Many beginners will encounter such troubles, either they don't know what to talk about, or they can talk a lot, but they digress, digress from Wan Li. More people's questions are biased towards the latter. The following is what I collected for you. Welcome to learn from it.

Three factors:

1, can't grasp the theme, although I know what problems to solve, but I don't know how to do it with limited ability and level, and I always can't grasp the key points;

2, confused, I don't know what I'm talking about and what I want to achieve. I'm just talking about the east and the west, and the content of my speech is chaotic;

There are too many topics, and the content of the speech involves too many problems. I want to solve this problem and that problem. I didn't understand the last two, which means there is no theme. A speech without a theme is of no value and significance to the audience.

Ready-made speeches must not deviate from the theme, the spokesman should always pay attention to the theme, all speeches should focus on the theme, and the packaging should not be expanded at will. And if all the speeches are around the theme, even if they run a little "far" in the process of elaboration, as long as they are reasonable and tasteful, they will naturally be recognized by the audience.

Although it is simple to say, not everyone can do it. So how can the speaker get to the point and stay on topic? The following aspects need to be done.

First, choose topics related to the theme and in line with the language environment.

Any meeting or occasion has its own unique theme. The speaker should always stick to the theme when he makes an impromptu speech. If he continues to talk around the theme, he can avoid digression. At the same time, the speech should be recognized and applauded by the audience according to their professional characteristics, education level, ideological level, gender, age, situation and mood.

At the birthday party where Mr. Deng Lao, a cultural relic collector, donated 1300 pieces of cultural relics to many key universities and provincial and municipal museums in China, a leader made an impromptu speech as an old friend on behalf of the recipient unit.

Today, I want to give Mr. Deng two sentences: "Great virtue leads to longevity", which means that people with high morality live long and happy people live long. Health preservation is not only a means of fitness, but also a philosophy of life. Mr. Deng usually calls himself "the old man with five pleasures", that is, helping others, enjoying himself, sharing happiness with others and finding happiness in suffering. I want to say that your "five pleasures" should combine one joy and one joy is good. You are a "six-happiness old man"!

Judging from this speech, the leader spoke according to the theme. Considering that all the guests present here are experienced people in the cultural field, he quoted the old saying of China to express a strong cultural atmosphere, which not only fits the theme of the birthday party, but also jumps out of the stereotype that "longevity is like the East China Sea, and longevity is better than the South Mountain", which not only conforms to the language environment, but also guides the situation. This is a good way to stick to the subject and stay on topic.

Second, cultivate careful and clear thinking.

Thinking is a positive and purposeful cognitive activity, and it is a general, essential and indirect reflection of the human brain on objective things.

Language is the carrier of thinking, so the correctness of language is directly related to thinking. Many people digress in impromptu speeches because they are not careful enough and even have confusion of thinking. Therefore, you should pay attention to think carefully when you speak in public. Pay attention to one problem at a time in your life, don't blur the center of the problem, and keep accumulating, and your thinking will become more and more detailed and orderly.

So specifically, how do we need to achieve it?

First of all, learn to express your views accurately. When describing a complicated matter or expounding a certain point of view, the speaker had better make a "draft" in his mind first, think first, then express it, with clear hierarchy and clarity, so that the logic of the speech will be greatly improved. For those topics that can be long or short, try to be brief, and try not to say unnecessary words.

In addition, it should be noted that we need to practice the ability of "taking back" when telling divergent stories. If you don't "take it back" in time, you will really digress and get back to the topic. So when speaking, the speaker had better figure out when or where to turn the topic to the topic, and don't digress from Wan Li.

Secondly, we should overcome bad emotions such as nervousness, anxiety and fear and keep a good mood. In the speech, if the speaker can calmly explain his point of view and make his thinking and language fluent, then there will be no digression. If you are nervous and anxious when you speak, it will affect the normal execution of thinking, and sometimes there will be confusion and brain blank. Therefore, a good state and mood are very important.

After understanding the above reasons and methods, you can improve your expression ability. In this way, you can gradually increase your control over the discourse, so that every speech you make is brilliant, not only can you leave the manuscript, but also won't stray from the topic.