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Should men have their own private space?
In fact, whether it is a boyfriend or a girlfriend, no matter how close, private space is indispensable. Everyone has some little secrets in their hearts that they don't want others to know. Don't think that you don't need private space when you are in love or married. I think the reason I ask this question is because you think he doesn't spend enough time with you.

There is nothing wrong with you needing his company, and there is nothing wrong with him needing some private space to relax himself. It's just that you didn't adjust the time. You didn't communicate well and expressed your willingness to accompany you well. When you are all resting, you can actually have a sweet time together.

Whether a relationship can last long depends on whether you find a good way to get along. If you need him to accompany you, and a man just wants to have some time to relax after work, there is a contradiction. Once he doesn't come to accompany you now, you will feel that he doesn't care about you. But if he forces himself to give up his private time to accompany you, then he will feel that this relationship is a burden and lose the motivation to persist.

In fact, I can communicate with you to solve this problem and tell him what you want, but remember not to compare his hobbies. For example, many girls like to say, "am I not as important as a game?" So even if you are more important than the game now, you won't be more important than the game in the future, because the game is a way to relax, and you are not at the same level at all. You have to compare them, and you are the only one who gets hurt in the end.

Love needs mutual tolerance. You're not the only one who gives in to him. Both sides need to put themselves in each other's shoes, so that there will be fewer contradictions and your's feelings will not fade with time.