Pay attention to your words and deeds and respect your personality. This is self-esteem. Self-esteem and self-love are necessary to some extent, but how to cherish and love is enough, and we need to grasp a degree. Cherish, need to have the reason and value of cherish. Of course, people come to this world as individuals in nature, which belongs to the survival of the fittest after competition. Although full of ups and downs, they are still breathing the mixed atmosphere between heaven and earth without hesitation. The formation and growth of every life is so extraordinary. What are the reasons for not cherishing yourself? However, this precious content is debatable. Cherish life, cherish family ties, cherish encounters, cherish gains, and cherish the inevitability and accident in life. Cherish your reputation, your character, this kind of self-esteem is necessary. However, anything beyond a certain limit will be counterproductive. Another explanation of self-weight is the weight of the object itself. To respect yourself, you must first know your weight, that is, you must know how much you weigh. It is understandable to take care of yourself with a broom. However, if you are just a grass, you have to think of yourself as a tree. You are just a tile, but you should think of yourself as a jade. If you are so self-respecting, you will only ask for trouble in bring disgrace to oneself. Self-respect, if you are a grass, do what is in the grass and try to bloom the green of the grass. If you are a tile, do your duty and go where you need it.

Self-esteem is neither self-righteous nor arrogant. Self-esteem needs sobriety and wisdom. If you want to respect yourself, you must respect yourself. Only by removing the shackles that do not belong to you, but carrying a heavy burden, and truly abandoning all unnecessary falsehoods and burdens, can you find your true self. Only by knowing your weight can you respect yourself and have self-esteem. Self-esteem needs peace and indifference. Self-respect sometimes means bowing your head, being open-minded, taking yourself seriously and not taking yourself seriously.

Self-respect is a kind of concentration, a kind of accomplishment, which needs to be cultivated. Don't sell yourself short, don't take yourself too seriously, don't stand in the wrong position, and know who you are at all times.