Five methods:
First, hug him every day. Many mothers say that boys should look like boys and not be too intimate. In fact, the brain development of boys is slower than that of girls, so you need more care both physically and psychologically.
Second, the mother should not be too strong and reprimand the father in front of the children at home. The boy should find a man to imitate and worship at the age of 10 as an example for his life. Nine times out of ten, this man is his father.
Third, mentally rich and physically poor, he arranges his own toys and carries his own schoolbag, so that he should learn to take responsibility from an early age.
Fourth, read a story about five thousand years in China every day. Many family cases have proved that children raised with historical masterpieces are better than 90% children of the same age.
Fifth, don't worry about telling your children the answers in the book. Knowledge is searchable, but ability is not searchable. We should cultivate children's ability to solve problems.