He said: My life began at the age of fifty. In my experience, fifty or sixty years old is a turning point in life. From this age, life can be divided into two stages:

Before the age of 50, it is the stage of laying the foundation. At this stage, we are often trying to base ourselves on the society and support our families, basically living for others:

After the age of 50, the economic foundation has been laid and the cause has been completed. This is the most valuable stage of self-realization and self-creation.

In fact, 50-year-old people know their own destiny. As the saying goes, half of 50-year-old people are buried in loess.

After experiencing the impulse and passion of my youth, I left a calm mind and learned more about what to do and what not to do.

I'm used to the mundane things in the world of mortals. It seems that not everything can bother me.

Some people start to panic as soon as they enter middle age. Should they spend the rest of their lives casually supporting the elderly and living a life of mixed food and death?

Although I haven't retired, I already feel that I can't do my best and can't concentrate on some difficult things at work.

Young people braved the wind and waves to show their vitality again and again. By contrast, a 50-year-old person seems a bit insignificant.

So how should a 50-year-old person spend it? How should I live?

This is also a major topic in life, of course, this problem needs the precipitation of years.

And the washed pure thoughts, we can see what the bottom and bed of this river of life are like, and we can understand how to go in the future.

What we can mention is the experience of most people, and I hope I can help you now.

First, keep good living habits.

A regular life is the secret of a long and healthy life-Balzac

When people are young, they rely on their bodies, eat youthful meals and squander their bodies at will. But when they are 50 years old, they should not have such an idea.

After all, health is your greatest wealth. When you are 50 years old, don't be overworked, take good care of yourself, don't stay up late and work overtime to overdraw your body, and even often smoke, drink and entertain.

You can maintain relaxed, healthy and moderate entertainment activities in your life. It can not only regulate our nerves, but also cultivate our sentiment and keep our health. Don't entertain too much.

You can do proper physical exercise and often go out to run and jump to enhance your physique. Don't wait until you are really sick to understand what protecting your body is.

And health care should be decided step by step, otherwise how can it be called health care?

Take good care of yourself at this age, and don't wait until you retire after 60 and really support yourself, which will become a burden for your children. Keeping good living habits can also help you live a healthy and happy life for a few more years.

Second, stop trying to make money.

Roland said, "it is hard for people who love money not to be slaves of money." With money, most people are always worried about saving what they have and getting more money. The bigger his business, the heavier his gains and losses, and the harder it is to find his broad mind. "

Money is not everything, but we can't do anything without it. Although all the material foundations in our life are inseparable from money, we should not take money too seriously when we are old.

If you become a slave to money because you love it, and become a slave to money because you are greedy for money, then you have lost your true heart. Even if it is for money, it is not worth the loss to lose one's moral bottom line.

At this age, your children have a normal life track, live a quiet life, and also let you live a happy life for the rest of your life.

You don't need to be too greedy for money. If you lose your health, love for your lover and children, and filial piety for your parents because you are greedy for money, then you will become the most regretful thing in your life when you are old.

Third, it's best not to get involved in children's affairs.

Many people rarely have a muddled account, especially when facing their children, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework.

What's more, our parents are old, always nagging, and judging their children's behavior with their own inherent thinking can easily lead to contradictions caused by ideological differences.

Children and grandchildren are blessed by their own children and grandchildren, and living their own lives is more important than anything else.

Turn a blind eye in life. I used to think that my children should listen to their parents' opinions on marriage and size.

But today's children mature early and have strong independent thoughts. What middle-aged people should do is not to let themselves go the wrong way and take fewer detours.

Other things and efforts are left to the children themselves.

Don't be too hard on them. Everyone knows that children and grandchildren have their own blessings, but they don't know that the second half is not for children and grandchildren.

If you neglect your own happiness and happiness because you take care of your son and daughter all your life, your life will be unhappy. Think more about yourself and keep a good attitude towards life.

Fourth, cherish the lover around you.

It is said that companionship is the longest confession. When people reach middle age, they seem to have contact with everyone. Nothing matters except interest.

People who once loved each other deeply have not come together yet.

You should forget about it, too. You're still with the person who gave birth to your child. The more you reach middle age, the more you can understand that true love is your pillow.

Although you always ignore her existence, she is always with you. After being with you for so many years, you should also be cherished.

Besides, young couples are always together. When you are sick and need someone to take care of you, you will understand the pain. It is difficult for your children to stay with you for a long time because of work, and it is inconvenient for you because of illness. It all depends on the people around you.

It is also a kind of wisdom to cherish the lover around you. I have seen too many ups and downs, and I have seen too many people around me.

Middle-aged people's love is like a glass of old wine. Although time is still passing, it will not make your love fade after all, but will make your feelings richer and mellow.

Please love and take care of the person who has been fighting with you.

Bai Zeng repeatedly said with emotion, "When people reach middle age, they have to consider taking the exam. Youth is gone forever, and the shadow of death is faintly visible ahead. China people are afraid to talk about life and death, but life is a one-way street, and no one can stop it. If you don't think about death, you can't live well. "

Once you reach the age of 50, it's easy to get scared, because the pressure you are under and the responsibilities you have to bear have not decreased at all.

As Zhang Ailing said: "A middle-aged person often feels lonely, because when he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one to rely on."

In addition to living every step of the present, we should always plan for the future.

Even if you don't need to be too scared, sometimes 50 years old is like a new beginning in life.

As long as you seriously explore and discover and try to live for yourself again, your future may change greatly.

At 50, you are not the end, but the beginning. Don't think that you are old and useless now.

Keep an optimistic and positive attitude and your life will be more meaningful.