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Six chapters of a floating life: happiness and sorrow are all tastes.
Six Chapters of a Floating Life is an autobiographical narrative prose by Shen Fu, a scholar in Qing Dynasty. The second dictionary of floating life says that Li "If floating life is a dream, what's the fun?" I also feel the cloud of Dongpo: "Things are like spring dreams without trace. It's too thick for you not to remember pen and ink. " Therefore, the boudoir music, leisure, ups and downs, travel notes, Zhongshan calendar and health records are called "Six Chapters of a Floating Life". However, birds of a feather flock together and the last two records were lost. The next two records today are made up by later generations, which is not enough for observation.

Yu Pingbo's evaluation of Six Chapters of a Floating Life is: "Just like a pure crystal, only the jade is seen, but the color of the jade is not reflected;" I only see subtlety, but I can't see traces of subtle production. " Read it, really.

? 0 1 once the sea was difficult for water.

Years don't live, the four seasons flow; In the twilight, it suddenly came. Shen Fu's most unforgettable and proud thing in his later years was meeting his mother.

For ancient literati, it is most appropriate to marry a woman who is both knowledgeable and talented, such as her mother. She is the daughter of Shen Fu's uncle, Mr Xinyu. She has known Shen Fu since she was a child, and she was a childhood friend.

When she was young, she was very clever. She learned the phrase "Autumn invades the body, and chrysanthemums are fat". Shen Fu's description of his appearance is "shoulder-cutting, long neck, thin and unobtrusive, beautiful eyebrows, looking forward to flying, only two teeth slightly exposed, which seems unsightly", but "a lingering state, which makes people's meaning disappear" and "I am attracted by love, although I am ugly."

Once Shen Fu went to her mother's house, and the bride hid porridge for him, and there were also side dishes. I didn't expect to be found making fun of her, which made Shen Fu leave angrily. Then I secretly gave it to him. After reading it, people can't help laughing at their embarrassment and being infected by their mother's concern.

What Shen Fu remembers from her mother is not only intimacy, but also her intellectuality and humor.

The entertainment of two people is to teach the books of the past and enjoy the flowers on the moon. There are poetry jokes with the word "white" as the protagonist; There are also jokes between gentlemen and villains who are far away from bergamot and close to jasmine.

Both of them love flower arrangement and bonsai. Shen Fu is good at cutting potted trees, but he is soft-hearted and loves branches and leaves, so he can't bear to cut more. When Shen Fu lamented that there was no "method of insects" to add charm to bonsai, his clever mother gave him a "method of acupuncture", which was really cute and not afraid of offending. Stabbed the mantis cicada butterfly to death with a needle, tied it between flowers and plants, and then held the stalk and stepped on the leaves. Later, some people praised it when they saw it, which was vivid and interesting.

At this time, Shen wrote: "In the boudoir of searching, I am afraid that there may not be such a knowledgeable person today." I don't think Shen Fu will just say that no one knows the method of potted plants except him; It is also a deep confession to my mother, knowing who I am, except my mother.

And the smart, lively and lovely side of mom.

During the visit to the Narcissus Temple, my mother thought that she was a woman and it was not convenient to go. Encouraged by Shen Fu, she boldly put on men's clothes. When the installation is completed, "I no longer look in the mirror and laugh wildly"; When he went to dinner, he pretended to be Shen Fu's cousin. During the dinner, I unconsciously pressed a young woman's shoulder, and the maid next to me got angry. Seeing this, my mother was distressed, so she took off her hat and cocked her feet when everyone was at a loss, and said helplessly, "I am also a woman's ear." As a result, everyone laughed at the "big oolong".

Mother Yun is very careful and easy to get. She knew that Shen Fu loved to drink a little wine and didn't like many dishes, so she specially made a plum blossom box for him. Take six two-inch white dishes, one in the middle and five outside, arranged in plum blossom shape, with a concave bottom cover and a handle on the cover, which looks like a pedicel. At first glance, it looks like a plum blossom, covered with tables; Another example is putting vegetables in petals: a box of six colors. When two or three confidants get together to drink, they can take it from the plate at will and add it after eating, which is very exquisite and convenient.

When you are in bloom in summer, pinch a little tea with a small gauze bag, put it in when you are in bloom in the evening, take it out when you are released tomorrow morning, and soak it in natural spring water, which is particularly fragrant. By this time, I can't help but admire my mother's intelligence and interest in life, and I also envy Shen Fu for cultivating the blessings of eight generations.

? He has never been a servant in his life.

When I didn't finish reading, I thought that Shen Fu and Yunniang, a talented woman and a beautiful woman, would grow old together with their children and grandchildren. But after reading it, I feel very depressed and gloomy. Also gradually, slowly understand why Shen Fu was named "Floating Life", feeling that "things are transformed, like a dream".

