A recent visiting case told me that I was trapped in a big hole of debt and felt that my body could hardly hold on under great pressure. Bean mother said that emotional stability is needed at this time to end the current embarrassment as soon as possible. Let's talk about this topic briefly this week.

Think about yourself. Do you like to get along with a seriously emotional person? Sesame died for something bigger, cried for the land, and pulled a long face when something happened, as if others owed him 800 yuan. No one has the responsibility to pay for other people's feelings, right?

(Speaking of which, Mama Dou feels a little guilty herself. Haha, I used to be a typical victim mentality of "blaming society and parents", so I couldn't get out of the endless cycle of poverty and bitterness in those years, and I deserved it. Haha)

Emotional stability is an important symbol of high emotional intelligence. Everyone likes people with high emotional intelligence. They are honest and conscientious, regardless of gains and losses, and even if they encounter some difficulties, they will be helped by nobles in time.

Festinger, an American social psychologist, once said: 65,438+00% of the events in your destiny are made up of what happened to you, and the other 90% are determined by your reaction to things. In other words, your emotions really determine what you will experience.

In ancient battlefields, there was often a tactic, that is, shouting and swearing before the battle, in order to anger the opponent and make him lose his correct judgment. Up to now, the battlefield does not exist, but if you can't control your emotions well, it will affect your fortune.

Communication between people is always about content and attitude. When you are ready to get angry, people around you will naturally avoid you involuntarily. Similarly, wealth will be avoided, because some people have money.

The last one is about emotional stability, good luck, good popularity, good fortune, and many people who are willing to cooperate.

Now let's talk about the direct relationship between emotion and wealth. Investment sentiment is also called investment psychology in some professional books, which is undoubtedly the most important point in investment, and the reason why human beings win one, draw two and lose seven in the stock market is mostly because of investment sentiment. For this professional problem, Ms. Dou won't teach fish to swim, leave it to professionals, haha.

Actually, this is the most important one. First of all, emotional stability is the best health care, and physical and mental health is the foundation of happiness in life.

There is a saying in Huangdi Neijing: Anger hurts the liver, grieves the lungs, grieves the spleen, and panics the kidneys. All diseases are born of qi. As the saying goes, shortness of breath hurts, and failure hurts.

The old man said: the more impatient the temper, the lower the wisdom; The calmer the temper, the deeper the wisdom; The bigger the temper, the worse the health; The more stable the temper, the deeper the blessing.

There is a line in the classic American drama The Walking Dead: "A lost soul can kill you quickly, much faster than bacteria". So it's up to you whether you want to do emotional management or not.

Secondly, the real freedom of wealth is the freedom of choice, and you can make your own decisions. "I am the master of my life!" .

On the road to wealth and freedom, the biggest enemy we encounter is often not ability, not condition, but emotion.

It is a rare ability to have a stable mood, be happy with money and no money, live well without money, and have the greatest freedom of choice before you have the opportunity to choose your favorite job. Doing what you like, great self-motivation, natural enthusiasm for life, high internal value and the principle of internal and external balance, external wealth will be very rich.

True wealth freedom is actually freedom of choice, and true happiness is actually emotional stability!

There is no unattainable wealth freedom, only emotional problems of poor management!

A voice came from my ear: I want to be emotionally stable, but I can't. The baby is disobedient, the husband is inconsiderate and the mother-in-law doesn't understand. Who should I talk to? What should I do? What shall we do? Oh, oh, oh.

Ha ha ha, not much to say. Come to fight mom, the effect is visible to the naked eye: the case has been agreed, and the original feedback is as follows: