You really can't find anyone to travel with, because there will always be some small problems during the trip, which can best expose the prototype.
So, what about the girlfriend?
On weekdays, everything is shared from trivial matters to life ideals, from celebrity gossip to parents' shortcomings. Can it stand the test of travel?
Recently, four girlfriends who have known each other for 20 years traveled to Myanmar together, showing us the true face of their friendship.
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The program "We Are Real Friends" recently started, and four good friends, Barbie Hsu (big S), Xiao S and Liu (Aya), traveled together for the first time.
A big S that is exquisite online at all times but has a small poison tongue from time to time; Ghost horses are funny and know how to stop; A delicate and gentle "housekeeper" Aya; As always, Mavis Fan, a charming girl.
Four people met when they were young, and in a blink of an eye, twenty years passed.
Mavis Fan once almost jumped off a building because of depression; Aya married a living Buddha and gave birth to a daughter; "Kangxi is coming" stopped broadcasting, and Xiao S became an "unemployed woman"; Shouting that he will never get fat, Big S is getting fat and becoming a mother.
From the pure friendship between students, to the mutual support and cherish when they first entered the entertainment circle, and then to the firm family relationship that has not been separated through storms, the four sisters have spent different stages of their lives together and become an indispensable part of each other's lives.
When I was 20 years old, I shed my youth coat, and with the best appearance given by time, I got together again, went deep into a strange country, ate and lived together, and started a journey without work and family, only good sisters.
Unlike other strangers who travel and stay with good sisters, everyone knows each other's personality and how to get along. Everyone is the most comfortable.
I think this is the best way to travel.
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When good friends are together, they can go crazy and play together.
The four sisters have different personalities, some are lively and some are quiet, which will poison each other.
From the time they got on the bus, the "mutual loss" between them began.
Amy's little S showed off her skin condition in Aya, describing her "whole face is glowing".
Aya tactfully retorted, "Then you don't suck oil quickly." Xiao S then teased Aya to get a beauty injection.
Only sisters dare to joke like this.
Xiao S is king of the children in the sorority, playing with Aya and singing with Mavis Fan anytime and anywhere.
With good sisters, we can play jokes on each other easily, and the journey is more energetic, noisy, but also happy.
"The four of us are sisters who are not related by blood."
In their forties, they may be called "middle-aged aunts" in real life, but their age has no effect on them, and they still have a heart that loves life.
They still like handsome guys, like shopping, like bragging, and will be entangled in some small flaws on their eyebrows.
In order to persuade the big S and the small S to row together, Aya lied to them that the boatman was handsome. Small S immediately took out her cosmetic bag to make up her makeup, and big S specially changed her slippers.
Although they both showed disappointment when they saw the boatman later, it must be a rare experience for the four sisters to enjoy the sunset by boat together.
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Good friends together can make each other better selves.
Although the trip of the four sisters is noisy, there are also many warm moments.
Get up early to take the bus. Small s has the problem of getting up early and flatulence, so he burps. Aya, a "health expert" sitting next to her, naturally held out her hand and said, "Let me press it for you."
Before the trip, Mavis Fan personally made a strategy, so the four sisters decided to challenge the hot air balloon and overlook the tens of thousands of pagodas in Bagan according to the strategy.
On the hot air balloon, we learned that Aya actually has acrophobia, and the other three sisters have been comforting her and encouraging her:
Big S appeased Aya and said, "I was afraid of heights when I jumped down, and now I'm flying again", but it didn't have the opposite effect.
Small s let Aya look straight as far as possible, don't look down; On the other hand, Mavis Fan began to play music to calm her mood.
The really effective way is to count the most annoying little S. She and Aya "throw each other" and successfully slowly diverted Aya's attention.
Later, I suggested listening to music, singing in a hot air balloon with Mavis Fan, and occasionally coaching Doby.
Slowly Aya relaxed her mood, sang with her sisters, and finally stood up unconsciously. Everyone applauded her.
Good sisters are really relaxed and happy together.
When faced with fear, the company of good friends will give people great courage.
Look, even the "weakness" of life can be repaired with the help of sisters.
With their company and encouragement, I didn't miss this once-in-a-lifetime spectacle.
