1. Parents' faces changed quietly, but we felt it from other people's mouths.

Some netizens said: One morning during the winter vacation, I bought food with my dad on a whim. The vegetable market is an acquaintance business. I watched my dad pick and choose among the vendors' warm greetings. Just as I was about to leave, the weighing girl suddenly shouted to my dad, "Grandpa, wait a minute, there will be fresh beans soon!" " "My heart is startled, grandpa? Look at dad again, the sideburns are really white. ...

Also: I came home one day and saw my mother fumbling with inferior hair dye. She proudly showed me the hair dye spelled by Aunt Zhang downstairs, and the effect was better than that of the barber shop. This is the first time I know that she has started to dye her hair. It turns out that mom's black hair is not taken for granted.

When my parents finally admitted that there was nothing they could do, I suddenly realized that my parents were old.

Some netizens said: One day my mother sent me a WeChat, saying that I didn't seem to see anything recently, and I was suddenly scared to cry. My mother is old, but I have accomplished nothing myself. I have never even done anything to make her proud. ...

I remember when I was a child, my father liked to drink a little wine, usually a pot of wine and a small dish of peanuts. In recent years, I found that he began to think peanuts were too hard and always said that his mouth was useless.

3. When parents' digestion is getting worse and worse, they put down their favorite dishes, their clothes are getting thicker and thicker, and their mouths are getting more and more nagging.

Some netizens said: When eating, dad actually took the initiative not to eat so much rice and didn't want to eat too much meat. He used to like to cook all kinds of big fish and meat. He is really old, so that the feedback from his body makes his appetite compromise actively. This feeling touched the door in my heart that I didn't want to face but was caught off guard. I will even miss when he can eat and cook, and when he is covered with delicious food.

In dog days, everyone else wears half-sleeved shorts, but my parents wear trousers. I asked if it was hot, and they solemnly warned me that you young people will regret it when you get old because you wear so little.

The last time I found out that my father was old was after I worked for more than a year. My dad frequently sends me voice messages, repeating one sentence for 3-5 times, and frequently transferring pseudoscience to friends circle: eggplant can cure all diseases, 10 philosophy of happiness and health. Be careful when these things happen to you, and which fruits must be eaten ...

When my parents stopped being omnipotent, they began to listen to my advice.

Some netizens said: A few years ago, my parents and I were still competing with each other. My mother likes to quarrel for no reason at all. My father always has a golden rule for people who have experienced it. As a result, I was defeated. Now they rely on me for everything and listen to my advice more and more, but I panic …

When my parents first asked me for help. At this moment, I knew that my mother was old, from an all-knowing person who educated and protected me and was looked up to by me, to a person I wanted to educate and protect.

When parents become more and more cautious in front of themselves.

Some netizens said: I don't remember when she began to give up "listening to politics" in this life. Although she still tried to interfere with my choices, for example, I was going to resign a while ago, and she was worried and nagging in front of me. One day I finally got tired of listening and couldn't help putting chopsticks on the table. She immediately shut up and never mentioned it again. I realized that my mother was getting old. She is a very powerful woman, gradually becoming gentle, becoming a little afraid of me, and beginning to learn to look at children's faces. Before I release it, if I dare to disobey her face to face, the consequences will be unimaginable.

Some people say that the best thing in the world is: I have grown up, but you are not old; I have the ability to repay you, and you are still healthy. When parents are no longer young, what they need most is company. Remember to go home often and leave a good position for "home" in your busy schedule; Remember to chat with your parents more often, and brief greetings can also warm them for many days.

Dad is back, mom is nagging, so take your time.