Life is half over for me, and the remaining days are not long. May you be happy and healthy every day. Put down what should be put down and forget what should be forgotten. The rest of my life is still very long. I hope I can be happy and optimistic for the rest of my life and move on. Life is half over. This is for you. I hope you can feel it.

I'm halfway through my life. 1

May you be healthy and have money in your pocket; There is nothing in my heart, but light in my eyes.

The autumn wind is getting colder, first frost is coming, and the footsteps of winter are getting closer and closer.

One year is coming to an end, and half my life has passed. Maybe you have a lot of regrets, a lot of reluctance, and a thousand words to say to yourself.

Don't remonstrate with the past, but you can still pursue the future. No matter how the first half of your life is, whether you are bitter or happy, please give these words to yourself when facing the second half of your life.

1、

Don't worry, what should come will come.

This year, you may not get a promotion or salary increase, but only your age has the biggest increase; Maybe you haven't found the other half yet, and you are still alone after walking around; Maybe you saw someone else's gorgeous counterattack, but you still stopped at the same place; Maybe you will be anxious, distressed and even afraid of the passage of time. ...

But honey, anxiety is the most useless thing in the world. It can't change anything except make your mood worse.

Please believe that it is yours and will come again in the future; Not yours. It's no use trying.

Some people get married and have children at the age of 20, and some people find true love at the age of 40; Some people become famous at the age of 30, while others become great at the age of 60.

There is no best life, only the life that suits you best; Only by letting go of anxiety can we wait to bloom.

2、

Don't pester me, what should go will always go.

People floating in rivers and lakes will inevitably meet some rotten people and things. Maybe there is a population that is unobstructed and always makes you sick;

Maybe someone doesn't like you and secretly gives you trouble; Maybe someone cheated your feelings and made you sad. ...

Many of us have experienced these things, and some people can't swallow this tone. It will only make their mood worse if they insist on fighting for victory or defeat.

Some people regard these bad things as dust and gently brush them away, which makes life better and better.

Don't dwell on bad things, they will pass sooner or later; Don't dispute with rotten people, they are doomed to rush by.

Letting go of the bad guys is actually letting go of yourself.

3、

Don't worry, smile more every day.

We are often in a bad mood because of a trivial matter: a criticism from the leader, a joke from a colleague, a husband's refusal to work, and a child's poor grades. ...

Although things are not big, they can always bring a good mood to an abrupt end.

There is a great poem written by Wang Guozhen:

"If you are not happy enough, don't frown. Life is too short, so why penance? "

Life is short, one day sad, one day happy, one day angry and one day happy. Instead of frowning and moping, it is better to give yourself a smile every day and walk happily and energetically.

Happiness is sometimes difficult, and the more you want it, the less you can get it; Happiness is sometimes simple. Smile, it's no big deal.

4、

Don't stay up late, do more exercise when you are free.

Life lies in exercise, and health lies in health preservation. Looking young is not only because of kindness, but also because of good health.

Some people are young and conservative; Some people are over half a year old and still full of energy. A big part of the difference lies in exercise.

No matter how busy you are at work and how tired your life is, set aside time for exercise every day. Running, dancing, climbing, playing ball,

Let yourself be born sweaty and let go of all your illnesses.

Go to bed early and get up early, drink plenty of water, eat well and be kind to your body, and your body will be kind to you.

You don't need to go to an expensive gym, you just need a persistent heart.

Health is the capital of revolution, and health is the greatest self-confidence. With good health, the future is infinite.

5、

Don't be confused, read more books.

Sometimes, you will be very empty and don't know the meaning of life; Sometimes, you will be confused and can't find the direction of the future. Everyone will be confused, but you can't always be confused.

To borrow a word from Mr. Jiang Yang:

"Your problem is mainly that you don't read much and think too much."

When you feel that life is boring, read a book, which can give you warmth; When you don't know what to do, just read. Books can give you strength.

When you read more books, your temperament will naturally change; Reading more books will make people's horizons and patterns different.

Reading may not help you solve all your problems, but it can enrich your soul, strengthen your will, make you a better self and create a better life.

6、

Stop complaining and make more money.

There is a good saying: "Making money can cure 80% of sitcoms."

Sometimes, we tend to complain about irritability and feel sorry for ourselves. In the final analysis, we are not satisfied with the present situation of life. But if you have money, you will find that these are not problems.

When you see something you like, you can take it home directly; If you want to go, you can book a plane ticket directly; When you meet the person you like, you can love.

Can give children better educational resources, can give parents better medical conditions, and can also make children's waist stand straighter.

It is better to live up to expectations than to be angry;

It is better to earn money than to complain.

Earning money is not only to create a better environment for your family, but also to make yourself live with more confidence and dignity.

