At that time, B took the baby at home and A went out to work in Guangdong. Maybe it's loneliness or something He carried a C in the company, rented a house outside and lived a so-called husband-and-wife life. This may be the so-called red flag at home, but the colorful flags are fluttering outside. When the child was brought to more than 3 years old, B noticed that it was not good for husband and wife to live apart for such a long time, and thought that A was wrong, so he secretly went to the company where A worked to find A, only to know that A was derailed and lived with the derailed object. B was very sad and went home without any trouble.
A panicked at this time, and he didn't want his salary. He went home to ask for B's forgiveness, all kinds of glib words, never contacted C again, and lived a good life. He used his savings to open a canteen for B at home, so he lived a life of taking care of his husband and teaching children at home.
However, the good times did not last long. In less than half a year, the canteen will not be opened, and the couple will not operate. The canteen is not profitable, which is equivalent to a family eating empty mountains. The couple discussed it. A said they went out to work, let B settle down at home and then come and work together to make money.
There is no doubt that A went to the old place to find a job this time because he was caught gambling. After a while, I don't know why I contacted C again. This time, C also knew that A was married and could not stop A's sweet words. They lived a husband-and-wife life again, and C also gave A several children. All the money earned from working was gambled by A, and C still willingly followed A..
B came out to work with A, and A and C were temporarily separated. Instead of working in a factory, the couple rented a house outside. Until one night, A went to take a shower, and the message on his mobile phone beeped. B can't help but wonder. After reading the message, I realized that A and C have always been in contact. B couldn't bear it this time, and it started to make trouble at that time. A can't hide it at first sight, just don't hide it. A immediately got into a fight with B. B's eyes were swollen and his body was covered with injuries. B cut his wrist in grief and despair. Fortunately, love rat came back and was sent to the hospital in time, which didn't lead to the loss of a life.
After this incident, B was not in the mood to go to work. After living in his hometown for a while, he began to prepare for a divorce. A does not agree to divorce. No way, the law at that time did not allow casual divorce, and B did not collect evidence of A's infidelity at that time. I can only wait two years to get a divorce certificate, so I have to settle my children in my grandmother's house and go out to work to earn money.
After working outside for more than a year and a half, I have also been threatened by various harassment from A. After getting to know my current husbands D and B, I decided to divorce. At that time, I didn't promise D to associate, but I had a good impression on D, and D was also very diligent. All parties were very considerate and careful about B. After three months, B was won by D, and D took the initiative to give B half the salary during the cohabitation time, and B also had everything in life.
Two years later, B went back to divorce A, and the child was awarded to B. The court ordered A to give B child support every month, but A didn't. It doesn't matter, as long as it is a free body, not a marriage relationship with this love rat, it doesn't matter if you work hard!
Now B and her current husband D have a child and live a happy life. Husband will also make money, and she is willing to spend money for B, willing to give half of her salary to B, so that B is full of security.
Therefore, people who cheat again and again can conclude that they don't want it. People who cheat once and have children can only be studied. Not everyone who cheats is a man who can pull back from the brink. The key depends on personality, no children at a time, and feelings, depending on how stingy you are. I suggest not. Life is so long, why hang yourself from a tree? If there is, you don't have to wear a green hat often when you are pregnant and have a baby. The key depends on your personality.
Once he was eating hot pot with a friend, his mobile phone accidentally fell into the hot pot. Cut it out with chopsticks and turn it off automatically. My friend wiped it for a long time, but my mobile phone still won't turn on. I was helpless and had to buy another mobile phone. This "cooking mobile phone" incident caused an uproar in his home.
After he bought a new mobile phone, he didn't throw away the cooked mobile phone, but left it at home. His wife fiddled with it when she was free and actually opened it. Of course, after changing the mobile phone, WeChat can't log in, and there is no problem with SMS, but many of his calls are unconsciously recorded. His wife listened with relish, and the more she listened, the more stupid she became. Total recall, who has been with a little sister for three months, is basically in it.
