For many parents, all they want is that their children are smart, sensible and lovely, that is to say, they have a sensible and optimistic child; Having a child with strong concentration, high language expression ability, good speech and good memory will often make parents proud. However, many parents believe that children's "double quotient height" is basically determined by congenital factors and is doomed at birth. But is this really the case?
Brain science research believes that for children's intellectual development, congenital genetic factors can not all determine their "double quotient". On the contrary, if parents can seize the golden period of their children's growth and give them proper training and education, then their children's "double quotient" will increase by at least 40%-50%, thus becoming smart and surfing the Internet.
There is a girl who is less than two years old downstairs in my house, and she is developing well. She is not only sensible and polite, but also greets people. She also has high concentration, can speak very advanced long sentences and recite dozens of stories and children's songs. Once I was chatting with the mother of a baby girl, I was curious to ask how the baby could exercise such high emotional intelligence and IQ at such a young age. As a result, Ma Bao told me that she paid great attention to the cultivation of children in this respect since she was a child. Since the child was half a year old, she has taken time to play games, listen to children's songs, learn ancient poems and read picture books to her children every day. Over time, children have made such progress today.
Then Ma Bao also told me that when children are 0-3 years old, it is a critical period for their "explosive growth of double business". If parents pay more attention to their children and accompany and guide them more, then whether it is children's concentration, memory, thinking ability, or children's language expression, behavior habits, emotional management, etc. They will have an advantage over other children. You will win at the starting line in the future. In order to achieve this goal, it is actually very simple. As long as parents insist on doing these four things well every day, their children's "double quotient" will rise.
For children, if the language environment is single, the vocabulary accepted is too poor, and the language ability can not be improved. To give a very simple example, some parents just ask their children, "Are you full?" "Are you cold?" "Are you hungry?" Are you happy? "At this time, the vocabulary received by their brains will be very single and they will not speak, because there are too few words stored in their brains. It will inevitably give people a sense of dullness.
On the contrary, if parents can spend more time chatting with their children and let them receive "fresh words" every day, their children's vocabulary will be enriched at this time, so their vocabulary and expression ability will be greatly improved. Ma Bao's daughter has a strong language ability because Ma Bao watches picture books with her children every day, where she learns colorful "fresh words", such as band-AIDS, disinfectant, needles, eye drops and other words, as well as the ocean living by the sea, high tide, low tide, surfing and so on. Over time, children's vocabulary becomes particularly rich, and they can naturally say it when expressing it.
Parents should have encountered such problems. Every time I accompany my child to do parent-child reading, the child always has no way to concentrate. They either like to look around or interrupt, so some parents choose to give up at this time. In fact, it is normal for a baby to behave like this. What parents need to do is to increase interaction with children in reading, so that children can feel more involved. At this time, their attention will be attracted and they will be more focused. This method is called "questioning reading". As long as parents insist, children will not only improve their concentration in reading, but also exercise their thinking ability. In addition, for children who choose books, parents can also choose to design interesting "book flipping" to attract their baby's attention, so that they can not only see with their eyes, listen with their ears, but also flip, pull and find with their hands during reading, making it easier for children to immerse themselves in reading.
According to Ma Bao, every time she plays with her daughter, she asks her daughter, "What color is this?" "What is this object?" And "is there a small organ here?" Often at this time, the daughter's thinking will become very concentrated, and the child will learn to ask questions slowly.
Children's memory is not innate, but needs to be accumulated. Therefore, in the early stage of reading, if parents simply watch with their children and leave them behind, then the children will basically get nothing. Therefore, we should "repeat" with our children. Only a book and a story that children have heard and read dozens or even hundreds of times will be stored and memorized in their brains, thus further stimulating their brain development. Over time, children's memory will become stronger and stronger.
The reason why children in Ma Bao remember so much when they were two and a half years old is because Ma Bao accompanied them to read this set of "Pre-school Literacy 1600" every day. In the past two years, their mother and daughter have read this book more than 50 times. So children's memories can be deeper.
As we all know, reading can not only improve children's intelligence, but also help children develop good living habits and reading habits. However, if children want to internalize what they have learned, they need parents' guidance to inspire them to think more, so as to deepen their understanding and let them learn from it, thus cultivating their good habits, good personality and "high emotional intelligence".
I like Ma Bao's daughter because Ma Bao will discuss the contents of reading with her children every time she reads, so as to help them think and understand. So her daughter, whether at home or outside, has a great performance. She will eat by herself, wear socks, carefully sort out and summarize after playing with toys, and greet others politely when she goes out. It can be described as "double quotient".
In short, as long as parents do the above four points, they can not only improve their baby's intelligence, but also cultivate their baby's "high emotional intelligence". Here, Sister Miaomiao also recommends you to buy a three-dimensional page-turning book of Preschool Literacy 1600 by Ma Bao, which is not only interesting in design, but also can attract children's interest and attention and help them develop good reading habits. Moreover, it is equipped with a "literacy card" to make children aged 4-7 learn to read easily through vivid and interesting scenes and stories.
The whole set of books contains 1 1 life scenes, which is very practical, so that children can enter real life in the reading era, thus mastering rich vocabulary and stimulating their language development. Intimately, this set of books is designed with rounded corners, which is also very safe for children. If your family also has children aged 0-8, Sister Miaomiao sincerely suggests that you order a set.
Ok, that's all for today. See you next time.