After many men get married, they directly push all the heavy housework to their wives, which is euphemistically called "the man is in charge outside, and the woman is in charge inside". In fact, there is no gender difference in housework, and women still have to go out to work and support their families. If a man takes the initiative to undertake the task, he is not only concerned about your performance, but also responsible for this family. Don't be melodramatic when you meet such a man, please cherish it.
2. Willing to work hard to improve your life
The so-called responsibility is a responsibility, a responsibility to the family, and a responsibility to you. Because he married you, he wants to make your life better; Because he has formed a family, he hopes to improve the material conditions of the family. Therefore, you will find that he works harder, often works overtime and socializes frequently. Please don't complain, because it is a sign that a man is willing to pay for his family. You should give him care and consideration and convince him that his contribution is valuable.
3. I feel bad for you, not just talking about it.
Taking responsibility is never enough, you must take action. For example, if you accidentally burn your hand while cooking, an irresponsible man will only blame you for being careless and ask you to apply scald cream quickly; A responsible man doesn't say a word, immediately holds your hand to wash it, then carefully applies scald cream and continues to cook by himself. Don't believe men's sweet words, you must see their practical actions of giving trust.
4. Speak loudly and forcefully. This is the most important point. A responsible man must be manly. What he said and did was unanimously recognized by everyone and convincing at home. Of course, being responsible does not mean male chauvinism. When you encounter difficulties or feel confused, his comfort and advice can make you calm down quickly and know what to do next. As the backbone of the family, a responsible man can definitely reassure his family.