Nothing, I'm only 50 years old, and I still work in enterprises and grass-roots units.
Looking back on the road, I regret a lot, but at this age, gains and losses, honor and disgrace are included in my ordinary heart, which is no longer my primary concern.
After 50, I think the best way to live is nothing more than these four points:
First: At home, 50 years old should be the age connecting the preceding with the following, serving parents, educating children, and improving family life index and happiness index with their own abilities and wisdom.
After my father died last year, I hoped my mother could walk around, but she insisted on farming. This land is a small piece of land reclaimed by my parents after retirement, bearing their joys and sorrows for many years. I forced my idea on my mother, but it seemed inappropriate to think about it. My mother goes out early and comes back late, just like a real farmer. Now I understand, as long as my mother is willing to do something, let her go.
Although I live at the bottom and don't earn much money, I always have books with me. Many people say that I am a typical poor man because? Poor literature? It seems that studying and earning money are two completely different paths. I don't think so. The weakness of character is not that you don't want to change, but that once you miss something, admit it. Experienced a lot, what I want most at this time is the warmth of home, because I am not even a dust in the whole world, but I am an indispensable backbone of my family.
The second point: in the unit, do things seriously and practically.
Maybe, I'm not a technical expert, but I'm still assured of my years of experience and accumulation in my job. I often have a saying: don't let mistakes happen in your own hands.
This may be a high standard, because once you do something wrong, you will face all kinds of fines, serious ones, and you will have to wait for your post. In that case, your income will be greatly discounted, so you must use your money carefully.
For the younger generation, if they are willing to learn, I will teach them a little selflessly, and if they are unwilling to learn, I will not force them.
The third point: in society, do some good things that you can, without asking for anything in return, but seeking good things.
A few years ago, in case of extreme weather such as heavy rain and snow, I would take the initiative to participate in all kinds of rescue. Later, this kind of rescue and emergency rescue seemed to have changed their taste, so I pushed it out very carefully.
When my child was very young, I often took him to participate in various fund-raising activities in the society, and also joined the ranks of some volunteers, so that my child could give a love with me.
Point 4: Exercise, pay attention to diet and make reasonable arrangements? Married life? .
I've always wanted to drive and take my wife around, so I must take a good exercise. Married life? Be temperate, after all, you are not young!
In his forties, he has always insisted on playing badminton. Now I have begun to give up badminton and insist on running. Without a healthy body, everything else is luxury. In addition, quitting smoking and drinking in moderation is the correct way of life.
I have given up smoking for more than five years, and I used to drink less. I don't know why recently, but I'm a little greedy and need to change.
Therefore, at the age of 50, do the above four things well and hope that friends of the same age will have a good life. Ten years later, they can still make headlines. Shall we invite them and organize a trip?