Thought of here, suddenly want to write an article about? Beauty sensitive period? Admittedly, although this phenomenon is common,
But it was not treated correctly by parents.
Huang Duoduo, an excellent girl, was criticized by netizens for getting her ears pierced and dyeing her hair. She said that this kind of overdress is inappropriate at this age, and even involves the issue of educational concepts.
In fact, to be honest, it is not a bad thing to pursue more aesthetics. It is normal to be exposed to some fashions in her circle, which will not affect her Excellence.
Children love to dress up, starting from the sensitive period of loving beauty, which is an instinct and a growing process of gradually establishing aesthetics.
If parents can guide correctly, it will greatly improve children's self-confidence and aesthetic realm. In this beautiful society,
Aesthetic ability is already indispensable for every child.
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On the sensitive period of beauty
When did children's aesthetic ability begin to sprout? If parents are careful enough, they will find that when the child is about 2 years old, it is a sensitive period of order. Everything around him should be complete, his shoes should be neatly arranged, and even the clothes his parents wear when they send him to kindergarten should be fixed.
At this time, in fact, children have begun to have their own aesthetics, he thinks
Beauty is complete, frequent and uninterrupted. Some children will choose their own clothes instead of patterns, and even some clothes are ugly to their parents. For example, when my children were young, it was very hot for a while, but we had to add a vest outside the skirt?
These are the development of children's aesthetic ability. Through constant practice and debugging, we can find an experience that conforms to our own internal order and emotional aesthetics, which is also the beginning of independent growth.
When I was five or six years old, this? Love beauty? Will play to the extreme, just like colleagues and daughters, do not dress up or even want to go out, this is a sensitive period of beauty.
Compared to children? Smelly? At this stage, children need more reasonable guidance from their parents, which has a great influence on their future aesthetics.
Sun Ruixue, an expert in children's education, mentioned in "Catch the Sensitive Period of Children" that the sensitive period of children's love for beauty begins with their aesthetic requirements for themselves and the environment, especially girls, who will have a strong interest in their clothes.
At this time, children will be curious about beautiful things, like beautiful teachers, beautiful aunts and handsome uncles, and parents will simply discuss their understanding of beauty with them, which will encourage children.
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Several incorrect answers:
1, to prevent children from trying.
I remembered the experience of taking my child to an interest class before, and saw an anxious girl coming with her child in her arms and chatting while waiting outside. She said she woke up early in the morning, but something was wrong when she went out to put on her shoes. Just in autumn, the child took out a pair of cotton shoes and put them on happily.
She felt that such a mismatch would definitely be a fire, so she quarreled with the children and finally compromised herself. So, the child was wearing cotton shoes, and she took a pair of sneakers and trotted to catch up.
In fact, it is because the color of sneakers is too dark, and the color of cotton shoes just matches the color of sweaters, which makes children so persistent.
2, perfunctory
Many parents think that it is naive for their children to insist on which hairpin and which pair of shoes to wear, and they will not care too much, but perfunctory children can be sensitive to this.
I read in Zhihu that when I was a child, I loved to wear many hairpins on my head. I used to wear eight hairpins. I told grandma the location, name and color of these hairpins seriously, and all I got was perfunctory.
Later, I lost two when I went out to play, so my grandmother helped me find them. As a result, my grandmother said, who told you to bring so many hairpins and lose them? I can't find it. I will buy you the same one next time. She hasn't forgotten this little thing until now. Parents should understand their children's inner needs. Behind the love of beauty is the all-round development of thinking ability, language ability and observation ability. Don't underestimate it.
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What should we do?
1, cultivate aesthetics, starting with letting children choose their own clothes.
This can be implemented from 1 year and a half. Babies can choose their own socks, choose one of two pairs of socks, and the clothes are the same style.
As long as the child chooses it by himself, although it is not very beautiful or very well matched, parents should respect, encourage and allow him to try boldly.
Before that, you can simply let your child know the color and name of clothes, be meticulous, and guide your child to observe, and he will make progress slowly.
I once saw a child from another family design clothes from an early age, but this ability was actually cultivated with the support of parents. Every time my father will buy cloth, choose materials to make clothes for his daughter, and let the children touch the materials themselves.
2. Wonderful masquerade ball
If children are interested in their mother's cosmetics, they can try Mayili's method, give them simple cosmetics and let them experience the makeup process on their faces.
Ma Yili also teased Weibo: When the child is older, you can dress me up. She enjoys the process of children's makeup. Protecting children's love of beauty and being a role model for children are valuable experiences for parents.
3. The beauty in the family affects the child's life.
The placement of household items and all kinds of sundries is also an aesthetic. Let children know that everything is worth cherishing, details and beauty are hidden at home, and more are hidden in their hearts.
You can organize your room regularly with your children and sort items according to color, texture and size.
Think of a space planner who said: A beautiful wardrobe is not the appearance, but the smell and visual impact when it is opened, whether the clothes are hung in the same material and color, whether the clothes on different hidden hooks have the same texture and so on.
If parents find their children unruly and messy, they should reflect on whether they have noticed all the details in their lives.
4. It is spiritual to give the child to the natural child, and it is the purest to find beauty in nature.
For example, in early autumn, take children to find leaves with gradual color changes, stones with different textures, and branches with different thicknesses? Even observe the patterns on small insects, the lines on leaves, and the annual rings of big roots?
These are the most beautiful paintings that nature has given children. You can also take home the things you find in nature, clean them and recreate them. Children will naturally sprout many innovative ideas and stimulate their aesthetic ability.
5. Beauty should also be spoken out loud. Parents need to find some adjectives. Beauty comes from life, but it is higher than life. Take children to experience healthy beauty and real beauty. This? Beauty sensitive period? Will make your children win at the starting line.