Women like duplicity, especially in the face of those unspeakable physiological needs in the love world. There is no love for no reason in the world, and there will be no climax from the sky. Tell him your "thoughts" and "wants" to get the best physical happiness.

1, how to make him a "figure player"

Party: Chen (22 years old)

The client confided: I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and he is particularly "single-minded". Every time he makes love, he uses the most traditional posture and never changes. Not only has the posture not changed, but the whole process is also very streamlined. Where to kiss first, and then where to touch, he is the same procedure, saying the same sweet words. This makes me have no expectations at all. I know exactly where I'm going and what will happen next. Sometimes I hear other girlfriends talk about their various "tricks" (some of which are difficult) and want to try some of them, but I don't know how to hint at my boyfriend.

Jia Ren's Boudoir Group suggests that this kind of thing needs to give a hint to men. For example, after watching Lust, Caution or other movies, you euphemistically express your admiration and curiosity about challenging the new difficulty, arouse his curiosity and competitiveness, and let him take the initiative to "ask for something" from you. Remember, no matter how honest a man is, he is willing to try new things in sex. The real question is, why has he been so rigid and single-minded? Have you given him any wrong psychological hints-for example, he always thinks this is the best way to please you.

Tips:

According to the survey, more than 60% of men will directly express their needs during sex, while less than 30% of women can do this. In fact, in the relationship between men and women, men prefer the other party to directly tell their needs and will not feel embarrassed. When a man finds that his behavior can bring happiness to a woman, he will feel very satisfied.

I want him to be hard to open in my heart.

Party: Song Song (29 years old).

The client confided: I often feel that I have a problem, because I always think that, in my boyfriend's words, it is "difficult to fill my needs", and he can't understand that I think about it every day (and more than once, even during my period). When I found out that he had such an opinion, I didn't dare to ask for it once a week or once a month. At the same time, I restrained myself from shouting too loudly for fear that he would feel it.

Jia Ren's "boudoir" suggestion: Let's talk about an investigation first. According to the female sex survey of Apple Daily in Taiwan Province Province, 62% of women often or always want to have sex, and the frequency of thinking is basically the same as yours; At the same time, 54% men think about sex several times a day, 43% men think about sex several times a week or a month, and only 4% men think about sex less than 1 time a month-in short, there are two points. First, you are not a "minority" at all. There are many women like you. Don't put a "slutty" hat on your head rashly. Second, men are the same! Unless you think your boyfriend belongs to the 4% population, that's his problem, not yours.

Therefore, you can "inadvertently" tell your man the results of this survey and tell him that you love him and are willing to satisfy him.

3. Fireworks are easy to be cold, and they are often tried and changed.

Party: Wu Tingting (32 years old).

The parties confide: just like children before marriage, children after marriage. I realize now. My husband and I are in love, and he is especially good at creating romance. Now that I am married, he is busy with his work. I am a full-time housewife and do nothing at home every day. The happiest thing is when he comes home. It is warm to want to be with him at night, but it is really annoying. The romance before marriage is gone, the tenderness and consideration are gone, and even the foreplay is gone. I don't know what to tell him, and I don't want to do this anymore.

Jia Ren's Boudoir suggests that after marriage, men will feel that home means responsibility, stability and dullness, while the place where they are in love is usually more ambiguous, so they can appropriately keep some small interests and add some flirting content to family conversation, such as "Eat first or eat me first?" Secondly, you can also change the image of home in his mind-you can find fresh and ambiguous feelings at home, such as trying different spaces at different times at home, and the bathroom and kitchen can all be opened up as new "love battlefields". Finally, I attach a small suggestion: the sexual desire of men and women is sometimes different, but the highest point of sexual desire of both sides will coincide around 6 or 7 in the morning, so be kind to the morning.

Tips:

After marriage, women's sexual concept is much more open than people think, and 69% people admit that they are "more adventurous" in bed than when they were young; 90% people like to change places frequently; They also like to change the place where they have sex. The number of people who had sex in sofa, bathroom, kitchen and garden was 6 1%, 28%, 16% and 12% respectively. Which places do you like better?

The truth is risky, so you need to be careful when you speak.

Party: Fang Fang (28 years old)

My boyfriend is very gentle, not only in life, but also in bed. One day, I was drinking with some friends and he came to pick me up. In the car, I jumped on him to tease him, but he pushed me away. Complain when you are a little unhappy. The most terrible thing is that you really drank too much that day. Through the power of alcohol, I talked a lot with my ex-boyfriend, including sex, and said a lot of details. The next day, my boyfriend left me

Jia Ren's Boudoir puts forward that Fangfang's problem is also a problem for many people, that is, whether to hide his sexual experience from his current position. Most men are sensitive to different degrees in this respect. If Fangfang is drunk and rashly tells the truth, of course, she will get a "winner" reward. But there are still many troublesome questions. Boyfriends will ask "How many men have slept with before"-the trouble is that all they want to hear are "correct answers", and the fewer the answers, the better, even "you are the first one in my heart". As for the truth, it's best to keep it in your heart. Telling the truth is risky (in fact, he may lie to you more).

Tips:

A survey of 665 college students in Southern California in the New England Journal of Medicine found that 34% of men and 10% of women had lied that they had a new relationship. The survey also found that 47% of men and 42% of women would hide their sexual experiences in order to "cheat" each other into bed more quickly.