The evidence is conclusive, and friends are hard to refute. My wife is crying and making noise. She really hates her friend's cheating. She tore at her friend's clothes, and her friend was black and blue, but she still dared not make a sound. After two days of this trouble, my friends are about to collapse.
However, on the third day, my friend's wife's attitude was 180 degree turn. Suddenly, her attitude was not so bad and she began to chat with her friends calmly. My friend took this opportunity to assure her that she would never cheat again. In this way, the couple actually got better. It's unbelievable, it's so fast.
Five years later, although friends occasionally have sex, they are cautious and feel guilty afterwards. They feel sorry for their wives and are getting farther and farther away from those things, while the life of husband and wife is getting sweeter and sweeter.
Women who cheat in marriage can't be forgiven and forgiven. Before that, she kept saying that she and I were not harmonious. I asked her, is that why she can sleep with other men? Since the second half of last year, her behavior has been very strange, not letting me know her daily whereabouts and motives, not living with me as husband and wife, and living in separate beds. Extremely disgusted with me. I always ignore calling her or WeChat. If I am at home occasionally, I will put my mobile phone to my mouth and keep talking. A woman in her forties dresses up all day and is not at home almost all day. Every day, she is with that man and his wife. I don't have any family values. I care about my children. That night, she was chatting with the man in the shower. She told me what she said, "I don't know what to say. I feel guilty and immoral for what I have done." Paper won't catch fire ... "I couldn't bear it, drove her away and divorced her ten days later." Now that I'm alone with my daughter, it's hard to let go of these things sometimes. One must always have a bottom line and principles. What is the face of a woman who abandons her family and becomes a mistress?
Tell me my story! I am currently experiencing being derailed. Married 12 years, with one child. We all have formal jobs and institutions. I don't know when my husband will cheat. Probably because the children didn't study well before, they often quarreled with them at home. Maybe he thinks the family atmosphere is bad, or he thinks he has no feelings for a long time! In the second half of last year, because of work, I didn't go home until after 8 o'clock on weekdays. Husband has no food every day, so he goes to other people's homes for dinner. It may take a long time to confirm the relationship. At the beginning of this year, I quarreled with my children again because of a small matter. My husband went out in a rage, and then sent a text message saying that he was getting divorced. In fact, we have been together for so many years, and we haven't quarreled much, but our words have become less and less over the years. I was shocked. I talked to him, and he denied that he was a mistress, saying that the three views were inconsistent. After a period of investigation, the old road show-I found Xiao San gorgeous, and the way they met was car shock. My husband doesn't know that I found out and I don't know that I have evidence. I've been wondering if I want to make trouble. It is estimated that my husband is afraid of leaving a record when he opens a house. Every time he drives to a quiet place, the car will vibrate. And go home after the earthquake, never exceeding 1 1. If there is no actual evidence, I really don't believe that he cheated.
At present, everyone has advised me to put up with it. He is now holding the mentality that he will never admit it as long as he is not caught in bed. He is at home, taking care of his family. When he is sick, let him work and cook porridge for me. My family always makes him do anything. He doesn't want to talk to me in bed, but he really can't see his second thoughts.
Sometimes my daughter will persuade me, forget it, as long as I don't make trouble, this man makes efforts to go home for dinner every day and buy whatever the children want. Now I don't quarrel with my children at home, and I feel that we talk more together. Husband is still having sex with mistress. My friend also advised me, forget it, I can make money myself and spend his money desperately in the future. I will keep the money for myself and go out to play if I want. Don't stick to him every day, let him think that I can't live without him.
I just can't get over it now. I know I will never leave him, and I have the ability to take good care of my children. I just can't give up my family. But patience is a knife in his head. It is very painful to choose forbearance, and there is no intention of repentance at present. Both men and women enjoy this kind of cheating. These three are really cheap. It is estimated that they always have car shocks, and occasionally they go out to play with car shocks. But going out to play risks being seen. ) Sometimes I wonder if this one is covered.