Some people say: "The greatest evil of human nature is to look at people badly."
I don't agree. Human nature is good, but not all people in human skin can be called human beings.
Zhuangzi deeply understands this truth, and the origin of the story begins with "Zhuangzi trying his wife".
When Zhuangzi came home from studying Taoism, he passed a cemetery and saw a beautiful young woman, all wrapped in white, squatting in front of a new grave, holding a big white fan in her hand and vigorously fanning the wet grave soil.
Zhuangzi was surprised and asked her what she was doing.
The woman replied that her husband was in the grave. They were very loving before they died, and they were worried when they died. They have last words. If she wants to remarry, she must wait until the grave is dry.
But when will this newly built grave soil dry? That's why I'm trying to fan the wind here to make it dry quickly.
Zhuangzi felt sorry for her, so he took a fan and put a spell on it. He dried the grave fan in a few times. The woman was overjoyed, gave the fan to Zhuangzi and got married happily.
Zhuangzi has been sitting in the living room since he got home, fiddling with this fan and sighing. The cook's wife saw it and asked him what had happened. Zhuangzi told her in detail.
Tian was very angry after hearing this. He said angrily, "There are such shameless women in the world!"
Zhuangzi said: "If I die, you will be as beautiful as flowers and jade, and you will probably not live for three or five years."
"Brave women don't serve two husbands. If this misfortune befalls me, there is nothing shameful, let alone three or five years, and I will never do it. " Feeling humiliated by Zhuangzi, the impatient chef grabbed the fan and tore it to pieces.
A few days later, Zhuangzi suddenly fell ill. Tian cried her eyes out before she died. Zhuangzi said to her, "It's a pity that you tore up that fan, otherwise you could keep it as your grave."
Tian choked up and said, "Don't worry, I am a person who knows how to do it, and I will definitely keep my word. If you don't trust me, then I will die in front of you, so that I can show my mind? "
Zhuangzi listened and said, "I will die with my eyes closed." Then he swallowed.
After Zhuangzi feigned death, Tian arranged a funeral for him.
Among the people who came to pay their respects, there was a handsome man with a servant, elegant and handsome.
After waking up, Tian gradually fell in love with this handsome young man. When the guests left, they fell in love and began to talk about marriage.
The young man said that he was very happy, so Tian took off his plain clothes, put on colorful clothes and painted himself to get ready.
That night, the lobby was brightly lit, and the two newlyweds were really a couple by candlelight. After the memorial service, they entered the bridal chamber.
Just as he was about to undress for bed, the groom suddenly frowned and fell to the ground, dying. The old servant said that his master had been ill for a long time and made it every year. There is no cure, there is only one way to take effect immediately after use. When Tian asked what it was, the old servant said, "Only a man's brain can save him.
After hearing this, the chef went to the kitchen without thinking, carrying a kitchen knife to dig Zhuangzi's wet brain and treat his new love.
Just then, Zhuangzi woke up. ......
Later, Tian shamelessly hanged himself. Zhuangzi woke up with mixed feelings and put his wife in the chopped coffin.
Human nature cannot stand the test. Don't rock the boat and ask for trouble.
In fact, in the face of power, money, beauty and other temptations, the resistance of ordinary people is extremely limited. So don't try to test human nature, or human nature will slap you in the face and beat you everywhere.
Those women who send their sisters and girlfriends to test men will probably end up as miserable as the owner.
Don't doubt people, don't doubt people. Whether husband and wife or lovers, since they are together, they should trust each other. If they suspect each other, then this relationship is actually unnecessary.
Zhuangzi learned from a bitter experience and came to the conclusion that people should conform to human nature, that is, to conform to nature, and human nature cannot be tested.
"Love is pro, benefit is persuasion, and evil is scattered."
It is Zhuangzi's summary of the law of human nature. No one can escape this rule. Some people use it positively, while others use it negatively. The key is to look at people's motives.
The depth of wisdom! It is worthy of further study by our descendants.
Some people say that there are two things in the world that you can't look directly at: one is the sun and the other is the human heart.