complicated.
4. Many things in life are hard to meet and get, and those that are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, we should have a carefree heart, let everything go with the flow, do not complain, do not rush, do not overdo it, do not insist, do not rejoice in things, do not grieve for ourselves. Fate is not resignation, but facing life with an open mind. Good morning ~
5, people live a lifetime, in fact, there are some things, we must learn not to think indiscriminately; Some emotions, you should know how to hurt, don't hate; Some pursuits must be willing to give up; A little floating, I hope the dust is not stained. Mentality is tempered by experience; Happiness is cultivated by satisfaction; Health comes from walking. Knowing that compassion has no enemies, wisdom can't stand troubles; Freedom is more comfortable and easier to let go of nature.
6. Don't explain yourself at any time, even if it is a misunderstanding. Just understand yourself. People who don't care don't need to understand themselves. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have any background, I haven't seen any noble people, and I haven't been to any good schools. None of this matters. The key is which road you are determined to take, what kind of person you want to be, and how to deal with your laziness. Good morning ~
7. The past can only be used for memories. Don't indulge in its shadow, or you will never see the road ahead. Don't expect everyone to understand you, and you don't have to understand everyone; Gathering and parting is the law of life, don't care, why be sad. It takes courage to look up and down. Everyone's living space is limited, and being arrogant blindly will inevitably hit a wall. Being able to bend over in time is the great wisdom of life.
8. Everyone is jealous. Seeing other people's achievements or good luck, especially those around them, always leads to jealousy. In fact, being jealous of others is a very uneconomical thing, which is equivalent to pinning your happiness on others. If others are unsuccessful, unhappy and excellent, you will be happy. Doesn't this mean torturing yourself with the success of others? Life is tired, half from survival and half from comparison. Good morning ~
9. The world is wider than you think, and your life will not be without exports. You will eventually find yourself with a pair of wings, and you can fly without anyone's permission. No matter how comfortable the collective life is, you can't forget the carefree when you used to fly solo. Either make yourself sad or make yourself strong.
10, for a confused person, a touching word can change the fate of his life; For those persistent people, a good idea can achieve something. For a person who wants to take a detour, a well-intentioned move can be redeemed. There are many such examples in life. There is a saying: reading thousands of books is not as good as reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is not as good as reading countless people and learning from others.
Positive good night, nice words: down-to-earth, one step at a time
1, you like to envy others' happiness, but you find yourself looked up to and envied by others. Your happiness is often in the eyes of others, but not in your own heart. Learn to cherish. Many things need personal experience to feel pain, only when you cry can you know helplessness and despair, only when you are stupid can you know hardship, and only when you miss it can you know loveliness. There is no despair in life. Despair lies in your own heart not being opened. 2, a person in the world, it is a kind of courage to pick up, and it is a kind of generosity to put down. For the flowers and applause on the road of life, people with life experience can take it for granted, and those who have experienced many storms are more self-aware. However, it is not easy to treat the stumbling mud with a normal heart. It is a kind of mind and generosity to be unmoved by great setbacks and disasters and bear them calmly.
Maybe you have experienced failure, which will inevitably lead to frustration, depression, sadness and so on. However, you must first understand that it is normal to have such emotions, but don't stay at this stage forever. If you are always controlled by the bad emotions inspired by past setbacks, you will be in a trance, lose your mind and have no ambition. On the contrary, we should turn grief into strength and correctly find the way forward.
4. Do young people only meet you on the road, but don't know that you are leaving? Or maybe, when we were all growing up too young, we were blindly looking for directions, and an encounter in towards the distant has vanished. Writing and living in such a world is really a strange thing. Some ideas are formed on an isolated island, a sad world and a sad creature.
Because everyone is the same, most people can't pass this threshold. If you can, you will succeed. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently. The road should be taken step by step. Most of the roads are ordinary and even boring. Victory belongs to those who have patience.
6. Have you also felt the strong character of these flowers and plants in the rain that once made my heart ache? Did you leave quietly because you couldn't bear to hurt it again? I love your gentle and wild character, but I admire Wall's character of being brave in struggle and not afraid of difficulties.
7. Courage is very important when you find an idea to do. If you have the courage to do it, you are likely to stand out. If you have no courage, you will be as mediocre as everyone else.
8. Being willing will not suffer, and moderate contentment will not regret it; Remember to be grateful so as not to complain, and know how to cherish so as not to be ashamed. In life, we seek satisfaction in indifference, peace of mind in due diligence, happiness in dedication and happiness in loyalty. No matter how you want to express your anger, don't do something irreversible.