After all, when you are vulnerable, you are surrounded by the worst people.

When you are strong, you are surrounded by smiling faces.

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Don't be wronged, love yourself.

Halfway through life, everyone has many regrets.

Maybe you chose a major you don't like in order to meet your parents' expectations; Maybe you have swallowed too many grievances silently in order to take care of your lover's emotions; Maybe you spend a lot of money on children, but you haven't bought yourself a new dress for a long time. ...

We always want to save the best for last, but we miss many opportunities in vain; We always think about how to please others, but forget to love ourselves.

Life is too short to love too much. You are yourself first, then other people's lovers, parents and children; Only by loving yourself well can you have extra energy to love others.

For the rest of your life, please learn to live for yourself. Do what you want to do, see where you want to go and see who you want to see.

You only have one life; Your future depends on yourself.

If you think life is too difficult, make yourself simple; If you think life is too hard, add some honey to yourself.

As San Mao said, "Eat a candy every day and tell yourself-today is really sweet."

The rest of your life is not long. May you smile every day and exercise regularly. Let go of what should be put and forget what should be forgotten.

I'm halfway through my life, and I'm tired in this life, not physically, but mentally. Tired, you can have a good rest and relax. My heart is so tired, but I don't know how to give it a holiday.

Along the way, the hardest thing is my heart, which has given it too much pressure and too much sadness, but I haven't considered how it should bear it. Even crying became a luxury.

I want to talk to someone about my grievances over the years, but I feel that it is not worth mentioning. Too many troubles are piled up in my heart and there is nowhere to vent. After a long time, it became an old wound in my heart. I dare not touch it, nor dare I touch it.

I have to pretend that I'm okay and I'm happy and sunny in front of people. The waves were so rough in the dark that I had to hide them. Your own fatigue, your own comfort, your own pain, your own taste.

In this way, day after day, living a repetitive life. Sometimes, I feel like a walking corpse, busy every day, running around on the road, obviously working hard, but I still can't reach my goal, and I am still confused about the future.

Life pushes me forward before I can catch my breath, but everyone does. I have no choice but to grit my teeth and move on. All the tiredness and pain can only be laughed off.

I often feel powerless and helpless, and want to find a harbor for my soul, stop temporarily and repair my scarred heart; I also want a hug, don't ask why, let me know that I am not alone. But such a wish often cannot be realized.

Persist when you are sick, endure when you are tired, and hide when you cry. Can't complain, dare not stop, can only learn not to bother yourself, learn to make yourself as happy as possible.

I once saw a sentence, which was very touching: people have to experience too much in this life, and they must stand up to deception, perfunctory, lies and forget their promises. You'll understand after a few more falls. You can only say three words to everyone, and you can't throw all my heart away.

You can't be like a child, you can't exaggerate a little sadness, and you want to talk to someone if you have any grievances. In the end, you will find that your heart becomes an interesting thing in others' eyes, and your inner words become a joke in others' ears. Many people listen to you, but too few people understand you!

We always have to walk a dark road alone, and no one can accompany us. When you encounter obstacles, don't think that someone will come to help. If you depend on others for everything, you will never grow up. Life is a book, and the story can only be written by yourself.

Don't expect anyone to understand your thoughts; Don't be disappointed, no one understands how many injuries you have suffered. Do what's in front of you and watch your step. God has his own plans for the rest.

It is lucky to have someone who knows you, and no one knows that you are normal. You are kind to people and are regarded as what you should be, and no one understands; You pay silently, and you are regarded as a bully, which is even worse.

It's easy to live, but life is not easy! Everyone else thinks you are strong, only your own heart won't lie, but it often forces a smile and pretends that it is doing well.

There is only one life, so don't be too hard on yourself. Many times, we all know the truth, but the emotions that come to our faces are difficult to control. If you really can't hold on, don't try to be brave. Give yourself some time to clear your mind and adjust yourself, so that you can start over better.

Allow yourself to cry when you feel like crying. Don't hold it all the time, you will spoil yourself. Lazy occasionally, don't always tighten the string, or it will break sooner or later.

If you are depressed for a long time, you will be willful. If you shout it out, you will be much happier. If you don't tell me, no one knows how stressed you are, and no one knows how difficult your situation is.

After walking for a long time, there is still no hope, so try to take another road and change direction; One thing, after thinking for a long time, is still smoldering, so I choose to let it go and let myself go.

Maybe you have taken many wrong paths, wronged many people, suffered many betrayals and endured endless difficulties. But it doesn't matter. Relax. As long as you are alive, there is still hope. The rest of my life is long, so don't panic.

In the days to come, eat well, sleep well, work hard to make money, be willing to spend money, not seek prosperity, but only feel at ease. When we came into this world, no one intended to go back alive. Since you are alive, live well!