Those events that seem to have disappeared, if not cleaned up thoroughly in time, will only move, hide in which part of the body, be remembered by the body, and accumulate to a certain extent, and will appear as physical diseases.
Those conditions will be triggered again when some similar events happen in the future. These conditions come from the subconscious memory deep in the body, which is difficult for people to perceive with their brain consciousness. Only when a similar situation happens again can past memories and feelings be recalled, if you have a strong consciousness.
The first half of my life was a mess. When some events in my life come, I just passively immerse myself in that kind of emotion, and I can't get out for a few days or even a long time. I can't see the truth behind the incident. What is it reminding me? I got caught up in that incident. I was too immersed in sadness or some uncomfortable feeling. I feel that life is extremely miserable and I don't know how to save myself now. This state of life lasted for many years.
The unhappiness in our life often comes from the difficulty of thinking. As a student, if you don't read a lot of extra-curricular books about mental growth besides studying the knowledge of cultural classes at school, you don't seem to have learned much about life and spiritual skills and ways to deal with emotions.
In the process of life growth, if your parents can't guide you and give you spiritual help, when they are not doing well or know more than you, your growth is very hard and confused.
The lack of love caused by the birth of a family, even in the adult life, will continue to experience these, and will continue to find the part that is still missing in life, and fill themselves in various ways from the outside.
I just went through such a confused period, and finally I was awakened in a state of extreme pain and came through self-learning and growth. Looking back on the situation at that time, it is like a person driving a boat of life, ups and downs in the stormy sea of life, unable to find a place to dock and a home where life can park. A lonely ghost has lasted for many years, because the lack of love in the family has a lot to do with the stability of the family.
Those bad habits or incorrect life beliefs of family of origin's parents will deeply affect us. When we are young, when we can't tell right from wrong, we can only blindly listen to imitation and acceptance, and in later life, we will form some beliefs of our own, which will affect our life. This is a terrible inheritance of life.
This is how we pass on the family's inherent life style to his next generation, just like passing on the baton of life to each generation. Even repeating the same life story in different generations, you can't escape from that circle, but you don't know what happened. If you can know something about Herlinger's family order or psychology, you will analyze and solve the truth of life layer by layer like a mystery. What happened there, exploring the source of life can really help you see clearly.
How do those life wounds on the road of growing up affect our lives? We need to learn to examine and heal ourselves. Life needs to take care of itself, and this process is not easy.
In the next article, I will focus on my personal life growth experience and decipher the meaning of life growth from the psychological and energy levels. In the process of our growth, it is hard to come by.
I also want to show my life experience, how to treat myself and love along the way, and give some guidance to my daughter and children of the same age who are in a beautiful adolescence and full of life confusion. I also need to be cautious. I know, which sentence in which article I have read may affect my life, and may also heal my pain in which language scene.
I just like it, and I'm sure the words are alive. The light of love through words is a kind of nourishment for life. Let's talk more about words of sympathy and love.
I tried my best. What I learned, what I know and what I can give you are the best. This is my initial intention. I hope all life can learn to care for themselves and heal themselves.