The gale began at the end of qingping. After marrying Shen Fu, Yunniang got up early every day for fear that her in-laws would say she was lazy. But in the world, this is often the case. The more you try, the smoother everything will be, and nothing will be smooth.

When helping her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law believed in rumors, so she didn't ask for ghostwriting, but her father-in-law thought she despised ghostwriting, so she was suspicious. Shen Fu wanted to defend himself, but she said, "It's better to blame Weng than to go with my aunt", so she fell out with her father-in-law. After my father-in-law married a concubine, my mother-in-law made preparations for this. My mother-in-law learned that she was angry with her later mother-in-law, so she broke up with her mother-in-law. Who knows that Shen Fu borrowed money from Qi Tang and asked his mother to be a guarantee, but when he paid off his debts, he vilified his mother and made his father-in-law furious, and everything was superimposed. In a rage, he drove the couple out of the house.

Shen's father was impulsive and his mood fluctuated greatly. Later, he found that this was not the case and recalled them, but the couple also suffered a lot outside.

I am deeply impressed by Yunniang's intellectual cuteness, and I am more inclined to her infatuation. What is the origin of the ups and downs of life? It is said that they often destroy themselves.

My mother wants to take a concubine for Shen Fu, and she is looking for a prostitute in Zhejiang. Regardless of his background, he made a private vow, but his mother finally stopped him from marrying someone else. My mother failed me in her stupid garden. Her mother lost her brother. She was ill in bed with blood disease. A wave of unrest, another wave. Sister Fahrenheit sent someone to inquire about her illness, but her father-in-law sent her to Hanyuan by mistake, and she got into the old habit of getting excited again. She was furious: "Your wife broke the precepts of the boudoir and made an alliance with prostitutes; If you don't want to learn, you are a little person. I don't have the heart to kill you. Gu Kuan has a three-day limit, so be quick and think for yourself. Be the first to rebel if it is late! " In desperation, the couple were expelled from their homes again.

Slang says, "Money is the only way to help your family." . When she left, she was forced to make a living and made her daughter Jun Qing a child bride in despair. The mother still remembers her infatuation and said to her daughter, "Your mother is unlucky and infatuated, so she has suffered this. Fortunately, your father treated me very well, so there is nothing to worry about. " After being kicked out of the house, my mother used embroidery to make up for her illness, and even her illness worsened, and she still had no complaints.

The husband and wife moved to Huaming, Wuxi, and the sheep mother got a blood disease and became stronger and stronger. Who knows that the maid took advantage of Shen's father to go out and absconded with the money, and the sheep mother was in a hurry and was in danger. Shen Fu went to see a doctor for her and stopped him from spending money for her. He also said: "I remember that I sang with No.23 Middle School, and I was wrongly loved by you. I am compassionate and I will not give up my stubbornness. My bosom friend is like a king, so I have a husband. I have no regrets. "

The bride left Shenfu with regret. Shen recalled: "At that time, there was a lonely lamp, no friends, empty hands and a broken heart." I hate God, but Mother Sheep just wants to be a good wife. Why is her fate so rough and cruel?

? This moment should last forever.

"Sad pictures can't be drawn." After his mother left, Shen recalled the matter of "Mei Wife Crane" and named it. It would be even more ridiculous if "Lost Birds in the Woods" wrote "insufficient love between husband and wife" and so on, and advised couples all over the world not to hate each other and not to be too affectionate.

For most of Shen Fu's life, even though he lived in poverty, he was accompanied by his mother, "a plain meal with clothes and a coke for life".

Shen Fu spent the rest of his life trying to ease the pain of losing his wife. When I recall, I emphasize "the omen of early death" over and over again to convince myself that breaking with my mother's fate is "God's arrangement". When I was unmarried, I looked at the manuscript of a poem by a nun and recalled that "I didn't know the chance of dying young, which has already fallen behind"; When they got married, in July (Ghost Festival), on the bank of Canglang Pavilion, mother was frightened and burned badly. However, Shen Fu believes that "it's really a sign of happiness and decline, and it's also a sign of growing old together."

After that, I shared the wine alone, and there was no one to accompany me until late at night. No one stood with me at dusk and told me that the porridge was still hot.

Until the end of his life, Shen Fu probably couldn't get out of his memory. Otherwise, why do you use most of the pen and ink to tell your mother's past, interspersed with "fate" to comfort yourself, while the matter of friends and concubines has been brushed aside? Finally, why did you say, "From now on, I don't know when I will wake up."

I have always been affectionate, but I am not blessed; Heaven is affectionate, not long-lasting, and there are many loving couples in the world. Su Shi bid farewell to the prime king, unforgettable for ten years; Lu You met Tang Wan in Shen Yuan, although Meng Shan was there, the brocade book was hard to believe; Gui Youguang recalled that his wife planted trees, and now she is graceful; He looked at his wife's portrait with silent tears.

If you are a dream, what is the geometry of happiness? Joy and sadness are both tastes.

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