My family is in the same situation as the landlord. I also work in Shenzhen, and my wife takes care of the children in Huizhou and sends them to school by the way. I live in Chen Jiang and have a weekend off. Driving back to Huizhou every Friday night, it takes about 30 and a half hours to get home by expressway. I drove to Shenzhen for work on Monday morning. Because it is a Huizhou brand, you have to park your car before 7 o'clock, so you have to go out at 6 o'clock in the morning, and the car will still be available. After four or five years like this, I have long been used to the life in two cities, and I don't feel as hard as everyone said.
I once thought about changing my house to Shenzhen, but now the housing price in Shenzhen is too high, the population is large and the educational resources are tight. Considering various reasons, I finally chose to live in Huizhou.
I hope I can shake a Shenzhen card earlier (it feels unrealistic, it has been shaken for more than 3 years), so that it will not be so hard in the morning.
Working in Shenzhen with my husband, we used to live in Shenzhen, but we bought a house in Huizhou and lived a life of living on both sides of Huizhou, Shenzhen! But I don't want to live in Shenzhen now. The noise and the city that never sleeps in Shenzhen are also very busy, but it is too noisy and annoying. As soon as I entered Huizhou, I felt very calm! This is a place to live, and Shenzhen is a place to enjoy the skin! Huizhou is good, you won't know until you come!
Futian goes to work, and his wife takes the baby in Huiyang and takes the high-speed train to work. She went out at 8: 00 in the morning, arrived at the company at 9: 30, got off work at 8: 40 in the evening, and got home at 65: 438+00 [Laughing and crying].
At the same time, I took my children to live in a kindergarten in Linshen, Daya Bay. My husband works in Nanshan Houhai. He rents a house in Baoan Ganoderma lucidum. He comes back every Friday night, has dinner on Sunday, and then drives back in high-speed railway station on Friday, Pingshan. It has been like this for more than two years, and it feels good. Keeping a proper distance also avoids many trivial quarrels.
Huizhou is not too far from Shenzhen, and there is a subway. Although I live and work in Guangzhou, I have to go back and forth 100 kilometers every day.
Shenhui and Shuangcheng have lived for six or seven years, and now they have got on the bus in Shenzhen! On 20/0/4, Kloc bought a house in Danshui, and began to decorate and move in on 20/0/5. Go back and forth between Shenzhen and Danshui once a week without interruption. It was not until 20 19 was affected by the epidemic that we began to find ways to escape from fresh water. Started to move to Shenzhen in 2020 1 month, and the fresh water house in the back was always empty. It was not rented out until August 20021year, and it is planned to take root in Shenzhen in the future.
My family is in Guangzhou with the children, and my husband is free to practice, but basically he is in Hainan for half a month and Guangzhou for half a month.
I bought a house in Huizhou last year, and now I rent Huizhou to experience life in advance. It's just a word fatigue. I get up at 6: 40 every morning and go out at about 55. I buy a steamed stuffed bun downstairs and leave at 7: 00, arrive at the company at 8: 30, and go out at 8: 00 and 9: 20.
I think I will be like your family from next year. The children's kindergarten is in Shenzhen, and I will consider going back to Guangzhou to attend primary school next year. My husband works in Shenzhen, and my baby and I are in Guangzhou, and we are going to live separately. Well, I can't help it. Shenzhen can't afford to buy a house, and the pressure of life is too great for children to go to a good school. Everything is too difficult. Under the heavy pressure of life, there are contradictions between us. It is better to choose to separate the two places. He works to earn money to support his family, and I am responsible for educating and raising children. I think there should be many such families. There are at least two or three families around me, one working in Guangzhou and the other working in Shenzhen. Sometimes I feel really sad. I can foresee how difficult it will be for a person to take care of children in a strange city in the future, but I also blame myself for not considering buying a house in Shenzhen when I bought it [tears], and now I have no choice but to go back to Guangzhou. . Well, I want to take the road I choose, and I hope to have a new start in Guangzhou, and I hope everything will go well and live a good life.