Life needs to do what you like.
Life is really too short. Too many people go for houses, cars, other people's opinions and their own vanity. In a sense, if they get happiness and satisfaction from it, no one is qualified to say that these people are sad, but there are also some people who are trying to realize their own value, just like Wei Dongyi, a professor in Tsinghua who recently got a fire. He is simple and frugal, and always walks around the campus with a bucket of self-irrigation water. Is his life worthless? What makes you judge his value and his happiness?
Therefore, the past you only represent your past, you are middle-aged, and there is still more than half of your life. Work hard, make money and save money, and think about living the life you want. What's the delay?
It's never too late to work hard.
Some big brothers still insist on the college entrance examination in their forties just to get into their favorite universities. His 70-year-old uncle won the exam. The world is so big that many people have taken a different road from ordinary people, but they don't feel too late. They just feel that they have realized their wishes and are happy inside. You just need to do what you want to do, not think about what others should have done, but think about what I think.
The eyes of others are the most meaningless things.
Finally, many people's unhappiness and hesitation come from other people's eyes. They are afraid of other people's eyes, afraid that they will get nothing after their efforts and be rejected by others. But other people's eyes are the most meaningless thing. As long as you ignore it, it doesn't exist and won't hurt us. But if we treat other people's eyes as knives, it may cause fatal harm to us. Therefore, we don't need to care about others, we just need to care about ourselves and do what we want. It's never too late.