I originally wanted to develop in the provincial capital city. Before graduation, I found a higher-level company to do human resources work. At first, I was quite excited. Get up early every day, squeeze the subway for half an hour and walk for ten minutes. Most young people in the company have a harmonious atmosphere. Because people are cheerful, they make friends quickly. Although the salary is not high and things are busy, they have a good time. It seems that it has always been like this.
I have worked in this company for almost four months. Because of some reasons at home and some external reasons, I chose to go back to work in the county. I'll say it one by one.
Family reasons: because my father worked in a credit union, he often went to the countryside for business loans when he was young. At that time (more than 0 years ago), it was our custom to often talk about things at the dinner table, commonly known as "round table meetings". The people in the village all entertain local wines (many homemade local wines are not up to standard, so there will be a feeling of great stamina), while my father usually likes to have three meals a day, mixed with a glass of white wine, which is harmful to the elderly (in 2000), so the reason for coming back to work is that I have done a little filial piety because of things at home. Health is really important for individuals and families, and we must take it as a warning; I also have a sister, a brother-in-law from other places, and a little niece. They also moved back with their families and were very moved.
External reasons: I like to play, I don't study well in college, I like to play, or I just concentrate on playing bands, unlike law majors. At that time, just after graduation, I thought: music, I still play at work! There is a big problem: I go to work for more than an hour every time. When I got home from work, it was almost nine o'clock after eight o'clock. I can't stop running around all day, and I'm very tired when I get home from work. How can I have the energy to play rock again? Let's talk about the weekend. I just want to sleep. Wake up at one or two in the afternoon to watch a play and play games, and order takeout at seven or eight in the evening. Ok, keep playing. Play some rock! I have no time to take care of my own nest. After a long stay, the company gradually found that there was a palace fight within the department. I am a boy, and the department is full of girls. As long as one of the other two is absent, I will whisper this person and complain about the bitter water. The surface is calm, but in fact it is undercurrent. The company also rented an apartment as a canteen to serve Chinese food. Later, the landlord sold the house to others, and we had nowhere to go. At noon, we ran around the street in the sun, looking for food. I really can't stand it. I like keeping in good health, and I like being comfortable and comfortable. I also struggled when I was working in the company (thinking about coming back or staying). In two minutes, I will leave.
I don't want to say it deliberately. When I come back, I feel that the county is better than the city. Whether it is a city or a county, there are good ones. I have the ability or confidence and ambition, I can find friends everywhere, I can blossom everywhere. The premise of a good state of life and mood is not where you are, but yourself.
Summarize daily life:
1, working in the county, it takes ten minutes to get to work, which is very convenient. When you come home from work, you will have food waiting for you, so you can wash the dishes yourself. Basically, after dinner at 7 pm, I will play drama and games until 8: 30 to 9: 00, go out for exercise or band rehearsal (to be organized in the county town) until 10: 00, come back to take a bath, read a book or continue to play drama, meditate or do light yoga, and sometimes get up after midnight when I am hungry and go to bed. On weekends, the band lined up, either lying down or having fun or taking their families to the surrounding towns and villages for sightseeing. Really, as a person with many hobbies, it's really great to have more free time. The ancestors left a few plots of land in the countryside, and they plan to build villas when they have savings in the future, and choose a variety of sites to carry out health care to the end!
Sometimes I feel that the convenience of resources in big cities has become less in county towns, which is quite uncomfortable. Most of my friends have gone out to work in big cities. At most, they just meet and contact each other on holidays. It's a pity that I can't bear the friends I met when I was studying in the provincial capital city, especially the people in the band, the people in the music association and the people who should have been together. I miss that city for several years, not because of itself, but because of the people who used to get along there.
Fortunately, the county where I live is less than an hour and a half's drive from the provincial capital. I really miss it. Let's drive there at the weekend. In two years, the high-speed rail will take off, and you can go anywhere. Now I hope my hometown is getting better and better and richer. I often drive around our small county in the evening, looking at these mountains and rivers and these planned buildings. I love this small mountain city. I am a small local and I hope it will be good.
4. In fact, I have been visiting Zhihu to see this problem before I came back, and I agree with some respondents that going out or breaking in or going back to the county is salted fish. Where to develop is really related to individuals, and geographical reasons really don't account for much. Only those who have accomplished nothing will attribute these reasons to the region and the outside world. Those who have the ability to make a difference in this city are now. People who are now able to make a difference in their hometown.
5. The most important thing is to let go of psychological prejudice and see where we can develop better and think further. I just graduated. I don't know much about the world, and I don't have the strength and money. After all, I am slowly groping. Through hard work, I hope I am making the right choice now. At the same time, I don't like having some friends. After going out to work and living in a big city, I will talk about how small counties are dilapidated, low-inclusive and human society. It's one-sided, and it feels childish.
I once thought that I could take root in a big city after going out for four years. It never occurred to me that I love my small town more and more. In the city, I thought I was an ant and had nothing to rely on. I know I'm not the kind of person who tries hard. I want to stay and keep the county seat. Work hard, study and improve academic qualifications, study, take root in the county, and play music by yourself.
Updated on March 8, 2020/kloc-0:
Previously, our county was affected by the epidemic and became the hardest hit area (the county was infected with 2 1 person), and road control was carried out. Because I am also in the political and legal system, I was arranged to support my public security colleagues to stay in the card for more than a month, and now I am ready to end my promotion.
Now I have been working in the county for more than half a year, and then I can't help but sigh: It's so sweet to be back in the county!
Over the past six months, I have made many new friends, and my work has been recognized by the leaders. I formed a new band and began to perform. My family was very happy and began to lose the fat I ate in college through exercise. At present, everything is going well and everything is safe.
Finally, share some daily performances of the band. Wish you all the best. Don't dwell on cities or counties, seriously consider whether the present is in line with future development. Every place has its own place. Don't be influenced by the poisoned chicken soup that "no city can accommodate the body and no county can accommodate the soul"! The key is to consider yourself! !