Do not doubt your outlook on life. He is not only beautiful (handsome), but also taller, richer, richer and more talented than you. But it doesn't matter. Although ugly, I want to be beautiful.
Internal beauty is more important than external beauty, but in this superficial society which pays more attention to external beauty, it is more like a means of self-comfort and self-deception. It starts with face value, respects talent, fits personality, is longer than kindness, and ends with personality. No face value, it's over before it starts.
Parents can't give you an angel's face, and plastic surgery has become the best way to get the ultimate appearance. Many people laugh at plastic surgery as if they were spending her money. Among those who oppose plastic surgery, two kinds of psychology are particularly common: 1. I have no money and I can't afford it. It doesn't matter if it's ugly. If it looks better than me, I won't allow it. I have money, and I have thought about the painful thing of plastic surgery, but I dare not try.
Many netizens will dig out the old photos of the stars before "plastic surgery" and declare in a high-profile way: Is this still your goddess? Secretly, I didn't look good before plastic surgery. For stars who don't recognize plastic surgery: not all, you will know when the children grow up. Such people are boring enough. This is not a great scientific experiment. Is it worth your ten or even decades of follow-up investigation? What does it matter to you whether someone else has plastic surgery or not? Is it worth worrying about?
Looking at it from another angle, it takes great courage and perseverance to endure the pain of "mid-year", which is unbearable for ordinary people. It makes you feel sorry for yelling because of a minor injury. Even if you are given enough money, do you really have the courage to cut dozens of knives in your face?
Some people are beautiful (handsome), while others are on the way to becoming beautiful (handsome). What are you doing at this time? Brush Weibo, chat on WeChat, sleep in, gossip? Money, face value, education, height, figure, talent ..... You have to explain something.
Natural selection, the survival of the fittest is the law of the jungle. Big fish eat small fish, small fish eat shrimp. Nothing is fair. You can't be a big fish, you can only be shrimp eaten by big fish.
There is a joke that you can't be poor for three generations: you always think that you can't be poor for three generations, which means that you will be rich by the fourth generation. Later, it was discovered that in the third generation, the poor had no wives, so there was no fourth generation. Although it was just a joke, after laughing, a chill came out of my heart. Poverty has become a hereditary system. Looking back carefully, it is not difficult to find that children who grow up in a good family environment often have higher achievements in the future than those who grow up in slums. The hereditary system of poverty is too cruel, which is a continuation of tragedy. Of course, it is not that children from poor families can't succeed, but the chances of success are extremely low. This has something to do with money, connections and background. But what is more important is the inherent thinking mode and the lack of effective execution and perseverance.
Give a simple example to illustrate the two modes of poor thinking and rich thinking. The poor put their money in the bank and accumulate wealth through hard work and thrift. The rich divide their money into several modules: living expenses, travel expenses, unexpected expenses, ability improvement expenses and financial investment expenses. And accumulate wealth through Qian Shengqian and rolling interest. Compared with the former, the latter has a sound financial management system and the courage to take risks, and dares to invest in projects with invisible benefits.
Although this simple summary of the two kinds of thinking is somewhat one-sided, it can be seen from the inside. Do you have the courage to take risks and invest in yourself? Through continuous study and contact with excellent people, you will benefit greatly.
I believe many people who have seen Chasing Happyness have a deep feeling: the product can't be sold, and the balance on the card is only 2 1, so they can't afford the rent. Isn't this a vivid self? But feeling belongs to feeling. Although you have the same starting point, have you ever reached the same destination?
You can be short, you can be poor, you can be ugly, you can have no background, you can be not smart, you can have nothing. But if you blame everything on "life", it is the biggest failure. As the saying goes, sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. This is sheer nonsense. Some people say that this is fate. If you can't get it, some people say: this is life. If you feel that there is no hope in the future, you will be confused and give up on yourself. Is this also the so-called "fate"? Ironically, this robber logic that believes in "fate" is highly praised by many people.
God didn't give you an angel's face, but you can shape the devil's figure. Without giving you wealth, you can build your own wealth kingdom. Some people say: it's easier said than done! There is a bucket of gold hidden at the end of the rainbow, and people are really on their way. It's not that I can't, but my inner self-denial limits my development.
There is a theory that 10000 hours, that is, when you insist on 10000 hours, you can make a qualitative leap and achieve great success. It takes about 65,438+00 years to spend 2-3 hours a day doing this without affecting normal work, which is what people often say: the achievement after 65,438+00 years depends on the work after 8-65,438+00 years. It's just that many people don't have this perseverance.
Maybe someone will ask, I really don't know what I should do. When you feel confused, racking your brains will only make your life more chaotic. If you don't want to read, listen to the radio. If you don't want to listen to the radio, watch the video. There are many ways to learn, and whatever can bring you knowledge and make you feel something is worth trying. Through continuous understanding, clear their goals, so as not to be like headless flies, the rest is just to find effective methods on this road.
So how to find the so-called effective way? This requires constant attempts and is often extremely painful. Take investment as an example. When you first enter the stock market, it is inevitable to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, get up your courage, and finally lose everything. You will find that after reading so many theories, you still get nothing. This is an attempt. You can try it several times with a small amount of money. If you fail more, you can naturally sum up your own laws. It's just that many people are not good at summing up and finally choose to escape.
How to spend a person's life reminds me of a sentence that everyone has memorized since childhood in a metropolis: when he looks back on the past, he should not regret wasting his time, nor should he be ashamed of doing nothing. Idle years eventually lead to mediocrity, and it is difficult to close your eyes even if you are dying. What you need is your own calmness and calmness, and you don't need outside recognition. As Jiang Yang said: We were so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others.
The world belongs to you. You have to have some special skills to live in your own world. No matter figure, knowledge, talent and skills, they are all wealth that can't be ignored, but too many people focus on material things and ignore the potential of exchanging them for material things.
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