Hello! Knowing your helplessness, anyone who has such a father will generally hate him. Your father's situation is paternalistic For you, under such circumstances, don't care so much about him, so as not to affect your normal family happiness and work. For his selfishness, you can beat about the bush with Grandet's story. You can also talk to him in a joking tone when he is in a good mood, because there are too many accidents. I suggest you reflect on your words and deeds more, and don't compare our situation with others, because everyone has their own things to do, and everyone's situation is different. So as not to increase your troubles and affect your normal good mood. You can also say, I earn money for a month, and I want to save money. When you are old, I don't want to be unable to support you richly. Don't treat me like a capitalist exploiting workers now, be careful that I will dominate workers like workers, otherwise I may be the overbearing president. ? . Because he doesn't go to your grandfather's house to pay New Year's greetings, it also shows that he doesn't know manners and etiquette, and you are happier if he doesn't go.