I remember very clearly that during the average three-hour self-study, she can spend two hours playing with her mobile phone, half an hour eating snacks, and the last half an hour reading and taking a photo to punch in.

When you go back, you should post a dynamic message in your circle of friends, and attach a photo of the study room, which shows that you are really motivated and hardworking.

As a result, after the exam, I was still very anxious and complained loudly: I studied so hard every day, why didn't I do well in the exam?

Friend, in fact, you are just pretending to work hard in your circle of friends.

Buy a book, take a photo and send it to a circle of friends to punch in, as if you have already read it;

Insomnia in the middle of the night, take a photo outside the window: Have you seen Beijing at 4 am? Think of yourself as working overtime until late at night;

Run 5 kilometers once in a while, shoot a sweaty vest, and consider yourself a fitness expert.

Real efforts are not for others to see. It's easy to deceive others, but it's too difficult to deceive yourself.

In addition to these people who pretend to work hard, there is another kind of people who really work hard, but there is no way.

I remember there was a girl in our class who studied very hard in college and decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination from the moment she first entered school.

She comes to the classroom first and leaves last every day.

Strangely, however, her study has been counting down, and any school scum can easily surpass her in a few days.

After every exam, she always breaks down and cries. I work so hard, why is it useless?

In fact, it's not that she doesn't work hard, but that she is working in the wrong direction.

Wrong direction. The harder you work, the more you will deviate from the correct line.

Looking back carefully now, she only takes notes in every class and misses the time for thinking and interaction.

When I was a student, the people who studied best were never those who struggled in the study room all day, but those who could arrange their lives vividly.

Because high-level people will spend more time thinking, choose what they really deserve to spend their time doing, and once they are determined, they will invest time and energy to complete it to the best.