First, love is a feeling, which is easy to keep people away for a long time. Love is beautiful. No one can judge when a relationship will happen, when it will end, who it will happen with, whether it will meet their expectations and so on. But as long as love happens, everything makes sense. Love is beautiful, but love is also sad. When love disappears, it is often difficult for one party to come out.

Generally speaking, when couples break up, it must be put forward by one party. Those who can get away with it, those who can break up peacefully, those who can be together and those who can leave will always be a minority. So someone will always get hurt in love. It takes time for the injured party to give up this relationship completely and forget this person completely. So some people may be stuck in feelings for a long time.

Then once a person is hurt by feelings and can't get out, then psychological problems may occur. Mental illness is very common now, and depression is very common. One of the most important symptoms of these mental diseases is self-mutilation and suicide. So at this time, these people will think that love is more important than life, just because they are sick.

Second: Some people are love-oriented. Although some people are rational, some people are emotional. Emotional people are apt to use their brains. In other words, these people only have love in their minds. For them, love is supreme, and nothing is more important than love. They pursue love, but sometimes they are hurt by it. Although these people are eager for love, their psychological endurance is not strong.

So when they encounter emotional trauma and can't get out of this relationship, they will feel that it is unwilling and unfair. In this way, they will have a revenge on their lover. After all, for them, love is everything. When you lose love, you have nothing. Therefore, in such a desperate situation, we have to choose an extreme way.

Therefore, the people I love most are actually lucky and unfortunate, because they can enjoy the most beautiful moment of love. He can feel, enjoy and experience love more than anyone else. Unfortunately for them, however, they can't get out of trouble, so they tend to go to extremes. Although love is beautiful, it still needs a little rationality, otherwise love will become a chronic poison.