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When her husband died, her property was robbed. How can four daughters turn the tide?
I have heard the best description of talent: "Money can buy back flattery, but talent can win the world." A person's greatest wealth is his talent and knowledge, and nothing can replace it.

During the Republic of China, in the era of male supremacy, a group of women exuded their own unique light, shining the whole era. They have unparalleled talents and have written books. Advocating women's rights and devoting to girls' schools. They enjoyed great fame in the literary and educational circles in the late Qing Dynasty and the Republic of China, and were praised by people at that time. They are Huainan, Lv Huiru, Lu, Lu Kunxiu.

At the end of the Qing Dynasty and the beginning of the Republic of China, women's education was gradually valued, and girls' schools were established in a few areas. It is worth studying that there are very few girls' schools with four principals surnamed Lu. Lu Huiru, president of Nanjing Jiangnan Women's College, Lu, honorary president of Fengtian Women's School, and president of Tianjin Beiyang Women's Normal School.

In the late Ming and early Qing dynasties, women's lack of talent was the era of virtue. How did the four sisters of Lujia stand out and become the best of that era?

First, scholarly family, rich family, has declined in the family.

My father, Lu Fengqi, used to be a scholar. In the following days, he successively held positions such as the National History Museum and collected 30,000 books at home. In addition, Lu's career has been in full swing. Therefore, the Lushi family is not only a famous scholarly family, but also the home of the wealthy Huizhou merchants. It is conceivable that the social status and social influence of the Lu family at that time were high! It is no exaggeration to say that Lujia is a veritable aristocratic family in the local area.

But no one in this world has the ability to predict the future, and no one knows what will happen in the next second. The sudden change caught the big family off guard. After his father Lu Fengqi died, only his mother Yan and their sisters were left. Since there were no men and no relatives in the Lujia family, they began to rob their family's property in a different way, and Yan's mother and daughter were even humiliated and driven out of the house.

The four sisters of Lujia experienced life changes since childhood, knowing that the world is cold and their hearts are sour. But it is precisely because of these unpleasant and even cruel experiences that the four of them are stronger, more mature and know how to survive in this complex society than their peers.

Second, the mother's teaching is the wealth of their life.

The success of the four sisters in Lu can not be separated from their mother-Yan. Yan was born in a scholarly family. Her grandmother Shen Shanbao was a poetess in Xianfeng period. She is not only good at poetry, but also knowledgeable. Shen Shanbao's thoughts and talents deeply influenced Yan. Yan wrote a good poem when he was young. She is an excellent woman.

Under Yan's careful teaching, the four Lujia sisters stood out at a young age, and all of them shone brilliantly. Yan sent his third daughter to the city for a better education. Push Lv Bicheng into politics and become a generation of outstanding women.

Third, the talented Lu sisters made the Lu family rise again.

After the decline of the Lu family, the people took all their property, but not their talents. After entering the city, the Lujia sisters gradually emerged in the literary world with their talents. Lv Bicheng became the earliest female editor in China, and became an adviser to the Presidential Palace after the founding of the Republic of China. And her sisters and sisters have also been engaged in the work related to writers, and they all have their own areas of expertise. Later, due to coincidence, I went to the south to do business and earned money that I could never spend all my life.

Lujia's most famous sister has a deep friendship with Qiu Jin. They often discuss things about the national luck and people's pulse together, from which we can see their patriotic feelings. They also have a common desire-they call for revolution together and safeguard women's rights together.

There is also an interesting story between them: Qiu Jin took Bi Cheng as his pen name because he admired Lv Bicheng very much. Over time, many of Lv Bicheng's works were mistaken for Qiu Jin's. Qiu Jin learned that, hurriedly changed.

I think, if you want to know how famous the four Lujia sisters were in the society at that time, you can find the answer through the following short story.

One day, a small traffic accident happened in the streets of Tianjin. A woman was hit by a tram on her way to work and accidentally hurt her wrist. Even in modern times, this kind of thing will be ignored, not to mention the low status of women in the Republic of China. But on the contrary, this extremely common thing in everyone's eyes shocked the famous Yuan Shikai. He not only reprimanded the police chief, but also sent Yuan to visit the woman in the hospital. This woman is Lu. Not to mention her sister Lv Bicheng, who is more famous than her.

Lu Zeng visited Japan as a folk scholar. During this period, Lu visited the Japanese Minister of Culture and exchanged views with many famous people on academic issues. He has a deep contact with Japanese cultural traditions and has a great influence.

There is no doubt that the Lushi sisters became the brightest color in the Republic of China at that time.

Maybe there will be many people in this world who think that money is the most important thing, and you can get everything with money. As we all know, talent is a person's most fundamental capital. Even at a certain moment, when the quantitative change of talent accumulated to the critical point of qualitative change, this bulletproof vest became a gorgeous and noble evening dress, which made you dazzling on the stage.

Sister Lu, I think the important reason for their success lies in their mother Yan. Someone once said, "The hand that pushes the cradle is also the hand that pushes the world." A mother's three views will really affect her family and children. People who like reading history may notice that behind every outstanding person, there is almost a wise, insightful and correct mother. Mencius is like this, Yue Fei is like this, and so are the Lushi sisters.

As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers, which is true. The influence of a family on children is not only limited to whether children are happy in childhood, but also includes how children will react when they walk on their own life path and face difficulties. A family, even if the family is surrounded by walls, as long as there is a kind and strong mother, then her children will still grow up healthily and even make a difference.

Favorite sentence-maybe someone will stop you from succeeding, but no one will stop you from growing up. Many external factors make it difficult for us to succeed so easily, but we can learn a lot from it. We should always believe that talent is our most reliable asset. As long as we have the strength, we are not afraid to fight alone.