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I pay attention to health and health preservation, but my girlfriend likes pizza and beer. How should they get along?
In this case, two people should be more understanding and tolerant, try to adapt to each other's life and don't change each other's living habits. Boys pay great attention to health, but what if they have a girlfriend who likes beer and pizza? The living habits of two people are completely different, and it is easy to produce various contradictions. At this time, we must pay attention to communication and be more understanding and tolerant of each other.

I. Understanding and tolerance

It is normal for two people to have different living habits, which is mainly related to the different growth environment of two people. Since our living habits are different, we should respect each other's living habits as much as possible. If there is any problem, we must communicate in time and don't take it to heart, so the original small contradiction is likely to lead to big contradiction.

Second, adapt to each other's life.

If two people want to live together, they must try to adapt to each other's life. For example, a boy can try to have some beer and pizza with his girlfriend, and his girlfriend can also try to live a healthy life. Maybe you will find something different. Don't directly deny each other's lifestyle at the beginning, which is unfair to each other. After all, everyone's life is different. If you are sure that you can't adapt to each other, I suggest you don't continue to get along, because there will be more trouble in the future.

Third, don't change each other hard.

Some people always want each other to cater to themselves and change each other in a tough way, which is wrong in itself. You should know that this habit has been with him for a long time. It is unrealistic to suddenly ask the other person to change, and forcing others to change will only increase contradictions and not help the feelings of two people at all. Smart people usually observe carefully at this time and find the right time to convince each other. As long as two people pay attention to communication, they can continue to love each other even if their lifestyles and preferences are different.