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With good friends, you can be yourself freely.
Travel is also based on comfort, no heavy makeup, no fancy clothes, very casual.
Go shopping together, bargain together, and buy together at buy buy.
Although the four sisters are all stars with halo above their heads, as girlfriends, their daily life is almost the same as ours: they can't do without talking about some beauty topics, joking with each other, and uniting when they see handsome guys.
In my forties, I have experienced ups and downs in my life, my family is stable, my career is almost busy, and I seem to be more true to myself.
More calm, more comfortable, more able to calm down and face life and yourself.
Among the many roles in life, they are mothers, wives and children, but only together are they eternal girls and best friends.
In front of our closest friends, we can always unload all our defenses and be carefree.
In the program, Xiao S plays an evil role without any burden, as if he had returned to his youth. But in fact, they know very well that this is a unique way for Xiao S to vent his emotions.
No one tried to change her and let her be herself.
Big S, in the face of Aya's fear of heights, she said she didn't force her to stand up, just said "respect others' fears."
She doesn't put pressure on Aya because she thinks she has done well in all aspects and doesn't have to force herself to overcome all her weaknesses to prove it.
Good friends are like this, understanding you and cooperating with you.
Sometimes a small S will not hesitate to hurt someone if he has played it. Xiao S said that he felt the energy of Aya's grievance at that time and reminded himself to shut up.
Good friends are like this, they can sense each other's emotions in time, shut up or stop in time, and will not intensify contradictions.
Timely communication, the introspection, the apology, and the embarrassment in my heart have been completely resolved.
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Hemingway wrote a golden sentence after a bad trip with Fitzgerald, the author of The Great Gatsby.
Never travel with people you don't love.
Conversely, friends who can travel happily together should be unusual friends.
Traveling with a good sister, you know what kind of snacks she likes, she knows where the scenery is your favorite, and many small things happen to coincide.
Even if you are unhappy occasionally, you can say it in a few words. When you are unhappy, I will give you a hug, encourage you and be proud of you.
At the age of 40, the young face showed traces of wrinkles under the carving of years;
At the age of 40, you may still find the breath of youth in your mature mind;
At the age of 40, people around me are in a hurry, and some of them have no intersection with time;
At the age of 40, being able to stay with you, play together, travel together and miss the past together may be the perfect definition of a true friend.
For a woman, a best friend may be more important than a lover. What woman doesn't have one or several good female friends?
Traveling with girlfriends is like bringing an ideal traveling companion, with multiple identities of perfect lover, lover and sister.
It's too difficult to have friends all over the world. It is a blessing to know one or two friends.
Traveling with like-minded friends is a very happy and beautiful thing.
No husband and children, let go of work;
Sing and dance together;
Play together and laugh together.
Do you remember the last time you traveled with your best friend? Why not make up your mind now and customize a trip for your girlfriends?
Is it too much trouble to travel with good friends and prepare your own strategy?
Leave us a happy journey of the times!
We recommend carl honore, so that you can spend enough time feeling the local customs every time you leave, and refuse to take a cursory tour.
We recommend small group travel, with friends and family, 6 people can form a group (5~8 people can also travel).
People who travel together are close, not too lonely or too noisy, but also flexible in dealing with various situations and easy to unify their opinions. The whole trip makes you more relaxed and have fun!
You can rest assured about accommodation. We believe that even if you travel to go out to play, a good rest place will give you a full rest and travel with full spirit.
Therefore, we prefer hotels with local characteristics, with domestic four-star service, and you will feel it when you arrive at the destination.
These hotels are usually cost-effective, not the most expensive, but the most reasonable and distinctive, which is the first choice for smart travel.
When traveling, many people will worry that the "tour guide" will urge them to go shopping. You needn't worry when we travel in Yue Ling. We promise: all consumption items are open and transparent, without hidden consumption and shopping traps.
Our route is purely fun, no shopping, so you don't have to work hard to prepare your own guidebook. We will arrange professional guides and drivers for you.
They are familiar with the local scenery, understand the local terrain, and can take you to eat delicious food and see the scenery, just like your local friends. Scenery all the way, stories all the way, make your trip deeper.
Time flies, but friendship lasts forever. Make an appointment with your best friend and travel!
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