What should I do when I am fifty years old? The first thing is to "prepare for a beautiful old age." If you don't have the material and emotional support for the elderly now, you will be helpless and have a hard life after 60.

"forty without confusion, fifty with destiny", we should be sure of our own destiny, and don't think that we are still young and far from old age. To be a man, when you reach a certain age, you should learn to be productive.

After 70 years of age, learn to be "fickle" with these five kinds of people to avoid a bleak evening scene.

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Children of adults should be "fickle" to prevent them from becoming neets.

Too much love for children is not a good thing, it will only make children more and more lazy, and more and more like the life of being stretched.

People with brains will force adult children to be independent, and they will instill the idea of "relying on themselves" in their children's growth path. If children can't be independent, then the older parents get, the more bitter they will be, and there will be no happiness in their later years.

My big cousin Afu gave birth to a son and a daughter. Daughter married to other places, rarely back to her family; My son is at home, fooling around all day. Because Ah Fu has always had the idea of preferring boys to girls and regarded his son as a "treasure in the palm of his hand", his son never wanted to suffer hardships and was too lazy to find a job when he grew up.

Last year, Ah Fu bought a new car for his son. I thought that if my son had a car, he would have face, and it would be easier to find someone. However, my son drives a car every day, shows off everywhere and organizes friends to travel. The monthly expenses are not small.

Afu's hard-earned life savings were gradually hollowed out by his son, and his relatives were worried about what he would rely on to support the elderly in the future.

The most irritating thing is that the house Afu bought in the county was also "occupied" by his son. My son thinks the house will be his sooner or later. Why not give it to him earlier? Perhaps, when his son is down and out, he will sell the house, which is even more worrying.

For adult children, we should be "fickle" and let them toss and turn with an indifferent attitude. Even if your children are in trouble, you should help them from experience. Don't blindly give all the money to the children.

Being rich is the foundation of providing for the aged. Although money is not everything, the elderly have no ability to make money. Eating, traveling and seeing a doctor all cost money. Old people without money must have a hard time.

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People who love but can't be "fickle" to avoid marriage failure.

When a person is over 50 years old, the closest person is not his parents or children, but his wife. My parents are too old to control themselves. The child went to work far away and wanted to take care of his parents, but it was beyond his power.

A wife is the best free nanny. The older you get, the more you will feel this way.

How to "keep" your wife? You should think seriously, instead of blindly thinking that your wife should take care of you and be nice to you.

If you offend your wife, it is doomed to a bleak end. Even if they don't get divorced, the couple will bicker with each other or live apart for a long time, and there is no way to live like this.

Uncle Liu, who lives in our community, can't talk to his wife and quarrels as soon as they meet. The reason for the quarrel is that Uncle Liu often gives money to his predecessor and still doesn't know how to repent.

Now, Uncle Liu lives alone in the garage next door. However, in a few years, Uncle Liu became ill or couldn't walk. How does he live? His behavior is irresponsible to others as well as to himself.

People born after 70 are not young, so we should pay more and more attention to marriage. Don't neglect the people around you because of the people you once loved. If the marriage fails, the consequences will be unimaginable.

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Be "fickle" to those who don't speak good faith to avoid economic losses.

As a post-70 s generation, after years of struggle, they should have certain network resources and career development foundation. Smart people will keep their careers and stop doing risky things like they did when they were young.

When people reach a certain age, they can't afford it. It is a blessing to toss less. If you toss out all the money, it's hard to make a comeback.

When people mix in society, they should learn to "know people" and don't blindly trust others. How long do you have to be careful when you cooperate with others? Don't be blinded by interests.

Stay away from people who borrow money and don't pay it back, refuse to cooperate with people who haggle over every ounce, and don't be "greedy and cheap." You have to believe that there is no pie in the world, and the easier it is to make money, the easier it is to become a trap.

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Be "fickle" with people who drink too much wine and avoid drinking too much.

After 70, in terms of contacts, we must learn to do subtraction. Give up useless socializing and spend more time with your family instead of spending a quiet day.

In the past, in order to start a business and get rich, I had to deal with people and attend various social gatherings, which was also a last resort. But after you are 50 years old, you will have less opportunities to ask for help, and there is no need to attend many social parties.

We should have our own views on contacts and learn to "break away". There must be nothing wrong with it. Try to eat less, drink less and socialize less with friends, because it doesn't matter if you refuse to party.

It is a blessing to cherish your body, drink less and smoke less, and live healthily.

When people are old, three or five friends often get together and drink a glass of health wine, so they are very happy. If you can't drink well, it's also a pleasure to replace wine with tea. People who get you drunk may not love you deeply, but they may hurt you.

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People in the circle of friends should be "fickle" to avoid psychological imbalance.

Born in poor times, people born after 70 witnessed the process of mobile phones from scratch, from simple to complex.

At the beginning, people who could afford mobile phones were all "big brothers". The mobile phone is bigger than a brick, so it's awesome to take it out.

Now, there is everything in a small mobile phone. In order to contact friends conveniently, we are all used to using WeChat. However, there are hundreds of friends, but few sincere people.

In the circle of friends, everyone is showing off. Some people travel today, some people buy a car tomorrow, and some people get together the day after tomorrow. In the circle of friends, everyone is used to reporting good news instead of worrying. If you believe that life in your circle of friends is real, then you will feel embarrassed.

If you want to live a happy life, you should see yourself clearly, not envy others. Where should we go when people are over 50? Good days are not blind comparisons, but the more you live, the more real you are.

Don't care about the WeChat business in the circle of friends, and don't think what they say is true. Don't be "sorry" because your friends pull you to buy things, but take care of your own business.

People born after 70 learn to be better to themselves. People of every age group have different goals and tasks. Plan your old age in advance, and when you are 60, you can live a leisurely life.

Don't think you are young, but you will get old in a flash. I have worked hard for most of my life, so don't suffer any more in the future.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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