There is no blood relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there is a big generation gap. It is a relationship that two women mix with a man who is very important to each other. Difficult to get along with is for sure. The key lies in whether we can treat each other sincerely, care less about ourselves and be more understanding and tolerant! ! ! First of all, I want to say something about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: why bother women! ! ! For your mother-in-law, you have been a daughter-in-law for many years. Why can't you understand your daughter-in-law? For the daughter-in-law, you have just begun to endure, and one day you will become a mother-in-law. Why bother? ! ! ! At present, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may be a relatively bad one, mainly due to the great difference in the concept of mother-in-law, too much management by mother-in-law, too self-centered, uncompromising daughter-in-law, original prejudice and so on. I think we can understand the relationship from the following three aspects: first, the in-laws are elders, equivalent to your own parents, so we should respect the in-laws, but also be modest, after all, the in-laws and yours. Second, if there is a problem, we should make clear the nature of the problem. If it is your own fault, you should take the initiative to admit it. If it's the mother-in-law's fault, we shouldn't make trouble without reason. After all, people born in their time are very different from modern young people in their thoughts and ways of thinking, but one thing is certain. They also want the younger generation to be good. Although there is something wrong with their words or ways, there is no need for us to compete. Third, whenever this situation is involved, I think you should let your husband communicate with your mother-in-law. Her husband is the son of your mother-in-law No matter what your husband says or does, your mother-in-law can tolerate and understand, but if you come forward, it will easily cause her to be unhappy, because she will miss my son and say something about me, so you must talk about ways and means. As a daughter-in-law, don't be too strong, care about your mother-in-law's affairs and try your best to do it.