Because this seemingly heaven-made fairy couple, like ordinary couples, have differences on many small things, or even completely different.

Deng Chao is a night owl, and Sun Li likes to go to bed early and get up early. Deng Chao likes Beijing, while Sun Li lives in Shanghai. Deng Chao's sensibility has no plan, and Sun Li's rational life law. ...

One is warm as jade, the other is passionate, but Deng Chao is willing to make some changes for Sun Li and his family.

A happy marriage can heal each other. Now Sun Li is very happy, but her childhood is chaotic: her parents often quarrel, which leads her to live in the shadow all the time.

Parents/kloc-divorced at the age of 0/2, but the father only gave his mother 2000 yuan as compensation.

In order to support herself and her daughter, Sun Li's mother works as a shop assistant during the day and a cleaner at night, and her monthly income exceeds 100 yuan. It is also because of the cruel childhood and the influence of family background that Sun Li made up his mind not to get married.

Deng Chao, like Sun Li, had an unusual childhood: Deng Chao's parents divorced and reorganized, and he was particularly rebellious and grumpy since childhood. He also said that he had made up his mind not to get married and have children.

It was not until they met and fell in love that they knew that strong happiness could cure everything. At the wedding, Sun Li cried and said "Be nice to me", and Deng Chao smiled and said "I know."

"Sun Li is laughing and Deng Chao is making trouble." On the occasion of their ninth wedding anniversary with Deng Chao, Sun Li threw a "bomb" in the Weibo: "After careful consideration, it is not easy for us to live together ..."

Because there are too many differences between her and Deng Chao, whether it is living habits, hobbies or temperament, a * * * lists a whole 1 1. In most cases, introverts look for extroverts, casual self-discipline, neat and sloppy, and life must be full of all kinds of noises.

Sun Li said that "Deng Chao is changing for the sake of family", which sounds really warm, while Sun Li didn't make himself a "awesome Zhen Xuan" in his marriage. She interacts in Weibo, Deng Chao, and her painting style is "Sun Li is laughing and Deng Chao is making trouble".

They are willing to share the trivia of marriage. Simple and playful noise is like a pair of "tell it to the judge".

"It's comfortable if you don't hold it." On Sun Li's birthday, Deng Chao said, "The first hot comment in Weibo is my birthday present for Sun Li tomorrow. As we all know. "

He never imagined that the first hot comment was so simple and wonderful that the netizen topped a word: "fart."

In order to see him "embarrassed", he also specially commented at the bottom: "See how you explain to the empress."

The next day, Deng Chao wrote four words lightly: "The gift has been delivered".

This "shit and fart" interaction is so natural that it really goes beyond our understanding of the cold and mysterious image of a star. This also shows that the couple can put aside their reserve and actively share their family daily life. We saw the embarrassment and happiness of the couple.

They are like a pair of children who haven't grown up yet. They are naive and stubborn. Neither of them will let each other down or give up easily. On the surface, Deng Chao has been trying to hack Sun Li. In fact, it is an expression of love, and all the lines are showing love.

Because the feelings are strong enough to trust each other, you don't have to worry about stabbing each other's sensitive nerves and unscrupulously hacking each other.

Behind the calm, there is enough effort. Deng Chao is too noisy in marriage, and Sun Li is very calm in marriage.

She is an expert in health care. What is presented in Weibo is the ordinary daily routine that everyone can have-planting flowers, mowing the grass, soaking feet, walking the dog, Doby's husband, sunbathing, and drawing when the mood comes.

What you see is her calmness, but behind it is actually enough effort. In recent years, she has performed a play seriously every year. From Happiness as a Flower, Empresses in the Palace, The Legend of Mi Yue to Anjia, the douban score of each drama is above 7.0, and one drama is crucial. After reading her words, you will know that it was not practiced in a day or two, and it must have taken a lot of energy.

Conclusion What is the most difficult thing about marriage? In fact, who is more willing to make changes first. A good marriage is not only about choosing the right person, but also doing the right thing. The biggest obstacle to maintaining a good intimate relationship is that even if the other person is the right person, it is already difficult to do things that satisfy him. From the perspective of doing the right thing, Sun Li and Deng Chao performed perfectly.

If you take a step back, I will take a step back. Freedom and self-discipline coexist. This is probably the best appearance of love.

Sun Li has been poking fun at Deng Chao's suitability for Qiong Yao's play. But in Deng Chao's subtle influence day after day, she becomes more and more soft, and the once hard ice in her heart turns into warm water.

Deng Li: I prefer human happiness to star aura.