Confucius said, "Don't be angry, don't feel guilty."
When you are angry, don't take it out on others; Don't lose your temper with others when you are unhappy.
When people are angry, what they say is extremely hurtful.
Sometimes just to vent, or for their own inner happiness.
But a relationship is breaking, an emotion is breaking, often in a hurtful sentence.
"Xunzi's Honor and Disgrace" once mentioned: "Kind words are warmer than cloth; Words hurt people more than spears. "
Kind words are warmer than cloth; Bad words hurt more than swords and spears when you are angry.
Words when angry have great energy, just like a sharp dagger stabbing people's hearts.
As we all know, those angry words are like thumbtacks nailed to the wall. Even if it is pulled out afterwards, the scar still exists.
In this world, don't let your emotions control you, don't let your anger get to your head, and don't make irreparable mistakes because of what you said in a moment of anger.
Please keep silent when you are angry.
As the saying goes, "Speech is silver, silence is gold."
Silence is a choice, a way, and even more a kind of wisdom.
In the face of accusations and criticisms from others, many people think that not striking back is an act of losing face, but they don't know that it is precisely a manifestation of wisdom.
The more angry, the more rational; The more angry you are, the more you should keep silent.
Keeping silent is not to escape, but to calm down and think better;
Keeping silent is not cowardice, but because I care about our friendship.
As the saying goes, "impulse is the devil", and the consequences of being angry for a while are immeasurable.
When you are angry, put it down, wait and be quiet.
If the mood is out of control, getting angry can't solve the problem, but it will destroy the image, ruin the character and even affect your physical and mental health.
Being a man, tolerance is a virtue, and generosity is a blessing.
Only by being patient for a period of time can you get inner peace; To say the least, the sea is a hundred rivers.
When you are angry, control your emotions and keep silent, so you can't help being a wise man in life.
You can control your emotions, so you can control your life.
Xun Ziyun: "Anger can't be taken away, but joy can't be given."
Never punish others because of anger, but reward others because of happiness.
To live, you must know how to control your emotions. Only by controlling your emotions can you control other things.
The so-called emotional intelligence is a person's ability to control emotions.
As the saying goes, "A peaceful mind leads to wisdom, and wisdom leads to success."
If a person can't control his emotions, even if his ability is great, it's futile.
When people are angry, their inner emotions fluctuate greatly. At this time, their IQ is negative and they are easy to lose themselves.
Only inner peace can produce wisdom, and wisdom can create miracles.
Controlling emotions is our wisdom in dealing with people and the best health care.
People often say that anger hurts the body. We should not let it go, but learn how to control it.
Learn to control your emotions in order to win people's trust; Only by learning to control emotions can a family be happy; Learn to control your emotions, and good luck will come!
Only when you can control your emotions can you control your life.