I took my mother to Beijing, took over the responsibility of my father and took care of my mother.

Before my mother realized it, she had followed me on the bullet train back to Beijing. When I got home, I immediately cleaned up the spare room, put on warm sheets and cleaned the room. After a while, I tidied up a comfortable home. I specially found a comfortable pillow for her. Comfort can make her relax and have a good sleep.

My mother stayed with me for a few months before, and now she feels a lot like before. The only difference is that there is no longer her considerate wife at home. My brother said, just cancel the phone! In my heart, there is no home.

My mother is a weak person. When she was born, she had two brothers at home. As the first daughter, she was very favored. I remember my mother said that when I was a child, many children in my family never competed to pick fruits from trees. My grandmother would call my uncles and say, "Pick some for your sister …" When I married my father, my grandmother had died for many years and my grandfather had died. My father is very capable, and my mother has always been a good helper at home and outside. Especially in the last twenty years, after my father retired, my mother took care of everything. She didn't even touch money for years, and didn't even need her to buy onions. My mother just washes the dishes and cleans the house, then goes out to exercise and plays cards with friends in the sun. During the Spring Festival this year, my second aunt chatted with me and sighed, your mother! In other words, your father took good care of her ... Now my father can't take care of my mother, but thanks to me, my son and grandson are fine, but they can't, so I can stay with her every day. It seems that my coming home sick has become an advantage to take care of my mother.

My mother has always wanted to accompany me to take care of me, but my father can't stay in Beijing, so there is no way. Now, my mother and I take care of each other and accompany each other.

My mother is not a particularly competitive person. She is humble, or she feels a little guilty. She felt that she knew too little to be eloquent. She just wants to be an audience, but she doesn't think so. There are many people talking now, but few people are willing to listen. So my mother has always been very popular among friends. She never contradicts others and seldom expresses her thoughts. Many old ladies like to chat and play cards with her, sometimes after a game, several old ladies. Even YuWa envies her grandmother's happy life.

The aunt across the street is a lonely old lady. When my mother comes, she is always happy. I hope my mother can stay in my house longer and spend time with her. I got what I wanted this time.

My husband gave my mother a smart phone. In order to make contact convenient, I began to teach my mother to use WeChat and answer the phone. In our opinion, the operation is particularly simple, and it is not easy for mom to learn. She often reads WeChat in her spare time, and then asks me, why is there no news? I told her that people are busy, of course I won't send you a message if I'm free, but you can send them a message! As if afraid of broken screen, my mother carefully looked for someone and found her niece and nephew. The first sentence always asks, "What are you doing?" Then, "Where are you?" Yuwa and I found this rule, always imitating her and laughing with her.

This time, I taught her how to use WeChat. Next time, she may forget, press and listen to the voice sent to her before. It is still new. I told her that the information of the red dot was new. She will point to the red dot on the WeChat notification and ask me if this is new information. Sometimes when she makes a sound, she begins to whisper, "Why don't you come back?" I told her that others might not be looking at their mobile phones at this time, so she would listen when she was free and then reply. Finally, I got a reply. She clicked on the red dot message and started chatting when she heard others talking. I said, you have to listen to it, and then hold down "hold down and talk" before you can speak, so that your voice can be heard by the other party. Mom often forgets that she chats in real time like a phone call. When she remembered it, she smiled herself.

One day when I went to the hospital, I heard my mother send me a message saying that I couldn't find the key on the shoe cabinet and asked me if I had it. I told her I took it this morning, but that's my key! Mom said that she has been using my key recently. What about her key? It turns out that her key has been lost for several days. After she got my key, she kept it for herself. I really haven't found my key these days. After talking to my husband, he said, don't tell me anything you both lost in the future. I can't worry with you.

My mother has a bad memory, but she is diligent. When she sees clothes hanging on the balcony, she always helps to put them away, and then determines whose room it is. Sometimes my clothes are kept in Yuwa's locker, and small things like socks are even harder to find. She is very concerned about whether the surface is messy, and things may not be stuffed everywhere. If you ask her, she will go to them in a panic, but she can't find them. I said don't take it from now on, it's you. I said, for example, cleaning bedding, washing dishes, sewing quilts, washing vegetables and dusting, all of them! Mom nodded.

When going out in the morning, the cleaning lady was late for something. I called my mother three times, but she didn't answer. I sent her WeChat again. Just then, I heard my aunt's voice across the street. "Just press this button." I think I'll ask for help. I quickly told my mother about it, and my mother knew about it. After a while, my mother called me. I got through and heard her say, "fly?" Anecdote? "I said" you called me ",and my mother mumbled," Really? Did you hit it? "I asked her why she didn't answer the phone this morning. Mom said, I don't know why I just can't get through! I told her that when the phone rang, there was a red button and a green button. When the green button slides up, it opens. She seemed to hear it. In order to practice, I told her that I would call again right away and let her try. Don't worry if the connection is not good. I have nothing to tell her. Wait a minute, I dialed again, but the other end was still disconnected. I dare not call again. She must be in a hurry. Mom will scold alone when she is in a hurry, and she doesn't know whether to scold herself or others. After a while, my mother called again. I still don't know how to call or who called me. I asked her why she didn't answer just now. She said the green button was pressed, it was useless! I said, "Not press it, but touch it", oh! Now I know.

