Because people reach middle age, we realize that what people pursue all their lives is peace and health. We will not take away a flower and a grass, nor will we take away a little love and vanity. Therefore, when people reach middle age, I think the best state is that everything goes with the flow, they don't compare, they are not serious and they are not anxious.
The following is my opinion:
Sometimes, it is not easy for us to live. Studying, getting married and supporting parents and children, we still have to face a complex society, people who don't understand, people who can't let go, endless ups and downs, endless ups and downs. So no matter how busy and tired you are, don't forget to feel sorry for yourself. You must remember to take care of yourself.
Life is like the weather. Although predictable, it is often unexpected. Whether it is sunny or cloudy, having a good mood is the only inalienable wealth in life. Cherish every day, live a good life and take good care of your unique body. This is the best treasure. Everything is the most open-minded and wise attitude towards life.
When people reach middle age, the best gift for their children is: their own health and maintaining their physical and mental health. In fact, life is about doing two things well: first, educating children well, not endangering society, but making contributions to society. Second, take care of yourself and don't drag down the children.
So I think that when people reach middle age, they can see all the right and wrong clearly, and naturally they will not compare, be serious or be anxious. We just need to be ourselves and take good care of our bodies, which is the best gift for ourselves and our families.
May all of us be healthy and safe in middle age. I hope my answer is helpful to you.