After the ups and downs of life and fate, when we gradually learn to face everything with indifference, we will no longer dwell on the past and doubt the future.
Some people say that life is just a journey, so life is just trivial in the journey. If you are influenced by the scenery along the way, you will be very tired. Because the scenery doesn't seem to have changed because of your persistence.
Therefore, every morning, we should learn to appreciate the beautiful scenery of nature. Look, it's foggy, the morning light is faint, and the sunrise is like a passionate poem, giving people endless reverie and motivation.
Whenever the sun sets and night falls, why not give your mood a selective cleaning, remove dirt and dream with beauty.
Therefore, if a person can be as broad-minded as the sea, he can be safe and sound in the depths of the years and relax his mind.
"Zhuangzi" has a cloud: "A sincere heart is like a mirror. If you don't welcome it, don't hide it, so you can win things without hurting them. "
It means that a wise man's heart is like a mirror, which does not hide all grievances, so he can act decisively and deal with things.
Of course, life is like being on the road forever. There is no reason to stop. Although it was hard all the way, I also enjoyed the scenery along the way.
No one will lose their own interests for your happiness; No one will shelter you from the wind and rain for no reason, so you must learn the skills of surviving in the wind and rain and create your own happiness. Even if you are not good at it!
Just like a friend once, because of many problems in real life, for the pursuit of perfection in life, he was scarred and seriously ill.
Maybe he is relieved, or maybe he is really tired. He recorded a video the day before yesterday, which probably means: Thank you for your attention. In the future, I will try not to care about things that I can't manage well and learn to live in a different way. Although selling rice and things is not his specialty, he will try his best to adapt and serve everyone better!
He also said that when recording the video, he found many things that he had never paid attention to before, including everything in the community. Today, he found many children in the community, including children from other places, especially the lively and lovely pictures of children playing together. He thinks the children are especially pure and clean, almost spotless! It also awakened my fond memories of my childhood.
He often said: People live to compete with themselves. Looking back, the root cause of most people's injuries is not getting along well with themselves.
Life is in a hurry for a few years, how can everything go well? However, it is really not easy for an honest and kind person with love in his heart to let go completely.
Of course, we must be aware that there are many things in this world that we simply cannot control or change.
Only by learning to be pessimistic and knowing how to take things as they are can we reduce the breeding of pain and live a transparent and relieved life.
Therefore, when you are covered with scars, you must learn to put it down temporarily, have a rest, give yourself a little smile and give yourself a place to recuperate.
Fourth brother thinks:
In the world of mortals, people should be frank and outspoken, but they don't have to be too persistent. The more persistent they are, the more troubles and sorrows they have. Sometimes, it is better to let go and leave a space for yourself to enjoy another kind of scenery.
Because, as long as the heart is strong, there is a stage everywhere; As long as you are in a good mood, all you see is the scenery.
As the saying goes, "live in the moment", very good. Just like the fallen leaves in late autumn, there is no need to worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow's fallen leaves are tomorrow's things, just like people's mood, and tomorrow has its own mood.
Bloom in spring, leaves fall in autumn. This is the inherent law of all things, and we can't force it.
Therefore, not thinking about the past and cherishing the present time is the shortest path to happiness.
Just like Mr. Wang, he worked hard for love, struggled for responsibility, struggled and laughed for most of his life. Wish him a happy life in the future!
(Some videos are difficult to forward, please forgive me! )