9. People will get some applause more or less in their life, but just applause from others is not enough. People should learn to take care of themselves and motivate themselves. To do this, you must constantly applaud yourself in your life.
10, we all have many ideas about life and life, but because we haven't put them into action, how much time has passed, but we can only stay in the plan. If one day, we suddenly find that we missed life because of lack of determination to act decisively, how uncomfortable and sad it would be.
1 1. When life is rough and rough, we should constantly applaud ourselves and encourage ourselves. Don't give in to suffering, don't bow to suffering, and don't be intimidated by suffering. The ideal of life is for the ideal life. Only by applauding yourself, the road of life will be wider and wider, and the road of life will be wider and wider.
Skateboarding is difficult to learn, but as long as you work hard, you will succeed. However, some people are very serious and work hard, but they can't learn and finally give up. In fact, as long as you work hard, you can succeed, but you have no patience.
13, patience is a kind of tenacity, a kind of accumulation, but also a kind of confidence and courage. As long as we are enthusiastic about our work, patient with the difficulties and obstacles encountered in our work, down-to-earth and step by step, we can build a bridge to success and realize our ambitions.
14, life is a ray, which extends infinitely from our birth. How high the ideal is, how hard we study and how long we persist, how long this ray is, how deep our life trajectory is, how valuable it is, and how far our meaning is.
15, cherish time, cherish time, is to cherish life. Make full use of every minute that fate has given us. Don't be the slave of time, be the master of time. At that time, let this hurried time accompany you and me forever!
16, I believe that dreams are the source of value. I believe that vision determines everything in the future. I believe that success is more important than success itself. I believe that there are setbacks in life without failure. I believe that the quality of life comes from erin brockovich's belief.
17, the bridge gave me an interesting childhood with a touch of magnificent colors. However, the wheel of life took away my childhood and innocence when I transferred, moved, moved to high school and lived in school. When I walked to the bridge again, the cheerful and calm feeling of the lake could not help but cause a melancholy ripple.
18. Walking on the road of life, some people can't see anything although their eyes are perfect. People walk the road, so we must look at it with our eyes and feel it with our hearts. When we walk on this road of life, we must open our eyes and feel with our heart, so as not to miss the most beautiful scenery in front of us.
19, comfortable mood is given by yourself, don't be naive to expect others' return. Comfortable mood is created by yourself, don't pitifully ask others for charity. Happiness depends not on foreign material and vanity, but on self-improvement within.
20. Emotions and sorrows are human nature. Life is always made up of joy and sadness. We can't control our experiences, but we can control our mentality. Mentality controls everyone's actions and thoughts, but also determines a person's vision, career and achievements.
2 1, you can't decide the length of life, but you can control its quality; You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't change your appearance, but you can smile; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can master today; You can't win everything, but you can do everything wholeheartedly.
22. People in life are always shuttling back and forth, dressing up the world around you like a landscape. There are always some people who come quietly and wait silently, such as lights illuminating our trip and warming our lives; More people appear and leave in a hurry, such as meteors, which have no eternity, but instant glory. In any case, it is an opportunity and a glimmer of destiny. We need to get together to cherish, leave our wishes and make life warmer.
23, success is like a persimmon, not mature moment, how to bite it is astringent. We sweated all the way and stumbled towards the door of success. At our age, in fact, most people are enterprising. We won't stop walking because we fall on the road. We will pave the road slowly and move on. Success is like a persimmon, we will wait patiently and have the confidence to wait hard.
24. The seasons are like a shuttle, and young people are widowed, looking for a home where the soul lives. The scholarly dance is firm and gentle, and it walks leisurely through the bamboo forest. Lonely in the clouds, projected on half an acre of cold pool. Books, neither enthusiastic nor loyal, can not extend warm hands, but can illuminate the corners of the soul. With them, that is, old friends and new friends, every moment of intersection, a quiet beauty in the heart, for a long time.
25. In real life, there are more people with the spirit of wheels! Teachers silently offer selfless love for the healthy growth of the next generation; Border guards guard the frontier of the motherland day and night for the peace of the motherland; Sanitation workers sweep from street to street every day in order to let people live in a beautiful environment. I praise the spirit of the wheel, and even more praise those who have the spirit of the wheel.
26. Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise don't choose; Every time you give up, you must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to realize your ideals through struggle, so choosing to give up means being more perfect, and having shortcomings means working harder. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. Because with new goals to struggle, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.