The other day, my aunt across the street wanted to help her measure her blood sugar so as not to go to the hospital. Mom is very happy, saving trouble and money. We agreed to go at seven in the morning, but I took a sip of water before I went. The aunt opposite said it wouldn't work. Check your postprandial blood sugar in two hours! Mom wanted to go to the square to do exercises. When she came back, the aunt across the street said that it had been three hours and she could not pass the exam. My mother came back and said to me in pain, "Why am I so confused now?" At this point, I have no idea. The old lady across the street must have laughed at me. "To tell the truth, the aunt opposite is very smart, many times smarter than my mother, and she must be impatient. My mother is very sad. I told her that we wouldn't come to the hospital for testing, and it only costs 36 yuan to go to the hospital, which is more accurate than her testing. My mother said, "I don't even know what I'm thinking. I don't remember anything." "I told my mother," It doesn't matter. You are an old lady in her seventies. It doesn't matter what you laugh at. If someone wants to laugh at you, let her laugh, but you can't remember anything. "My mother was very excited and said," It's really my daughter! I think so too. I'm 70, and I can't remember what I can do. "Mom said, when your dad is here, I don't have to think about anything, just follow your dad. At that time, I was not afraid of jokes. I can't do anything now, for fear of being laughed at. I know, my father is not here, and my mother has no idea. Dad helped her make up for what she had done in the past. Now my mother is particularly worried that others will think she is stupid, so she is even more anxious. The more anxious she is, the more confused her mind becomes. If only people around her were patient with her, just like Yuwa, who was patient with grandma. She often laughs when she is confused.

I called my mother three times in a row on Saturday morning, thinking that she couldn't answer it once, and maybe she would answer it later. Until I got through three calls, I didn't dare to call again for fear that she would be in a hurry. Go home in the afternoon and ask her if she went out in the morning. Mom said no, my legs are weak, because the phone has been disconnected and I am in a hurry. I told her, "Call again in the future, and forget it if you can't get it. Generally, nothing serious will happen. Then you must remember to read WeChat. I will send you a WeChat saying, "My mother has been using the phone for decades and only knows that she can talk when she picks up the microphone. Today's smartphones can confuse her.

When I get up in the morning, my mother gets up early, but she doesn't know what to do. She just looked at me in the kitchen and did whatever I told her to do. I said, "mom, go to the milk box and get yogurt!" " "Mom went right away and didn't forget to bring the door key. I said "key", and she firmly said "I took it", then patted the key in her pants and clicked. I said, this is the key to the milk box. Oh! Then I went back to get the key to the milk box. Yogurt was taken out. My mother has been looking at the diaper note I wrote to her and Yuwa on the table. She saw that Yuwa was going out with a bottle of milk, so she went to get yogurt. When she saw it was empty, she came back and said, "I went to get it again." I looked at my mother. It used to be a little funny, but now I suddenly feel a little worried. Is my mother confused or sick? Dad has left, and I have been urging her to live a good life. No one can escape death. My father's pain is still relatively small, and my mother is also very persuaded and doesn't cry much. I was a little relieved, but now that my father is gone, my mother began to feel flustered. Is it Alzheimer's disease? She used to get nervous and flustered easily, but when her father told her everything, she was relieved. When she was confused, she smiled at herself and didn't think much. Now she is as at a loss as a child who is lost in the crowd and left unattended. I always told her that I would take care of her, and she was taking care of me. She can do many things.

Aunt across the hall hasn't contacted her mother much since she measured her blood sugar last time. Maybe she thinks her mother is too stupid. Before that, she liked to chat with her. My mother noticed and was very unhappy. She is afraid of being laughed at. The fact now is that she is really looked down upon. You know, when my mother was at home, the old people in the park especially liked her and envied her and her father's happiness. She was asked not to go to the park for a day. Also praised her for her spirit and happiness. When she arrived in Beijing, she thought that she wouldn't be lonely with her aunt across the street, but she rarely contacted her these days ... Her wife was honest and kind, but her aunt told him all her life that he was particularly stupid ... I asked my mother to go to the aunt across the street and do exercises in the square in the morning, and I came back in the afternoon. I walked and chatted with her, and my mother muttered, "If you don't do things like this, how can you be a director!" She doesn't understand why the old people in her hometown like her so much, but here it is. I told her, "We don't need others to accompany you. It's enough to have me here. The aunt across the street will have to call you in a few days because she has no one to accompany her. She needs company more than you do. She is a picky person, but she is not bad. " I understand now that my mother likes to go to the park every day in her hometown, because she finds the feeling of being respected and encouraged there, which is very good. Now, I will take my mother to JH on weekends, where people are particularly friendly to her. I believe that she will soon feel respected and encouraged, loved and loved to make people energetic.

I wonder if mom will get more and more confused. The most important thing recently is to let her get used to it. I can't rush her or make her do a lot of things. I can't blame her. Let her think slowly. What she needs most now is confidence.

Mom said that when Dad left, her happy days would be over, and then she would keep crying ... I hope my mom can rely on me and feel happy again.