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Emotional stability is a person's best health. What would you do in the face of a grumpy neighbor?
Many people know that keeping a normal mind and facing life with a peaceful mind is the best way to keep in good health, because a good mood and stable mood will not cause physical lesions and injuries, but will be of great help to the rehabilitation of diseases. However, some people in life do not understand this truth. They often lose their temper and even fly into a rage because of some trivial things. As a result, their anger rises, they get sick easily, and their interpersonal relationship becomes tense. Some people don't even want to associate with him. Although we don't approve of this grumpy lifestyle, we will still meet such people in our lives, especially our neighbors who are grumpy. So how should we face it? Here are some suggestions on this matter.

Reduce communication For grumpy neighbors, the main way to reduce conflicts with them is to reduce communication, because grumpy people are generally difficult to change, and the closer they are, the more likely they are to have conflicts and quarrels. Keeping a proper distance and reducing communication can minimize the possibility of conflict on the premise of maintaining neighborhood relations.

Be tolerant and don't argue with him. A grumpy neighbor often loses his temper because of an argument with him. So you should be tolerant in your daily life and try not to argue with him unless he touches your bottom line. We should realize that he is a grumpy person, and don't suppress him because of a word of saving face, winning or losing, or for an opinion, and form a fierce antagonistic relationship with him, because a grumpy person is a time bomb, and I don't know when it will explode.

Appropriate compromise There used to be an old saying that it is wise to compromise with a grumpy neighbor without touching the bottom line, so as to avoid many subsequent troubles. Because a grumpy person can't control his personality impulse, it is basically hopeless to hope that he will take a step back and broaden his horizons. So when he meets such a person, he can only do a lot by himself, and often he can avoid contradictions by taking one step.