1, rhythm game

When your boyfriend asks you if you want me to come to see you, how do you reply? In fact, boys can say that I want to come to see you, but "Do you want me to come to see you" is a bit subtle, which means I hope you promise first. If you want to get the rhythm back, you can push and pull: "You'd better not come to see me" and then say "Because I'm afraid you won't leave ~"

Next, if the boy's reply makes you satisfied, follow your rhythm and give a small reward: "Haha, I can't bear to let you go ~

2. Express concern

A very useful speech of general concern. For example, if a boy says he has a cold, you can say, "If I can come back from a trip, I want to put on a dress for you, so that you won't catch a cold." This template can be used in many scenarios. For example: "I miss you"; "If I can travel back, I want to give you a kiss when I leave, so that you can have a thought."

3. After tentative indifference

When the relationship is uncertain, when the boys are temporarily indifferent and find that you are emotionally stable and have a colorful life, then the boys will contact you actively. Here's what to do: don't act like you're pretending.

1, if a boy doesn't mention anything about his previous indifference after taking the initiative to find you, don't mention it either. Otherwise, it seems that you have been very concerned about whether he contacted you or not.

2. If a boy brings up this matter himself after taking the initiative to find you, he will generally not say how he is, but why you haven't found him these days and ignored him. At this time, don't start to explain yourself when you are excited, or because you are looking for me. You can say, "I prefer it. When I miss you, you are always by my side. "

4. Set up a person.

It's the first time to have dinner with a boy. After eating, the boy suggested that the rest should be packed. What can you do at this time? Tidying up is a good habit, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a virtue. If you want to establish a good person, just say "I agree" or "I think you did a good job", which is relatively dull.

If you want to get better results, you can suppress it first and then improve it. Ask the boy first: "Haha, aren't you afraid of being considered stingy in front of the girl you just met?" Faced with this question, boys will express their thoughts and some of their values. After the boys finish, you can say, "Yes, I'm impressed."