No, please see the analysis below. His social status is not allowed. Most men try their best to reach the peak of their lives in middle age. For a man, status and money are the foundation of his foothold in this society. Middle-aged men have stable social status and a little money. So they may find another woman who is younger, more beautiful and gentler than their wife to make up for their so-called inner emptiness and loneliness. They feel that their original match is old and yellow, lacking passion and understanding, and the most important thing is visual fatigue. But you have to believe that they are only pursuing temporary happiness, and they will not give up their family because of you. Because middle-aged people choose to divorce, whether in their own industry, between their relatives and friends, or between colleagues, it will bring strong negative effects to themselves. This negative influence that directly threatens men may make them lose their existing social status or their existing assets. In that case, there is nothing for him, so he won't do such impulsive bad things. Parents don't allow it For anyone, parents are the most influential people in his life. Parents' greatest expectation for their children is to see their children get married and have children, and their family life is happy. For a betrayed man, he is afraid inside, very afraid of being caught. They will break up their marriage because of their betrayal, and most of their parents are old and have some physical diseases. When their parents know these things, something unexpected may happen because of these things. This situation of "losing his wife and losing his soldiers" is the last thing men want to see. Therefore, in this society where filial piety comes first, they will not divorce easily and will not take responsibility for their promises to you. Children are not allowed in. Children are often the emotional sustenance of both husband and wife in a family. As parents, they can do anything for their children unless they have to, and they don't want to bring any harm to them. For a man who has been betrayed, they have also considered whether you can get along with each other like your own children if you get married. After thinking about it, men often deny these ideas, because even if you can do it, the child will not accept it, and even if the child can accept it, he will feel guilty. So divorce is basically not that step. A cheating man will not choose to marry a woman outside marriage in the end. A man who betrays his marriage, all his promises to you are only to satisfy his temporary desires. In reality, please remember: destroying other people's happiness and stealing happiness is only short-lived, and the last one who gets hurt must be yourself! Is it love that a man says he loves you but doesn't divorce? 2 1. I had a similar experience with this mistress and fell in love with a man without knowing it. This is a typical "being a mistress", that is, passively becoming a third party without knowing it. Although "Bei San Xiao" is also a victim of feelings and cheated by married men, the appearance of many "Bei San Xiao" also reflects the frivolous, impetuous and careless side of young girls in the face of feelings. So I want to remind unmarried women that if they want to avoid the fate of being a mistress, they should be cautious in falling in love. When a man shows his love to you, he should at least pay some attention to find out his marital status, whether he is married or unmarried, and don't rush headlong into it until he hits the wall. "Flies don't bite seamless eggs", know yourself and know yourself, and strictly abide by the bottom line of never provoking married men. No matter how tall a person is, there is nothing he can do. At that time, I just went to work, and I felt it was normal to spend my boyfriend's money. If you look like a fairy, absolutely beautiful, and make your boyfriend fall in love with you, he will ask you for a large sum of money, and he can't live without you. In that case, he can satisfy his infatuation without spending money. If you don't have so much magic and your boyfriend doesn't have particularly strong financial resources, you'd better stick to AA system in the love stage. Because you spent his money, you gave him the right to blackmail you and demand your rights. If you don't listen, he can rightfully accuse you of being a gold digger, playing with feelings, blackmailing his blood and sweat, and making your mouth full, just like this mistress. If you didn't spend your boyfriend's money and things with a clear conscience at first, how could he ask for money later? People will humiliate themselves, then others will humiliate them. 3, in order to force me to follow suit, he even threatened me to go to my unit to publicize! Since he is so mean and heartless, you can also "deal with a man as he deals with you", that is, collect evidence that he lures you and threatens you, and warn him to give it to his wife or expose it to his company if he pesters you again, so as to prevent him from hurting others in the same way and let him know that the true feelings of women cannot be trampled on. Knowing that he is a married man, I was cheated by him. I'm angry enough. He even asked me to be his lover, saying that if I divorced, I would give half of my property to my wife. This man clearly has the dream of "the red flag at home is not falling, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside", but the pattern is too small, and his mind, generosity and economic ability are not enough. Therefore, he dare not divorce his wife, nor can he make San Xiao obey. However, the act of becoming angry from embarrassment and asking for money afterwards exposed its stingy, obscene and unpretentious side. In the final analysis, the happiness of Qi people is not so easy to enjoy, and extramarital affairs are beyond the reach of any man. You need to weigh yourself. The girl's attitude of leaving decisively after learning the truth is commendable. Although I feel cheated and humiliated, I am at least more immune to men and will not fall into the trap of married men so easily. In real life, many women are still reluctant to leave after knowing that they have been a mistress, and continue to pay for their feelings and youth, looking forward to the day when they enter the room, a little overestimating themselves and underestimating men. In Junichi Watanabe's book "Man", there is a wonderful saying: "Nine times out of ten successful men who have gained wealth and status in society will move on. But most men will not abandon their wives to marry other women. In the final analysis, this is because for a man, family is a place where he can recuperate and heal his wounds for many years. In his wife, the husband can get mother-like comfort, which is often not provided by young lovers. " Therefore, women should understand that unless the wife is really unbearable, most men cheat not for divorce, but for novelty and conquest. When married men with ulterior motives meet unmarried women who are greedy for money and love power and vanity and utility, it is very easy to hit it off, and under the guise of love, a farce dominated by money and eroticism/trading is staged. If women long for decent love and complete sunny marriage, they'd better stay away from married men and don't easily become their playthings and trophies for a few sweet words and a little money.