The first article is about family ethics.

Three. Cidao

Kindness is love, it is sincere love, pure love and intelligent love, and it has no negative effects. Just as the sun shines on the earth, heaven and earth nurture everything, and loving mothers care for their children. Selflessness and selflessness, silent dedication. Love is about intention, not form. For example, parents beat and scold children, and teachers punish students. On the surface, it is not good, but their intentions are good, and they sincerely hope that their disciples will be good. For example, if farmers prune saplings and don't cut off evil branches, trees will not grow into useful people.

Parents love their children and children honor their parents, all of which are merciful. If we can expand our happiness, we should cherish the environment in which we live and cherish all sentient beings who are destined for us. The so-called goodwill is all over the world, and compassion is all over the legal world.

1, we should learn from children, not teach them. If you want to control people, it is equivalent to hitting a dog with a stick and making it run farther and farther.

2, the difference between learning and discipline: learning is to let yourself see first. For example, if you are filial to your parents, your child can see clearly. You don't have to teach him deliberately, he will learn naturally. So Wang said: "Parents are good, children are good; The evil of parents, the evil of children. " Parents are role models for their children. "

3, parents don't care about their children's filial piety, you should be kind. Children, don't care about the good of the elderly, you should be filial. This is called going our separate ways, and going our separate ways.

4. Don't lend money to children, don't save money for children, and cultivate children's self-reliance. To accumulate property for children and grandchildren is tantamount to harming them. They are all weak and lazy. Without education, everyone will be a black sheep.

Parents should not dote on their children, and should not dote on their children with material or money. Encourage children to be self-reliant, self-reliant and thrifty, and educate future generations to cherish and cultivate blessings, and know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful. We should guide our children with our own good character, otherwise it will be tantamount to pushing them to hell.

6. Parents should accumulate virtue for their children, and do more good deeds such as helping the poor, helping the old and carrying the young, building bridges and roads, popularizing laws and protecting roads, building schools, caring for the old and the young, etc., which will surely benefit future generations. As the saying goes, there must be Qing Yu in a good house, which is unmistakable.

7. Find and correct the problems existing in children as early as possible, otherwise it will be too late for you to beat and scold and discipline them.

8. Educate children to respect teachers. Parents give children life, and teachers give them wisdom. The kindness of teachers is the same as that of parents.

9. Talk more about the benefits of family elders in front of children, which will make children respect and appreciate their elders. This is a spiritual nourishment for children.

10, parents should never speak ill of each other in front of their children. Even if the husband and wife quarrel, they can't let the children see it, let alone make noise in front of the children, otherwise it will affect their lives.