This is normal, he doesn't want to lose the opportunity to love you, just want to give you more maternal love; The situation is that your mother cares about you very much and thinks that she cared too little about you in the past and always wants to make up for the shortcomings in the past. Anyway, maternal love is nature, and selfishness is also indispensable. In the process of communication between the two generations, there will inevitably be differences or even a generation gap, and the process of communication can completely resist education and influence. It is duty-bound to change mom's deficiency tendency, and at the same time, we should understand more. When you have children of your own, you will understand your mother's psychology more easily and let her live a complete old age. You won't have any regrets in this respect.