? My son was born when my daughter was five years old. After maternity leave, I am going back to work in the factory. At that time, our unit was a state-owned enterprise, and the welfare was very good. The salary was much higher than that of Mr. Wang's government agency.

? At this juncture, my mother-in-law who helped me take care of my children began to feel sick, dizzy, with sore legs and sore arms. There was no result in going to the hospital for examination, so she had to have a good rest. So I can only take time off and become a temporary full-time mother to take care of two children.

? The job of a stay-at-home mother is not easy. It is acceptable to send the elder to school, help with homework, cook three meals a day, clean up the housework, and take care of the baby's eating, drinking and emotional management. The only regret is that there is no salary for personal leave. Without my share of income and my son's various expenses, the economic pressure is not small.

? At that time, few people were willing to go home to be full-time wives, unless the family had a particularly good economic foundation and enough capital. In other words, my ability is particularly poor and I can't find a job. So I'm young and I'm not at ease with my children at home. I've always wanted to find a suitable person to take care of the children so that I can go back to work.

? However, there are unexpected events in the sky, and people are doomed. My mother-in-law in her fifties had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, was unconscious and was ill in bed. My mother-in-law has never been born, and she is only surrounded by her adopted son. The responsibility of taking care of my mother-in-law can only be borne by the two of us. Considering that my husband is not as convenient as me at home, the result of the discussion is that I completely quit my public office and returned to my family. Now, I am completely a so-called full-time wife.

? Now, when I mention the word "stay-at-home wife", all I can think of is marrying a good man. I don't have to go out and work hard. I just dress fresh and comfortable every day and tutor my children. In fact, most women are at home, no more relaxed than in the workplace.

? Those two years can be said to be very difficult. My daughter is in primary school and needs help with her homework. The son is a toddler and walks unsteadily; Mother-in-law can't take care of herself, feed her, wipe her body and accompany her to recover; The whole family has to arrange three meals. For a time, I hardly slept before twelve o'clock and kept spinning like a top every day.

? Two years later, my mother-in-law got well, learned to walk again, and was able to take care of herself. My son has also been sent to kindergarten, and I can finally breathe a sigh of relief. Not satisfied with the status quo, I got a sweater knitting machine and began to process sweaters for others in my spare time to increase my income and subsidize my family.

? After a while, I want to return to the workplace. Unit restructuring, completely can't go back, so we have to find another way. In order to take better care of my family, I chose to start my own business, rented a booth in the shopping mall and operated clothes.

? Now, more than 20 years have passed, and the children have grown up and embarked on their jobs. My mother-in-law is over eighty years old and in good health. My business, starting from a small stall, expanded step by step and became a monopoly. I won the respect of my children and the admiration of my relatives and friends with my own efforts and dedication.

? Tell everyone about your experience, just to let the sisters who return to their families understand that no matter what reason you become a stay-at-home mother or a stay-at-home wife, don't give up your efforts at any time, let alone get out of society, or you will be eliminated one day.

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