27. If people are regarded as a tree, learning ability is the root of the tree, which is the root of human life. We judge whether a person is competitive in essence, not by his grades in school, nor by his academic qualifications, but by his strong learning ability. This is the fundamental theory of the president of Harvard University.
28. It is beneficial to learn from the kindness of Taoist families. Whether at work or in life, whether to friends, colleagues or strangers, we should carefully observe the advantages of others, sincerely bless their achievements, and appreciate and encourage them as much as possible. When others feel happy because of your praise, and when others become strong because of your encouragement, you may be surprised to find that your praise makes people around you happier, and others' praise makes your life colorful.
29. The quickest step is not to leap, but to continue; The slowest pace is not slow, but wandering; The best way is not avenue, but magnanimity; The most dangerous road is not a steep slope, but a trap; The greatest happiness is not to get, but to have; The best wealth is not money, but health; The best blessing is not the future, but the present.
30, cultivate temperament, need peace. Quiet can precipitate a lot of complicated impetuousness in life, filter out shallow and rough impurities in human nature, and avoid many reckless, boring and absurd things. The sages talked about self-cultivation, quietness for self-cultivation and quietness for self-cultivation. The so-called closed-door thinking in the book refers to a quiet environment, which makes people abandon mundane distractions and eliminate external interference; Reflect and understand the true meaning, so as to achieve the purpose of cultivating temperament, conserving virtue and purifying the soul.
3 1, we used to describe the happiness in the future together. Now that I think about it, how bleak that happiness is, how ridiculous and naive that vows are. In the face of reality, all ideals seem so pale and powerless. It turns out that the future is full of variables and unknowns, only in imagination. If the ending is not what I want, then I would rather not participate in this process. Feelings are like mirrors. If it's broken, it's broken Don't try to fix them. No matter how good the memories are, the more times they are picked up, the less.
32. The road in Shushan is long, with diligence as the head, and learning from the sea is hard, so we must work hard first. You should cherish the present conditions, catch the network express train, enrich yourself and develop yourself. Grasp every day, start with small things, sweat, cultivate and describe. May you always study hard, step by step, and take the first step in your life. May you weave a youthful and colorful life with your ideals and sweat, play the melody of the times and keep pace with the times.
33. Every step we take is a new starting point, and these starting points are connected with the trajectory of our lives. Don't be afraid to start, only after the initial difficulties can there be a leap in evolution; Don't be afraid of the end, all the ends are new beginnings. In the end, we will find that life is like a circle, and the end point is also the starting point. Don't expect too much, what you get will eventually be lost; Don't be too afraid, it's always you who can dominate you.
34. People always want to be plain and peaceful, and no one wants the experience of torture. But that's not why I'm here. As a passive bearer and don't want to compromise, then take out your wisdom, turn decay into magic, and life will be better because of it. Although it is forced, it is better than doing nothing. Playing the right hand is also precious.
35. I am so tired along the way that I stop to have a rest and have a rest in order to go further. Looking up at the sky, I saw the mottled sunshine coming out of the cracks in the dark clouds and picking up the courage and confidence to move forward again; Looking back, think about what you left behind and what you can leave behind. As long as you relax, any giving up is an effort. Go on firmly, after all, the dream is far away, the future is far away, and the end point is far away.
36. Life is a journey. The road you have traveled is the life you have woven. We can't predict the future road. However, we can grasp ourselves now, cherish everything around us, go our own way in a down-to-earth way, and don't leave ourselves a landscape of regret in life. Life has always been simple, but we can't help making it complicated. The coolness of falling, a gorgeous opening is the end of tea.
37. People only have this life, so we can't come for nothing. So let's start with happiness! Do what you want to do and love the person you want to love. There are no perfect people in the world who do wrong, don't regret or complain. Fall down, get up and start over. How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? I believe I will walk more steadily next time.
38. The meaning of life lies not only in surpassing others, but also in surpassing oneself and being positive. When people are faced with any problems and difficulties, they will focus on solving them, ask what benefits they will bring to themselves, and regard them as their coaches for life training.
39. Some people were swept away in the stormy waves of fierce competition and never recovered; Someone went ashore against the wind and stepped on the waves. They succeeded. Because they have one more insistence. The cusp is not a stumbling block for them, but a cornerstone.
40. The call of the heart is a blank sheet of paper on an isolated island. No one will believe that a lone star can survive on an isolated island.
catalogue
Chapter 1: Avoiding the Marriage Minefield
Chapter 2: What to do before marriage? Psychol