Also in college, some people are busy picking up girls and others are busy playing online games. A young computer major came across the book Light in Silicon Valley in the library. He can't put it down when he picks it up. Back to the dormitory, my eyes hurt from morning till night. My roommate said I had dinner, and he said you could help me get some. After reading the book, there are few moon stars outside the window. He couldn't calm down for a long time, so he came to the playground and stepped on the plastic track. He walked round and round, the trees swaying and the breeze swaying. People thought he was lovelorn, but he wasn't. What ignited was his inner flame, and there was a feeling that Liu Bang was a gentleman in those days. This man is Lei Jun, and the two people he admires most in his life are Jobs and Liu Chuanzhi.
The pressure of reality may crush a person, but the burning flame in the heart can bring a person to the peak.
When I was young, my teacher always asked us to read stories about scientists, biographies and famous sayings. Unfortunately, many people regard it as a burden and cope with it, but they are not encouraged by it, so that rich nutrition can penetrate into the blood, set a benchmark for themselves and find spiritual food for struggle.
The role of benchmarking is of great significance at all stages of life.
At the age of 40, after Liang Dong came out from Baidu, he suddenly felt lost in life and didn't know what to do. He visited Cai Zhizhong and others and was infected by their intelligence. After 40 years old, he decided his career direction: Chinese studies and Chinese medicine.
Ask many friends in life, who do you admire most? What I often see is a face of embarrassment, and then I want to say that the person I admire most is myself. This is not because they are arrogant, but because they have not found a benchmark in life and have not set up a spiritual vane. In desperation, they gave an ironic answer.
Most people who have no benchmarks in life will not achieve much. Among my friends, there are many talented people. In my opinion, they can live a good life and make great achievements in some fields, but the reality is very general. In the final analysis, it has nothing to do with ability. There is no flame in the heart, no benchmark to follow, and no matter how high the talent is, it can't shine like a star in this world.
If you want to ask me who is the benchmark of life, I will say two people.
One is Li Fang. I like this old man very much. Although his fame is not great compared with that of a-list stars, I like him from the first time I saw his speech on TV. He is humble and sincere, and his feelings are rich and profound. People of his age have gone to keep in good health, so he loves to toss about and is willing to be with young people and have all kinds of fun. Play "Never See You Again" with Han Han and "Apple" with Li Yu. In order to carry forward the ancient art of locking the door and increase the schedule of the cinema, "Hundred Birds at the Phoenix" did not hesitate to kneel down and cry. His attitude towards things, his understanding of happiness, and his philosophy of life-being your own master, no matter how small the boat is, also make me remember it vividly.
One is Wu Xiaobo. Internet celebrity, young man, born of scholarly family. After graduation, he joined the Xinhua News Agency, and a lot of practical observation made him accumulate a lot of materials. The series of "Great Failure" and "Agitation" made him quickly popular and became a role model for young people. Influenced by Chen Jin's outlook on money, he is not only a scholar, but also a businessman. The successful transformation of his life made him gain both spiritual and material harvest, and he just stepped on a point and found a balance in the dual personality attributes of literati and businessmen. It not only avoids the sadness of traditional literati, but also enables them to be economically independent, have jobs that do not make a living, and speak independently without being kidnapped by interest groups.
The benchmark of life is like a lighthouse in the dark, which can illuminate the way home when we are confused and helpless.
The pressure of reality will bring pain, and the inner flame ignited by the benchmark can be full of expectations and transcend suffering!